Bf always breaks up with me

[barbillie]

TS, tinanong mo ba ang sarili mo, short-term happy ka ba o long-term happy?
Yung saya mo ba pag sweet sya sayo eh panandalian lang, kasi mas kinakain ka ng takot mo na baka pag nag-away kayo eh hahamunin ka na naman nya ng breakup? Ini-stress mo lang ang sarili mo. Don't prolong your agony sis. You might be passing the chance to meet your one true love kasi pinanghihinayangan mo yung relationship mo ngayon.

[hisana]

Sis, kung di ako nagkakamali at ito pa din yung "BF" mo na lagi mong nirereklamo simula dati pa like

1. You always pay for everything at kuripot sya sayo at sa kalusugan nya pero nakakabili ng mga gadgets pang luho nya.
2. Hindi nag eeffort para pasayahin ka sa mga romantic and sexual things
3. May fubu sya sa wechat et al.
4. Lagi kang inaaway at sinasaktan physically
5. At ngayon lagi pang nakikipag break pag nag aaway at ikaw pa ang maghahabol

LOL, naka-summarize na talaga.

[mysterioza_me]

TS dun sa mga issues mo na inilista na ng bro natin you definitely know the answer as to what to do with your bf. Ayaw mo lang kasi gawin. You already have a preview on what kind of husband he will be in future nagtitiis ka pa. Bf mo pa lang yan hindi ka pa pa nakatali sa kanya. Para di ka mahirapan let us narrow down your options: 1.) You can stay and suffer right beside your bf but please STOP complaining, ginusto mo yan e, or 2.) you can just simply end your relationship and finish your misery all at once, yan lang naman ang choices mo. Pagnakapili ka na alin man diyan end of discussion na.

[cosmochick]

Sis, kung di ako nagkakamali at ito pa din yung "BF" mo na lagi mong nirereklamo simula dati pa like

1. You always pay for everything at kuripot sya sayo at sa kalusugan nya pero nakakabili ng mga gadgets pang luho nya.
2. Hindi nag eeffort para pasayahin ka sa mga romantic and sexual things
3. May fubu sya sa wechat et al.
4. Lagi kang inaaway at sinasaktan physically
5. At ngayon lagi pang nakikipag break pag nag aaway at ikaw pa ang maghahabol.

Unfortunately, kahit pagod na pagod na ko hindi parin akong tumitigil itry to work things out.

So what is it exactly that you want??? Clearly, you don't want to end things with your BF inspite of everything. So what you can do is just Suck it up. If you don't want to help yourself, then there's nothing I can do here but just read your thread and pity you for not realizing your worth.

I pray that you find the happiness you deserve.

[amethyst028]

@jeninajenina same with my bf pag nag aaway kame break up agad ang gusto niya pero binabawi din niya after a while. we always butt heads before kasi may gusto ako na gawin niya na hindi niya ginagawa for me and siya rin hindi niya maintindihan ano gusto ko or kailangan ko.

we reached a point na wala na kame gana e 1 and 1/2 months pa lang kame sa relationship, dapat nasa honeymoon stage pa kame. nag search ako sa google about men and what do they really want pati zodiac sign niya so i can understand him better. and i also look within kung ano ba mga maling ginagawa ko bakit kame nagkaka ganito. 

i decided to look within myself, figure things out. nag search ako about men and what they want even his zodiac sign just to understand him better. i change the way i act towards him. i became more easy going, playful, giving, supportive, patient, understanding, kind etc. immediately nag iba rin siya. kung dati cold na ngayon parang nung first time na naging kame. before halos pilitin ko pa siya makipag kita sakin now siya pa ask ng ask kung kelan kame magkikita. he is also very attentive, sipag na mag text and never na rin kame nag away.

rather than looking at him, at what he does and doesn't do and taking it personally, look at your own life and how you can make things better and more fulfilling for yourself regardless of him. it's easier said than done but if you will keep doing what you're doing now chances are sa hiwalayan talaga kayo mauuwi.