Nga pala, may nakaaway ako na batchmate nun 2015, sobrang negative kasi so ayun pinatulan ko hehe. Last year nagkasakit mom nya and he asked for financial help sa batch namin. Take note he unfriended me sa FB but I sent money pa din through one of our batchmates (bilin ko lang not to tell that I donated). Then pina-follow up nya sa sister nya yun donation ko (batchmate din namin yun sister nya), I did not respond to her PM (seen zone ko lang cause I didn't know what to say). So siguro nainis sa akin, she unfriended me din. Ironically, yun batchmate namin na binigyan ko ng pera, mas malaki pa daw donation ko kesa sa kanya pero ganyan nga nangyare (gigil nga siya, she wanted to tell them na pero ayoko lang talaga). I also just wanna ask if they sent me bad vibes because of that? I still don't want to let them know that I donated. At teka, porke ba hindi nag-donate ang tao, tatratuhin mo na ng masama yun? Ganun nga ba yun?
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noon campaign season and philippine elections, ang gulo gulo ng batch ko over facebook. on a different front naman, friends from different fields. mas lalo na sa batch ko kasi many come from yellow roots, some of my batchmates naman are holding public positions now. so just imagine the clash of "perceptions".
nung nagkakainitan na ang lahat, whether nakikinig sila o hindi, eto lang sabi ko sa kanila:
yun bang opinion nila, yung kandidato nila, whether duterte man, miriam, robredo or mar....yan ba eh pag nangailangan ka ng dugo, pera, payo, suporta, sila ba susulpot? magpapautang ba mga yan? bibigyan ka ba nila ng dugo?
kasi kung OO / YES
then by all means, cut off your friendships. unfriend mo mga kaibigan mo sa facebook.
yung kaibigan mong, nakasama mo sa pag laki mula nursery hanggang high school, yung iba, nursery hanggang college or even from nursery up to now....
yung mga kaibigan mong kilala mo for 10-20 years or more...
sige...itapon mo yung 10, 20, 30 years ninyong samahan
para sa opinion mo, or kandidato mo.
pero kung hindi mo masigurado na bibigyan ka ng dugo ng mga taong yan; or bibigyan ka ng dugo ng opinion mo..
to throw away deeply forged friendships and relationships is plainly STUPID.
kaya ayun. medyo kumalma yung iba.
as for your friend. well. in my book. if you unfriend someone. it means you totally cut connections.
if you want to reconnect. then reconnect. magpa kumbaba ka. dont ask someone else to reconnect for you...
since hindi nila alam nag bigay ka, they're bound to think that way. just let them know you gave money...your friend will prove it naman. kung ayaw nila maniwala. wala magagawa.
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when we breach the middle point of the theoretical human life span, life becomes too short.
lalo na when you're aware of how evolution works, sayang ang 10-20 30 years ng pagiging cold sa isang kaaway. sayang din if you werent able to correct man lang a negative attitude.
ive seen families regret yung mga attitude ng elders nila nung isa isa na silang sumasakabila...
kung kelan kasi nagkakaroon ng mga financial and health issues, doon lang nila napag papache pache...napag coconnect connect...na yung mga daing nila ay nag mula sa mga ginawa nila many decades ago....too late na...
kahit hindi pa sila well versed sa esoteric, time, age and illness/difficulty have made their minds open.