2017 Brides - Part 3

[LilaFowler]

Kami 4 pairs pero lahat mag-asawa. 2 of them ninang ko sa binyag, 1 is kapatid ng Dad ko and the other tita ng Mom ko. All very close to us.

My BM/SS lahat cousins and we grew up together. We went to school together and even after I migrated to Australia, magkakasama pa din kami kasi we lived together.

GMs are my cousins din and my brother. Kasi wala si H2B masyadong bisita coming from overseas. His best man is his best friend since he was 9. He was also his best man for his first wedding.

[Rory_Lorelie_Gilmore]

I have 2 bffs - so 2 MOH, 3 BM which will also be our SS, total of 5 pairs.

Malamang sila na din sa offerings.

Planning to get 4 pairs of PS lang. 

[rowan]

3 pairs of principal sponsors
1 MOH-2 Best Men
3 pairs secondary sponsors

Medyo bumawi lang kami sa kids coz most of them are from abroad. I gave them priority as they only have a few opportunities to be bearers or flowergirls.

3 flowergirls
6 bearers

[Rory_Lorelie_Gilmore]

1 flower girl
1 ring bearer

Enough na kaya to what do you girls think?

[nerakmd]

^ ako din, 1 flower girl and ring bearer. 1 MOH/Best man, 1 bridesmaid/groomsman, 3 secondary sponsors. Tipid kami sa abay. Pero we have 8 pairs of principal sponsors. Only 2 pairs yung mag-asawa. Having problems sa reception in terms of VIP seats. we might need to add another VIP table.

[LilaFowler]

^^ Ako din 1 flower girl lang - my stepdaughter.

Yung best man ang maghawak ng ring. Pahawak ko na lang kay MOH siguro yung arrhae.

[exquisitegem]

Ako din, the usual: 1 MOH, 3 BMs, 3 SS. Ang dami ko din kasing girlfriends so I just choose the closest na representative from different walks of my life. A colleague for 6 years/bff, HS and college dearest friends, my h2b's sister, my brother's wife.
All of them are very close to me. Yung mga ibang hindi ko nailagay, magpaparte na lang. Like offeror, reader during the mass, well-wisher during the reception, tas may isang magbibigay ng special song number.
I will be paying for the gowns of my entourage kaya di nako naglagay ng marami.

[MS_JanDel]

Girls I'm planning to get my cousins who are highschool boys to be the ring, bible and arrhae bearers. Is it okay kaya? Mostly girls kasi ang kids sa amin. I have 4 flower girls and 2 banner bearers na girls.

Sis exquisitegem ako din, yung ibang hindi nailagay sa entou, offerers and readers nalang sa ceremony especially the friends who'd be flying in from Manila

[pretty_B]

hmm... teka, rumarampa ba sa church ang bridesmaids? hehe. haaays. reading your posts, bigla akong nagworry na ang daming rarampa sa kasal ko. waaaa. flores de mayo ang peg.

i am thinking...3 pairs of PS, 1 MOH & 1 BM, 3 pairs of SS lang.

wala pa jan yung:
6 college girlfriends na pumayag naman na wag na daw sila sa veil, cord and candle para di na maginggitan. so, pwede na sila sa offering, etc. and
4-5 girl cousins na super close naman talaga sakin

ang balak ko sa mga lalaki, sa side ni h2b kumuha. but i dont think mag eequal ang number ng girls and boys namin. hays. i still have to trim down my number, sana walang magtatampuhan. especially sa mga nanay/tita namin. waaa.

[LilaFowler]

^ di naman kailangan equal yung both sides. If you want all of them to participate kasi lahat sila close sa iyo, eh di isali mo sila. Kahit na mag mukhang flores de mayo, as long as your fine with that ok lang.

