Advice?

[khaleesiCersei]

No sis, action drama siya, it was a good film. I liked it

[shiny]

haha... ok, pero dami kong natutunan sa inyo :-)

[amethyst028]

a simple "hi" would suffice then let him make the next move. asking consecutive questions would seem like you're trying too hard. just accommodate him kung kausapin ka niya but don't always initiate. guys don't like girls who are very eager.

no matter how shy a guy is if he wants you he will make it happen. you can try to talk to him but treat him as one of your long time friend, comfortable and easy not stiff or pilit. let him come to you don't go out of your way for him. he will notice that and it might turn him off. guys wants to feel like a guy. they want to do the chasing not the other way around.

[shiny]

thanks for that perspective :-)

[bluebeads]

sis may progress na ba? hehe

[shiny]

wala pa e... di pa kami uli nagkikita.  miss him na

[Girltalker2]

^ you mean you miss looking at him na

[shiny]

oo, I miss his presence, and just looking at him. 
last time kasi, he made an attempt to approach me. pero merong kumausap sa akin na lalaki , medyo elder, needs someone to talk to.  hayun, he stepped back. kaya, hay, sa tinginan na lang uli.  I couldn't tell my friends din kasi e...   Balitaan ko kayo, kapag nag meet uli kami , I mean, nagkatinginan.

[bluebeads]

Sis! dami namin naka abang sa story mo =)

Sana enough na itong moral support namin para maka start ka ng convo sa kanya hahaha

di naman sa ni pressure ka namen, we just want to see your story progree and we are here for you =)

[shiny]

Thanks... I will, napangiti naman ako.  Good morning!

[iwannabeasupermodel]

^ it's an oscar movie ata? i think i watched that na lol.

anyway yes life is too short. and lol for me to hell with the elderlies lol. have someone else introduce you two guys then.

[shiny]

- You're right, will be braver, Thanks Sis!

[amethyst028]

^ not to give you any negative vibes pero at this day and age na lahat fast paced na parang napaka bagal naman ng guy na yan.

don't wait for him and don't assume that he likes you. live your life, expand your social circles and have fun. in my experience the guy that really wanted me exerted all the efforts and i didn't have to do anything.

you want a guy who is brave to approach you, who is aggressive enough to get to you because that will determine what kind of relationship you will have. do you want to always be the one to pursue him? if you initiate now and it works you are setting the tone of what your future relationship will be like.

pabayaan mo na yun. kung hindi siya gagawa ng move let him be. don't waste your time pinning for someone who doesn't even have the courage to say "hi". sorry if this sounds harsh but i'm giving you the hard truths. it might not be what you want to hear but you have to be realistic and practical as well.

[shiny]

thanks sis, for the other idea.  will remember it

[Girltalker2]

^^ sis I agree

You know the worse part? TS has an image of how the guy is, before even getting to know him. Baka Ma disappoint lang si TS tapos nag antay pa sya ng matagal tagal for nothing

[stebsy]

Shiny, hello ano balita?

Nag kiss na ba kayo? dalawang buwan na yan. 

[shiny]

Naku sis, ganun pa rin. quite awkward kasi alam mo yung nag lo lock lang tingin namin. wala syang ibang tinitingnan.  then that's it. then when on seat, he will have that action of his na kinikilig - kasi di mapakali tapos ang ngiti hanggang tenga. .. ganun lang...  siguro kasi umalis din ako agad after the mass. I didn't stay long. 

sorry no kilig update though pag naiisip ko yun, napapangiti ako. funny, I caught a glimpse ng kina Ian at Bea na tinginan. ganun lang kami :-)   

[stebsy]

^ How much do you like him ba? Not enough para makipag usap ka sa kanya? Hangang kelan kayo mag papa sweetums? Baka mamaya may jowa na pala yan ha.