Re: Worse wedding you experienced/seen (Part 3)

[twelvth_goddess]

Bella Creative Events  yung coordinator nya.

[imyerdamsel]

Attended a wedding last year and although it's not the worst pero ang daming sablay. Imagine the bride, about to walk the aisle but the music played was the intro of Running Man. Lol. Parang nag kagulo sa sound system, hindi ata ininform ni coord na yung friend ko ang kakanta ng bridal entrance song. Kaloka Super late na din nag start ang dinner kaya after nun ang dami umuwi.
Another recent wedding, medyo chaotic din because the coord was always MIA.

One thing I noticed on both weddings.. yung coordinator rumaraket pa as HMUA
Lesson learned, wag na tipirin ang coord and HMUA. Don't let your coord to dual hat. Pili na lang what role to take.

[kdramaholic]

^ I agree.. Wag tipirin ang coordinator kasi napakalaking role ang gagampanan nila that day! Kaya wag magpadala sa presyo and to be fair hindi naman lahat ng may panget na review ay di talaga okay. Yung iba talaga nagkakataon lang or nagiimprove naman!

[MS_JanDel]

?gree ako sis! Tsaka mas maganda if you get a coord na may experience na kesa sa newbies. Those with experience can take care if something goes wrong during your event.

[twelvth_goddess]

^This is so true. Remember that you are endorsing one of the most important days of your life in their capable hands.

[exquisitegem]

May wedding ako na-attendan recently. Beauty Queen yung host. Si Bianca Guidotti. She's gorgeous na feeling ko natalbugan si Bride kasi ang dami din nagpapapicture kay Bianca 

[mysterioza_me]

^Sis bakit siya kumuha ng beauty queen/model host? Or di aware si bride dun?

Wala ako sa mismong wedding, Napanood ko lang SDE ng sis ng officemmate ko. Halos buong shot ng bridal march nakayuko ang bride and hawak niya yung harapan na part ng gown niya para maitaas ang laylayan ng gown. Siguro sumasabit and nahihirapan siya maglakad kaya ganun. Hindi magandang tingnan sa video, obvious ang discomfort niya and conscious siya masyado. Basta nakatingin lang siya sa carpet at sa nilalakaran niya habang hawak ang skirt ng gown. Sana man lang may eye to eye contact kay groom, with feelings kaso all the time sa carpet nakipag-eye to eye. Sayang ang moment. Tapos habang binabasa ni bride yung personal vows niya nagssway-sway pa katawan niya. Future brides wag kayong ganun di maganda tingnan sa video ska di dramatic ang effect. Parang joke lang. Emotionless. 

[LuckyMe!]

^Oh the usual gown problems. Turo ng photo-video supplier ko noong wedding ko, pasimpleng sipain ko daw ang gown habang naglalakad papunta sa aisle. That way, maiwasang matapakan ang gown. Pinag-practice pa nga nila ko sa hotel habang palabas.

[LilaFowler]

^ This is one of the things I need to check when I do my first fitting. I've seen brides do the "kick-step" while walking the aisle. I really don't like it. Usually it means the dress is too long or needs a petticoat.

[mysterioza_me]

^petticoat is a good idea.

And also please be mindful kung saan ninyo isinulat ang vows ninyo. Most of the weddings that I have attended and maski napapanood ko nasa cellphone na nila ang cheatsheet nila. This particular wedding that I'm talking about earlier nakasulat sa scratch paper, yung papel pinilas lang from spring notebook, may hibla pa ng pinagpilasan sa sides. Sana stationery paper na lang or maski bondpaper na lang ang ginamit para presentable tingnan sa video. Kaka-distract na yung papel, halos sumayaw pa na parang may hineheleng baby yung bride habang binabasa vows niya.

[ultimatehousewife]

^ awww... nakakalungkot naman. it seems na hindi experienced ang wedding coordinators. nightmare nga ang wedding na yan. Sana naisip ng coordinator to bring up sa couple  ang kapakanan ng mga may participation sa wedding.

[planeticymars]

sis Feb2018bride that is tragic! I'm sorry to hear that! I can't imagine kung anong nararamdaman nyo that time.

These experiences are eye openers talaga..