[chelvin26]

Subscribing. Nov 2017 ang wedding ko. May mga question ako sisters.. Si h2b kasi have four sisters. Syempre i have friends and colleagues din na gusto ko isama.  But then 4 nga sisters nya. Only son siya and panganay. Required ba akong isali sila lahat? Kasi nung kinasal yung pang 2nd na babae.. Lahat sila kasali tapos ako s candle pa kami ni h2b. Please help..

[Rory_Lorelie_Gilmore]

Ok, thanks got it!  1 flower girl 1 ring bearer it is!

[Tincywincy]

Subscribing. Nov 2017 ang wedding ko. May mga question ako sisters.. Si h2b kasi have four sisters. Syempre i have friends and colleagues din na gusto ko isama.  But then 4 nga sisters nya. Only son siya and panganay. Required ba akong isali sila lahat? Kasi nung kinasal yung pang 2nd na babae.. Lahat sila kasali tapos ako s candle pa kami ni h2b. Please help..

IMO sis, it's not a requirement naman. kaya lang it has become a usual practice kasi na dapat part of the entourage yung siblings ng both groom and bride. pero ako, even my only sister isn't part of my ento. (her choice naman, ayoko lang ng stress)

tingin ko, if you want to please your future in-laws, put them on your list. besides may chance pa na isa sakanila or maybe more would want to be just VIP guests para like relax lang sila tee hee! or assign half as readers then half to be on the ento. Hope this helps 

[exquisitegem]

^^As long as kaclose mo sila. It is not really required. My h2b has 2 sisters, I got one as my BM. Bale sya na representative ng family nya. Kasi madami ako girlfriends e.

[MS_JanDel]

Subscribing. Nov 2017 ang wedding ko. May mga question ako sisters.. Si h2b kasi have four sisters. Syempre i have friends and colleagues din na gusto ko isama.  But then 4 nga sisters nya. Only son siya and panganay. Required ba akong isali sila lahat? Kasi nung kinasal yung pang 2nd na babae.. Lahat sila kasali tapos ako s candle pa kami ni h2b. Please help..

Sis for me hindi naman required kung hindi mo naman sila kaclose. For me kasi, the girls who will surround you on your wedding day must be girls who you're completely close and comfortable with because they're the ones who'll be looking after you. People who you can easily talk to regarding your wedding. You can have his sisters as offerers or readers nalang or maybe get the closest one(s) as part of your entourage. 

[yn061515]

Yung mga abay namin na babae at lalaki, yung talagang kaclose lang namin magasawa. pero dahil traditional kami, sa mga Principal Sponsors we let our parents decide also. Wala namang politiko at milyonaryo, yung mga kaclose talaga namin mula sa paglaki namin hanggang sa ngayon.

[chelvin26]

Thanks mga sisters ha. May mga point kau on both sides. Actually di ko sila kaclose masyado. And very rare na nakausap ko sila. And true na gusto ko na ang nasa paligid ko ay yung mga super close ko na i can talk to them. Hayst gulo hahaha baka magka issue naman kung di sila kasali diba.. Anyways salamat mga sis. Love love love

[LilaFowler]

My coordinator just sent me the list of essentials - may 10 pa na offerord and 3 na readers.

So madami pang pwedeng i-assign na roles.

I think I will assign the offerors and readers later na  when I have the RSVPs.

[pretty_B]

^wow ang dami palang roles. yung mga sis natin na gaya ko eh madami girlfriends, pwede natin sila iassign jan.

[MS_JanDel]

Thanks mga sisters ha. May mga point kau on both sides. Actually di ko sila kaclose masyado. And very rare na nakausap ko sila. And true na gusto ko na ang nasa paligid ko ay yung mga super close ko na i can talk to them. Hayst gulo hahaha baka magka issue naman kung di sila kasali diba.. Anyways salamat mga sis. Love love love

No prob sis. You can talk to them naman sis, I'm sure they'll understand. 

sis  LilaFowler ganun pala kadami ang offerors.Nice yan, mabibigyan ko ng part yung ibang friends and relatives ni h2b na magfly in.