Regrets After wedding

[ayouweinlove]

I wish:
1. Maaga ko nalaman yung sa infinity dress para ayun na lang suot ng bridesmaid ko kasi, pwede pa nila suot in other occasion.
2. wala na lang sana ako mobile bar since di naman na consume, sana sa souveniers na lang (pero okay naman yung ref magnet na strip style)
3. nakapag suot sana ako ng contact lenses during the wedding para clear na clear ang faces ng bisita, kahit lutang na lutang na ako. 

napangiti naman ako sa 3rd regret mo, bakit nagdecide ka hindi magcontacts? hindi ka inadvise ng HMUA mo?
I've decided nadin not to get a mobile bar and ibuhos na lang sa wedding favors. 

[kdramaholic]

Yung iba naman sabi wag na mag souvenirs. Kami ang souvenir namin baka photobooth lang and the rest for PS and entourage.

[MS_JanDel]

^Sis Maukris dahil jan pipilitin ko ng magcontacts kahit hindi ako sanay hehe

Hindi na din ako magmobile bar, bibili nalang ako ng beers and wines.  Pair of slippers ang souvenir namin kasi sa may beach ang venue namin. hehe. Sana makahanap ako ng mura sa Divi. Iniisip ko pakung magphotobooth ako. haist

[LilaFowler]

^ Same tayo! I'm using tsinelas as escort cards (tags have names and table numbers). I asked for shoe sizes sa RSVP.

[MS_JanDel]

^Yay sis planning to ask sizes via the rsvp too! Where did you get the slippers that you'll be giving sis? The most mura I can find sa malls is worth 200 each.

[LilaFowler]

^ I haven't bought any yet. I asked my mom to look in Divisoria.

[MS_JanDel]

^sis share mo sakin if may makita ka. Share ko din pag may madiscover ako heheeh

[LilaFowler]

^ 3 for P100 daw sa Divi. May cheaper din but the quality is not so good. Pwede pa siguro mag haggle.

[cc1818]

^bumili din kami dati sa Divi ng slippers na P30/pair para sa isang project. Pero yung style niya is parang beachwalk na fake. Haha. yung may mga designs na medyo sosyalen, mas mahal nga lang. I cant remember the exact name of the shop pero medyo malayo siya sa bungad eh. Malapit banda dun sa nagtitinda ng mga crafts. Isang shop siya na puro tsinelas at sandals ang tinda.

[kittybabe]

Major regret - i should have let go of my 10k deposit and got another videographer instead

Minor regrets - i wished that we were able to maximize our strings in church and reception, sana i didnt cry so much during my bridal march. Halos wala ako maayos na photos and video. Hehe. Lastly, sana hindi na kami nag add ng extra drinks sa mobile bar coz half of the drinks were only consumed, so the catering staff, lights and sounds staff ended up drinking the leftovers. I didn't even remember if they made paalam after the reception if they can invade the mobile bar.

[kdramaholic]

Major regret - i should have let go of my 10k deposit and got another videographer instead

Awww.. Sis, who was your videographer? Kung ok lang na i-share mo. And what happened? Thanks!

[MS_JanDel]

^ 3 for P100 daw sa Divi. May cheaper din but the quality is not so good. Pwede pa siguro mag haggle.

oh!Thank you sis! that's a good deal!

sis cc1818 Sige sis, hanapin namin yan!. Thank you!

[exquisitegem]

Major regret - i should have let go of my 10k deposit and got another videographer instead

I'm having a dilemma. I want to book a new videographer din. But it means letting go of 10k initial deposit to our booked videographer. 😞

[itsKat!]

^exquisitegem. I had the same dilemma before. I changed my photographer and let go. Fortunately, he returned the down payment. I chose peace of mind over my down payment. But don't get me wrong, ang tagal ko din inisip yun! Take time to think and if doesn't change over a few weeks or a month (depending sa layo or lapit ng wedding mo) then choose peace of mind!

[exquisitegem]

^how did you deliver the message to the photographer sis? You told him you found a new one?

[kdramaholic]

Awwww.. I wanna know ano yung mga nagiging dahilan bakit niyo gusto magpalit or bakit kayo nagpalit ng p/v supplier?

[exquisitegem]

May nakita kasi akong sobrang nagustuhan ko sis. Very modern yung atake nya and ang ganda ng edits nya. Not the typical SDEs. Sobrang gusto ko. And mura sya kasi he's just starting.

It's just that, out of professionalism and respect sa na-book namin kaya I'm having a second thought. Magaling din kasi yung nabook namin.

[kdramaholic]

^ Oh I see sis.. Medyo mahirap nga na decision making yan.. Sa tingin ko pag-usapan niyo mabuti ni h2b yan then kung final na yung decision niyo, just be honest na lang.

[lots-o]

We had changed our pv too from package to separate and had to let go of the 10K deposit due to its written in the contract and its our fault as well kasi mga 5 months nalng wedding. Parang 6 months ata dapat. Ito rin regret ko, booking suppliers early? ewan ko kung pros or cons yun pero minsan naisip ko tapusin agad yung planning end up you will be losing money because of being fickle minded or compulsive. Kaya i suggest dapat may top 5 ka na then from top five maginquire if availabe that day, not necessarily kunwari want sya or magstick ka sa budget basta ilista mo muna lahat, then after that do your research 5-7 times. Si want ba ay sulit? what can i adjust from it?  after listing it for all you suppliers put your priority (stylist, p/v, venue, gown) lahat ng major and list down sino sa minor and alotted budget.We have to give up mobile bar, starbucks booth, high end gown ,high end stylist for our pv just because its our priority, we both agreed to it.

[itsKat!]

^sis, we mentioned that we are a little afraid of his change of style. We didn't tell him we found a new one, but of course, before we cancelled our contract with him, we already have our new photographer.