[Chili1113]

feb2018bride: OMG that is so horrible!! Hay nako... now that uso ang destination wedding, all I can say is it has to be done right. Otherwise, please please brides and grooms out there DO NOT BOTHER with a destination wedding if you can't handle the logistics!!! Wag na please maki-uso and mag ambisyon mag destination wedding if you are not an organized type of person who can forsee problems, and iron out all the kinks down to the last detail. Wag na talaga, because your guests will suffer and remember your wedding as one really bad experience.

[mrs_mcta]

^I agree, sis. Or if plan mag destination wedding, make it clear to those attending kung ano yung expectation - what is covered or not in terms of expenses, logistics, etc.

My cousin got married in Boracay, and they were clear that yes, you're invited but unfortunately they weren't that 'rich' to shoulder all of our expenses, even some of it (said in a very nice way, of course ). They were just very thankful to those who attended (at their own expense: flights, hotels, etc.).

[gwyne21]

recent wedding na napuntahan ko..

Biglaan yung wedding dahil buntis na yung bride and wala pa stable jobs yung couple. majority nung gastos sa kasal ay inutang and the couple was thinking na yung makukuhang monetary gifts ay pambayad sa mga inutang for wedding (kwento sa akin ng kakilala ko na part ng entourage).

Unfortunately hindi ganoon kadami nag-pin ng money during the money dance. Also, we observed na ang tagal ng money dance.. As in, 4 songs or more na ata and the emcee was calling everyone to pin money.. as in iniisa-isa, parang roll call.. like .."mga tita at tito ng couple...o, mga friends ng couple magsabit na kayo para sa mag-asawa... mga kasama sa trabaho..etc.." ganun yung nangyari...tapos balik ulit sa roll call sa mga tita, tito, pinsan, friend, etc.. paulit-ulit yung emcee. And ang term nung emcee sa money dance is hanapbuhay ng mag-asawa...

[Tincywincy]

^ WOW!!!  sorry ha, I don't mean to sound rude or what.. pero bakit daw nila pinili to spend for the wedding na di nila afford given the situation? may pressure ba from the parents? bata pa ba sila?

[xtine]

Kahit di ako ikakasal, sarap basahin tong thread. he he he

[twelvth_goddess]

^I only have one word in mind: BASTOS. Yun sila, especially the bride. Even for the sake of pakitang tao, hinde nagawa. It says a lot about their values. I kind of feel bad for the groom.

[maedonnas]

recent wedding na napuntahan ko..

Biglaan yung wedding dahil buntis na yung bride and wala pa stable jobs yung couple. majority nung gastos sa kasal ay inutang and the couple was thinking na yung makukuhang monetary gifts ay pambayad sa mga inutang for wedding (kwento sa akin ng kakilala ko na part ng entourage).

Unfortunately hindi ganoon kadami nag-pin ng money during the money dance. Also, we observed na ang tagal ng money dance.. As in, 4 songs or more na ata and the emcee was calling everyone to pin money.. as in iniisa-isa, parang roll call.. like .."mga tita at tito ng couple...o, mga friends ng couple magsabit na kayo para sa mag-asawa... mga kasama sa trabaho..etc.." ganun yung nangyari...tapos balik ulit sa roll call sa mga tita, tito, pinsan, friend, etc.. paulit-ulit yung emcee. And ang term nung emcee sa money dance is hanapbuhay ng mag-asawa...

naloka ako dito, diko kinaya hahahah my gahd, bakit nila inassume na madami magbibigay ng money sa kasal para may maipambayad. Isang malaking pagkakamali yun. Nagsisimula palang sila, may utang na, parang di magandang panimula yun as magasawa.

Sa kasal ko, 5% lang ng total amount ng ginastos namin ang bumalik sakin. So bonus lang siya talaga hindi pupuwedeng pangbayad ng gastos sa kasal.

[shinies]

We were sad on how we were treated. B's family were so inhospitable which is so bizarre to me because bisaya are known for being hospitable.

Grabeeee! Ansabe ni G? Bat parang ok lang sa kanya?

majority nung gastos sa kasal ay inutang

Sadyang may mga taong inuuna ang kabonggahan kesa praktikalidad.