I'm confused

[geraldita03]

Is it normal to be afraid of your boyfriend? Takot ako masaktan niya ulit emotionally. Cool off kami ngayon pero nag cha-chat and [textspeak!] naman siya paminsan minsan. He wanted space kasi clingy ko na and he's been busy s med school. We've been 6 years na in a relationship. And LDR din kami for about 1 year pero nagkikita naman pag sem break or summer or Christmas break. Ano ba dapat gawin? Takot na talaga ako masaktan e. The break up and cool off happened before na din kaya I'm a bit traumatized from what happened. Please help.

[simang]

To answer your question, not it's not "normal' to be afraid of your partner... You're not supposed to be afraid of your partner. I guess the more appropriate question is... do you like yourself when you're with him? Gusto mo ba ang setup nyo na ganyang on-off?