Signs of physical/sexual attraction from men

[diamondsinthesky]

Hey Guytalkers! I'm really, really curious. Could you share some of the signs that tell if a man is attracted to a woman? Like, anong klaseng body language ang madalas pinapakita?

Females can share insights as well.

[hushush]

Usually hindi body language yun napansin ko nun dalaga pa ako..usually yun weird acts or yun tinatawag nilang "da moves".. pag may guy na laging bumabati sayo, nginingitian ka..then minsan iti-treat ka pa out of nowhere.kahit di nya bday or di nya bday..o kaya para lang mapansin mo sya magpapansin like sasabihin may dumi ka sa hair or yun damit mo gusot.parang budol-budol style..hehe..o kaya act of kindness.like ako favorite ko manuod ng movies then may nagbibigay sakin ng burnt movies sa dvd. minsan weekly binibigyan ako or kung magrerequest ako "pakiburn mo naman yun ganto movies kung meron ka".sa guy na di ka type low priority yun like "sige pag di ako busy" , "sige next week na lang". Pero sa guy na type ka, kinabukasan or after 2days meron na yan ibibigay, minsan may bonus pa na "nagburn din ako ng korean love stories baka magustuhan mo lang". O kaya iti-treat ka sa big screen kahit di sya mahilig manuod ng movies lalo na pag horror. (Like my hubs)
May ibang guys na dining or foods ang tactic..iinvite ka kumain sa ganto or ganyan kasi gusto nya itry kasi bagong bukas lang kuno kahit 1yr nang existing yun resto..parang date na din syempre. chance na for getting to know...
Basta yun tipong gusto lagi kang kasama o nakikita at nakakausap, na laging masaya kapag kasama ka, walang dudang type ka nun..

[bluebeads]

Sa panahon now, fast forward na yung mga kabataan.  Sa observation ko lang naman.

Depends siguro sa age group pero I noticed sa mga guys around our workplace na between 20 up to late 20's, up front na sila to ask girls na mag dinner or movie.  Unlike before na mga days or months yung pakiramdaman.

But 1 sign that I could share I guess is that yung pag magka message or sms kayo, it seems laging nag open ng topic para wag matapos yung convo.  LOL Until the time na before mag sleep and pagka gising messages puro "Sorry late reply, I fell asleep and I just woke up...by the way...." then itutuloy yung topic last night.   Tapos buong araw na ulit magka usap.  hahahaha.. Tapos pag dating ng night may banat yung isa sa inyo na "Good night na, baka makatulugan na naman kita... Talk to you tomorrow"  LOL

[dismembered]

"Sorry late reply, I fell asleep and I just woke up...by the way...." then itutuloy yung topic last night.   Tapos buong araw na ulit magka usap.  hahahaha.. Tapos pag dating ng night may banat yung isa sa inyo na "Good night na, baka makatulugan na naman kita... Talk to you tomorrow"  LOL

Boom. Guilty!

[khaleesiCersei]

Effort haha! Para sakin yan yung sign na may pagnanasa sayo yung guy hehe. Tsaka nice siya sayo, pag nag ask ka ng favor, oo agad hehe. Tama yung panay ang text or pm sayo at puro pa cute ang message lol! Panay tingin din or kung nasan ka andun din siya.

[bluebeads]

Di ba? Ganyang ganyan ang mga getting to know you stage hehe kulang nalang pati pag utot, uupdate sayo! LOL

Sign rin siguro yung mga banat na,  "I'm going out this weekend with my highschool barkada, wanna hang out with us?"

Tapos pag sumama ka ... ang reaction ng friends "Ah... siya pala yon?!"  hehe



I think isa pang clear indicator is kung ka work mo siya, tapos ang hilig sa mga random bigay?  Kahit simpleng milk tea lang, or take out meals.... or chocolates..  =)

[hushush]

While masaya yung mayat maya na nagtetext sayo yun guy eh masasawa ka din later on at maiisip mo din "wala bang  ibang ginagawa tong taong to kundi magtext/magchat?"..isipin mo na lang kung ganun sya at halos walang time mag-study o tumulong sa gawaing bahay e di much worse kapag naging kayo na.for sure panay text/chat din yan sa ibang babae o kabarkada.habit na nya yun eh. Sa tingin mo hihinto sya sa katetext kapag kayo na hehee. ..kung nagwowork naman yun guy at palagi din nakakapagtext/chat sayo e hindi sya efficient sa work nya at later on magreresign o ite-terminate ng company dahil hindi nagtatrabaho nang maayos. Therefore hindi yan magiging good provider..hahha. .esep esep girls...mas maige yun may direct interaction kayo with the guys na type nyo din at wag masyado mag-entertain ng manliligaw thru socmed or texting...kung talagang gusto kayo nun guy iencourage nyo na magkausap kayo nang personal para malaman nyo yun sincerity nila

