Exchanging of Social Media Passwords to your BF? yes or No

[jieunae]

Ewan sa kin lang to pero mas maghihinala ako kung sasabihan ako na basahin ko.Baket?kasi nabura na nga ang dapat burahin?Mas gusto ko pa un diko alam na pwede ko pala mabuksan tapos accidentally mabubuksan ko tapos wala naman makikita.
Nangyari to before sa min ni bf.Naiinis siya pag pinapakialaman ko un fb nya before.So nilagyan nya ng password phone nya.Then one time ginamit nya un pc ko.Ewan kung sinadyang di i logout or nakalimutan lang talaga.My notification nag pop out so ako naman nakialam.Kinalkal ko un messages, pics, lahat2x.Wala akong nakita.Thats why I trust my guy.

[mysterioza_me]

Alam namin pareho pw ng fb accounts ng bawat isa. Nagno-notify din sa akin messenger niya kapag may new message siya. Nawe-weirduhan lang ako kasi normally girls ang pala-check ng socmed accounts ng guys nila pero kami baligtad. Mas madalas magcheck ng fb ko ang partner ko. Everyday niya chinicheck and several times pa in a day.

[superjuzh]

i tried kunin pero narealize ko na wag na kasi privacy na niya yun. at malabo ko din ibigay yung sakin kasi kahit di ako nagloloko ayaw kong mababasa niya yung messages ko sa friends or family ko.

[badw33d]

based on the replies, we don't want to give it out due own or personal agendas. :-) it doesn't have to be pagloloko, its just we hide things right? boils down to relationship thing.

if we be more open (except for surprises like birthday or other things), will be far better and wouldn't be an issue.

[DeathToMondays]

No. That's going too far. I have nothing to hide from him, but I like having my own space.

If you feel the need to play detective with your partner by keeping tabs on their social media accounts, then it's not the right relationship for you. Have a little self-respect, too. 

[shinies]

Oo kung matagal na kayong mag-BF. Di siya isyu kung wala naman tinatago.
Kahit naman alam password, pwede pa din magbigay ng privacy by not logging in.
Kumbaga eh may confidence ka na ibigay access sa kanya at may confidence ka na hindi naman niya titignan.

OA na lang siguro yung talagang nakabantay sa account aba eh kanya na lang kaya yung account mo

[DeathToMondays]

A lot of people think that imposing the rule of exchanging social media passwords, thinking that if you have nothing to hide, you shouldn't have a problem, will eliminate cheating or guarantee fidelity.

This isn't love, this is control.

Demanding that you exchange passwords only communicates to your partner that you don't trust them, which is unattractive and makes you unrespectable. It tells your partner that you cannot manage your insecurities like an adult so you need to impose your restrictions on other people's personal space to make yourself feel better. Who wants to be with a partner that acts like your warden?

Can you really see yourself growing old with someone who constantly needs to keep checking on your social media accounts because they lack the maturity to get a grip on their fears?
 
Even if you take all 20 passwords to your partner's social media accounts and run them yourself 24/7, if they have the natural inclination to cheat, they will find a way to do so. And if you keep smothering them like that, you'll only push them away.

[triciaaamaldita]

For us, yes.
We know the passwords of each other's accounts. Hindi nga lang social media eh, as in lahat pati sa banks, emails, atm, or anything you could imagine.
And no. It's not that we don't trust each other. Minsan kasi nakakalimutan ng isat isa so ang ginagawa namin, iisang password nalang para palaging natatandaan. hahaha And hindi naman namin ini stalk ang isat isa. Lalo na siya, parang once a wk lang ata nag e-FB yun.

[jamimi29]

Kami ng boyfriend ko, Yes. We know each other's passwords, tapos naka login din accts namin sa individual phones namin.

[plumpolka]

no. privacy na nya yun. kahit pa ibigay nya sakin, nakakalimutan ko din naman. d ko kailangan passwords nya sa mga accounts nya, although sinasabi nya sakin pin ng atm nya. pero ayoko masyado manghimasok sa private life nya lalo na bf ko palang sya. i believe kasi na kahit mag-asawa na kayo or in a relationship palang kayo, you still have your own separate lives. hayaan mo ko, hayaan kita basta we are on the same boat.  and wag lang sya papahuli sakin. dahil kahit naman anong gawin mong pagttrack ng socmed nya, kung magloloko yan, magloloko yan. so bat ko pa dadagdagan mga iisipin ko sa buhay, sariling password ko nga nakakalimutan ko hahaha! its okay to share pero to require na ibigay, ibang usapan na yun. kung sabihin nya ok lang, kung hindi, i respect his privacy.

[vainjinir]

No. I do not want to share my accounts cause for me it is too private. I am not comfortable with him knowing every conversation I have with my girl friends. Buti nalang di demanding si bf na ibigay ko socmed accounts ko. But we're open pagdating sa phone, he can have my phone and lappy whenever he wants basta not my socmed passwords haha

[teejiko]

No. I prefer na we have our own privacy. Kahit binigay niya sakin yung password niya, hindi ko din naman natandaan and no intention din naman na buksan mga soc med accounts niya. He can have my phone and browse sa mga feeds ko, no problem. Pero sharing ng passwords, no.

[MayVerona]

alam namen yung password bawat social media or email bakit may kailanga bang itago ang isa't isa? nag kitaan na nga kayo ng private part yun pa kayang privacy sa social bawal?? duhhhhh HAHAHAHA just my opinion

[Miss Taken]

Nope. Actually kahit nung hindi pa kami ng bf ko sinabi na niya saken voluntarily yung password niya kaso hindi ko na maalala at wala din naman akong intensyon na iopen yung account niya. Nagulat pa nga ako nun then I told him na hindi talaga ako ganung gf ever since. Then now, mas lalong walang reason to give out the passwords since magkasama naman na kami.

We don't know each other's socmed pw pero anytime naman pwede namin gamitin yung phone ng isat't isa kaya walang problema

[super bratinella]

hubby set my password and ang fb niya sa phone na naka save there are times siya ang nagpapabasa ng message sa akin or ako pinapa chat gamit fb niya  tapos ako ayoko kasi tinatamad ako.

[mysterioza_me]

Nalimutan ni bf ang fb password niya nagtanong sa akin kung ano password niya kaso nakalimutan ko na din. I don?t open his fb kasi and yung messenger naman niya naka-auto login na sa cp ko.