Regrets After wedding

[hermione28]

Overall halos wala namang flaws, yung iba ako lang naman nakapansin at tao lang naman tayo walang perfect para saten, may masisilip at masisilip tayo lalo na pag tapos ka na sa wedding high. 

Photos- ok naman photos namen pero ewan ko, nabitin talaga ko. Wala akong picture na solo with my bridal flower, ewan ko sa coordinator ko di binigay flower ko hawak nya lang, haha. Walang picture with my bridesmaids, 1 lang picture namen sa hotel naka prep robe palang ako. Walang overall photo yung Venue, pinili ko pa naman na maganda yung landscape ng venue sa labas. Bitin ako sa post nup. Yung family picture namen hindi kuha yung paa, di ko alam bakit half ang kuha nya.

Wedding Gown - I love my wedding gown, kaso sa totoo lang di ko bet ang ball gown, gusto ko talaga yung drop waist or mermaid, yung bang kita yung shape ng katawan. Kaso nung time na i bought my RTW gown ang taba ko pa, itong gown lang talaga yung bumagay saken. Tapos nung 1month thru wedding na, ang payat payat ko na, pati braso ko maliit, nagkasakit pa ko days before wedding, pwedeng pwede mag mermaid gown, kaso wala na may gown na ko. Bumili nalang ako ng trumpet style for reception hehe. 

Flowers - di ako nag specify ng exact look ng mothers, bridesmaids and sponsor flowers. Ang panget ng gawa nila. I trusted my supplier too much.

One of my petty regrets - yung wedding arras, di ko naaisip na napaka symbolic nito at maganda kung maiitabi mo sya, so bumili lang kame sa divisoria, nakakainis ang panget, sira na kaagad ngayon at puro kalawang. gusto ko na nga itapos kaso nanghihinayang lang ako sa wedding yun.

[daeyan]

Weve been married for almost 2 years na. Well actually, at first, like yung mga few months after the wedding, i didnt regret much about my p/v team. I gave them nice rating pa nga. Perfect rating pa talaga. Of course, the shots and sde were super nice. Not until this day that I got fed up.

Up to now, our full video coverage is not in our hands. Why? Its lost. According to our p/v team (a friend of mine whom i trusted a lot, admired a lot and believed a lot), it was lost and he doesnt know why. Pwede pala yun? Never pa namin napanood, never pa namin nahawakan and it just made us torn till now. He said he is trying to retrieve. For 2 years, still not retrieved?? Everytime naiisip ko to, i really felt bad.

At some point, may mali kami. I was not prepared na kelangan pala was hard drive to save it. Im not informed either. I thought initially,cd was enough. Anyway, i told him to keep for the meantime since I am working abroad and i decided na dito na lang bumili ng hard drive.  Then i gave it over to him. My p/v team was surprised either to find out na nawawala yung video namin on the day na kukunin ko na yung hard drive back. I told him, bakit walang backup? But he said, sa backup nawala. How come?

I want to give review in their page, but for friendship sake, i decided not to do. But such error, is such a disaster. 😞

[swtgrl_bee]

^Ang sakit naman niyan 

[mysterioza_me]

^^Sis tagal na nilang hinahanap mukhang nawala na talaga at di na mare-retrieve ang data. Nagoffer ba sila ng refund para dun sa service na di nila nadeliver?

[daeyan]

Then thats one more thing. Everytime inaask ko, ?pano na yan??. He will keep on telling me na he will retrieve again. He didnt even offer for refund. I dont want to bring up the topic for refund because i want him to say it first. Unfortunately, till now wala siyang say.

[mysterioza_me]

^Kaso sis 2yrs na nilang hinahanap. Siguro di naman na nakakahiya na ikaw na magbanggit ng refund. Kung tutuusin pwede mo sila idemanda.

[daeyan]

Hi sis. We are really upset. I regret this a lot. I hope other brides will learn from us. First, get a supplier not related to you. It will be easier to demand if hindi sila connected personally sayo plus the work is purely professional. walang friendship na masisira if it didnt turn it out the way it should be. (Like us. 😞) Second, get the contract. (Since we are friends, we didnt demand for contract. Sooo sad.) Third, do the followup often. If wala pa ang mga pictures, albums and videos nyo, do the needful. Araw arawin nyo sila iremind. In our case, we trusted them a lot kaya i thought our videos will be taken care of so didnt mind sending them message agad.  (Such a big fault.) Lastly, clarify to them if you need hard drive or what. Immediately after wedding, give them the harddrive and get it back from them asap.

[green_destiny]

Regrets? Getting Hizon's Catering!

3 tables are empty (we buffered talaga + even though we were assured 10% buffer) but kinulang ng food. WTH Hizons!

[swtgrl_bee]

^Sa wedding yan ang pinakamalungkot ang kulangin ng pagkain.  Aminin natin ang haba pa naman ng ceremony plus anik anik pa. Grabe naman sila, sis. 

[itsnikimendoza]

I got married 2014 pa.  gusto ko lang ishare na during our wedding siguro wrong choice ng coordinator at first. Tapos last minute kami nagdecide na palitan sila because we felt like they can't deliver kaya ang daming last minute errands na kami na mismo ni hubby ang gumawa.

[deng_08]

SIguro for me yung biggest regret ko is yung sobrang nagfocus ako na baka may aberyang mangyari sa wedding ko. Sobrang hands-on kasi ako with everything and though may otd coordinator kami, na OOC pa rin ako sa lahat ng dapat mangyari. Alam ko lahat pag mali yung pagkakalayout ng table or yung arrangement ng registration even yung seating arrangement ng mga guest and yung songs na nagpplay. Plus pa dun, it rained nung umaga and our reception is sa garden and leap of faith talaga yung ginawa namin not to have a plan b or tent man lang. Umiiyak na ko when it was raining and worried na worried ako during the pictorial. Buti na lang, gumanda yung weather nung hapon and it was perfect.
Parang for a time nawala ako sa moment na i-enjoy na lang yung wedding so medyo naging lutang ako. But overall, i was really happy naman

[lalarvera]

I am about to book her for my 2020 wedding. Now I?m worried. 😩