[bluebeads]

^Napunta lang yung topic sa text ng text or chat because the original question was anong yung signs na type ng guy si girl  =)

"Hey Guytalkers! I'm really, really curious. Could you share some of the signs that tell if a man is attracted to a woman? Like, anong klaseng body language ang madalas pinapakita? "


Nag set lang kami ng mga example based on our experience =) 

About always keeping in touch via SMS or chat,  I do not see anything wrong with that. 
I have been with my boyfriend for more than 9 years, we live together and yet when we are not together, we still text each other every so often. 

When he goes to work, he sends me an sms pag traffic, pagka park sa office, pag mag start na ng work, during lunch break,  he calls me via facetime sa panty ng office, he sends a message or calls me if mag oovertime siya, pag on the way home na to ask ano gusto ko pasalubong, etc.   

Hindi kami ever nagkasawaan sa awa ng Diyos =)  I think case to case basis yung sawaan factor and nasa couple na yun pano nila handle na di sila magkasawaan. =)
And to mention, never kami na terminate sa work or naging bad provider.
In fact, napropromote naman kami sa work, nakaka bili ng mga gusto namin, nakaka travel and happy naman kami. =)  We can't generalize, I guess.

Going back to the topic,.. ano pa nga ba yung ibang signs? 

[glamorosa_09]

Hmmm... Additional...

Kung physical attraction lang, na nagagandahan sayo, madali lang naman makahuli ng guy na nakatingin sayo. Kasi pag tingin mo sa kanya, biglang iba ng direksyon ng tingin. As far as I know, hindi magaling yung mga lalaki sa nakaw-tingin unlike women.

Kung sexual attraction and he wants to let you know, he would hold your gaze instead of looking away. Ito parang may confidence level dito eh.

But it doesn`t mean that when a man is physically or sexually attracted to you eh he wants to pursue you or be committed to you.

[hushush]

^true.meron iba nagagandahan/nasesexyhan lang talaga

^^Nagcomment lang po ako tungkol sa texting/chatting dahil naexperience ko yan nuon. That was base on my POV..naging dalaga din naman ako at nakaranas ng mga ganyan pwera ang pakikipag-live in

Asan na nga pala yun guytalkers dito. More inputs daw

[kaythrielle]

 Body language pinapakita ng guy to a woman he's attracted to (answers vary depending on a guy's personality)

- panay ang tingin
- will approach you (kung malakas ang loob)
- will try to physically touch you (touch your hair, pinch your cheeks, chin or arm)
- mahilig mang-asar or magpatawa (because he'd want to make you laugh)
- pag magkausap kayo, his whole attention is on you
- pag nasa crowded place kayo (elevator, escalator, public vehicle) his stance will be that of a protective one
- gusto lagi nakadikit sayo even with other people around (katabi mo, nakatayo sa tabi mo, etc), or nakaharap sayo closely
- pag may ibang lalaki titingin sayo masama tingin nya dun sa lalaki
- kung may buhat kang mabigat bibitbitin nya for you
- he'd want to do things for you (surprise you, buy you things he knows you'll like, bring you food, cook for you,etc)

And the list goes on..of course other than that dapat he should be consistent..and may iba pa syang ipapakita sayo to prove himself.....wait tayo sa mga ibang gtalkers...

[Ortigas_Guy]

1. Always tries to see the girl like tries to be in the vicinity kahit di makausap directly basta masilayan.
2. Tries to find a way how to talk to the girl. Makes excuses or finds ways to interact with her.
3. Ties to get to know the girl. First kasi gusto nya makilala si girl and secondly para may info sya how to better approach si girl or make himself more attractive for the girl.
4. If they're already on speaking terms, the guy may be a bit touchy. But this would be dependent on the guy's personality since may guys talaga na super mahiyain kahit gustong gusto nya [textspeak!] girl.

Madami pa pero nabanggit na sa previous posts but keep in mind there are two extremes, the guy that wants to know the girl and the one that just plain wants the girl.

[MayVerona]

para sa aken yung body language ko pag gusto ko yung girl i cant talk to her straight HAHAHAHA kasi torpe ako pero yung girlfriend ko ngayon is just we friends in the past but i fall in love to her HAHAHA pero nung niligawan ko sya para casual lang kasi close na kami