This
“The wrong man will do something nice for you and complain the whole time while doing it. He’ll then
expect you to be happy, not realizing that his attitude ruined everything.”
Let’s say you love to walk along the beach, but every time he takes you, he complains. He thinks he
is earning brownie points by taking you when, in fact, he’s losing points. Sooner or later, you’ll stop
asking him to go with you. He may think he’s finally convinced you that walking along the beach is
boring but he hasn’t. You still love walking along the beach… you still want to walk along the
beach…you just are no longer interested in doing it with him.
The right man, however, will do it because he wants to make you happy. He won’t ruin your
moment with his petty personal complaints. After all, he is making you happy and at the end of the
day, in his mind, that’s what it’s all about." - Reflections Of A Man
Ang on fleek nito, ganitong ganito kinaiinisan ko e. In my case, I really really love going to the grocery. Pero kapag kasama siya, sinisita niya ako na ang tagal tagal ko mamili, especially sa mga skincare items, kasi binabasa ko pa, kinocompare ko pa, hanggang sa naiinis na ako na nasa grocery ako. Nag ggrocery pa din kami together kasi kailangan e. Pero hindi na ako ganun kasaya.
Isa pa, gusto ko bumili ng shoes, ang saya saya ko kasi sympre may bagong shoes, sus all the while silent siya at nakabusangot ang mukha sa mall. Pero pag siya sasamahan tapos nadidiscourage siya kasi mahal or hirap bagayan pero gusto niya talaga yun, ineencourage ko pa siya na sa ganitong outfit keri yan, blah blah blah. To be fair, not all the times naman, pero most of the time. Like 80% ganun.
