Regrets After wedding

[lalala01]

-i shoud have walked slowly
-wala kameng photo ni maid of honor kahit isa
-walang maayos na photo yung gown ko, ang ganda pa naman ng details sa likod and yung buntot
-ang dame daw nawawalang gamit, like props for the reception, nasa room lang pala lahat ni groom, ewan bakit hindi nakita ni coord
-super madalian sa pictorial ng naka gown ako dahil malalate na daw, kaya halos walang whole body pictures

[Chili1113]

We didn't overspend for our wedding by any means, but I WISH WE SPENT LESS on it.

I wish I never bothered with our prenup photo and video= even if our prenups were practically free we still ended up paying around 60k for clothes, food, venue rentals, HMUA. LOL=== it is nice to have but I don't even bother looking at my prenup photos. What matters are the wedding photos.

I wish I did not spend so much on my beauty/derma/laser/skincare/spa/teeth whitening treatments. I ended up spending about 120k in the year before I got married.  No real effect anyway, my skin was nice but its not like I looked much different. I looked the same.

[ayouweinlove]

^WOW! This is a nice thread. subscribing here and writing notes para maalala ko yung iba lalo sa photos, I have pegs na gusto ko like yung back shot of me wearing my wedding gown. A photo while my MUA is doing her magic. etc. 

[Cheroppy]

Sis Chili1113 nabuhayan naman ako sayo..
Iniisip ko din kasi kung worth it ba mag prenup kami ni h2b eh budget wedding lang kami.
Hindi ko din alam kung para san yung prenup hehe..
Bahala na pag may extra budget siguro

[Chili1113]

Cheroppy: Hmmm... My takeaway after my wedding, is the prenup photos and videos are fabulous. But don't sacrifice booking your actual wedding photographer and videographer. If budget is limited, I would advice any friend to skip the prenup and put the money in hiring/investing in the best photographer and videographer your budget can afford on the actual wedding.

I am so thankful that I am very happy with our wedding photos and video=== and also happy with both our prenup photo and video. I just wish we did not spend that much on the clothes, venue rental, etc.

Prenup videos are cool. But you watch it several times and that's it. Prenup photos are also nice, but after the wedding, the prenup photos pale in comparison to wedding pictures because they mean so much more to us than the prenup photos we posed for. 

[sparklingjewel]

^Chili1113 Agree with you, kaya for me venue rentals are really expensive these days esp for prenup lang.. their purpose halos ends during the wedding day.
For the outfits, yes i spent on these too but i made sure i could still wear them for future events. Im not the type of person who would wear everyday, casual clothes for prenup either (because why shoot pa if you look like your everyday self?) so this is the next best thing to make sure i'll be using them wisely!

On treatments, with the exception of derma c/o Belo, I passed on everything esp those bargain treatments, RF, etc and im glad I did. I dont think those really work anyway esp the ones on promo.

[yannuh]

Sis Chili1113 nabuhayan naman ako sayo..
Iniisip ko din kasi kung worth it ba mag prenup kami ni h2b eh budget wedding lang kami.
Hindi ko din alam kung para san yung prenup hehe..
Bahala na pag may extra budget siguro

prenup budget does not have to be expensive sis. basta be creative lang tapos kung ano yung gusto nyo ni hubby, yun ang gawin nyo. May kilala nga ako, sa house lang nila sila nagprenup, and yet ang ganda ng kinalabasan. Agree with other sisses here, mas mag invest ka sa P/V supplier mo, kasi sila talaga magpapalitaw ng ganda ng prenup nyo:) (syempre kasama na kayo dun ni H2B:)

[kdramaholic]

I am not married yet, but one of the things that we like to keep it super low ay yung prenup (though libre sya sa package namin with our Photographer). Pero we inquired on several locations grabe ang mamahal Thank God super less gastos kami sa clothes dahil naitabi ng mommy ko yung old clothes nya na bagay sa theme na napili namin I strongly agree din na ok lang walang prenup or DIY na lang kasi kaya naman talaga

[MS_JanDel]

We will also scrimp on our prenup. The shoot is already included in our P/V package so we'll go through it but:
-We will buy clothes which we can use to the office or after the wedding. So we'll be settling for preppy/nerdy look and no gown or formal wear for us.
-We are looking for a venue within the metro lang and a kind wherein styling/props is not needed, so I decided on Fullybooked BGC.
-I'll have a friend do my make up as I'd want it light naman and "barely there".
-Funny but me and h2b actually bought a big piggy bank and we're putting all our loose coins there so we can use it for our prenup outfits. hahahaha..

We wanted to have a prenup but i want to keep it simple since it's a "good-to-have" and not a necessity for us. 

[MissEi]

Minor regret is I forgot to prepare the CD of my wedding march It ends up yung twilight theme song ang niplay nila sabi ko pa naman ayaw ko yung song na yun at hinding hindi ko gagamitin. anyway, thats was 1 year ago

[Nikky27]

Hi sis MissEi! parang hindi ata minor sakin yang iba ang song na play sa wedding march ko, maloloka ako nyan....super tagal ko nga nag decide kung anong song yung play para sakin. Naisip ko lang is dpat sa hotel palang alam na wala ka na prepare para nagawan ng paraan ng coord mo. pero the good thing is masaya parin wedding mo.. hehe!

[MissEi]

Hi sis MissEi! parang hindi ata minor sakin yang iba ang song na play sa wedding march ko, maloloka ako nyan....super tagal ko nga nag decide kung anong song yung play para sakin. Naisip ko lang is dpat sa hotel palang alam na wala ka na prepare para nagawan ng paraan ng coord mo. pero the good thing is masaya parin wedding mo.. hehe!

hindi din alam ni coord kasi on the day coord lang sya e tsaka sabi ko ako na bahala iaabot ko na lang on the day tapos sa sobrang dami pa namin ginagawa non ni hubby nakalimutan talaga namin iburn at isubmit sa church okay naman kasi natapos naman ang kasal namin ng hindi na play ang wedding march song hahahaha

btw, yung wedding march song ko is ikaw ni yeng constantino pero instrumental (violin) 

[twinxz]

One of our major regret is choosing a date na babagyuhin pala kami on a December wedding. Haha!

Its obvious we don't have authority over the weather. But I think this is the biggest regret coz our ceremony and venue is an open garden. We did not book for a tent either coz doing so will ruin the scenery. Result, we only have few attendees (due to weather and company parties) , few covered space, smaller aisle to march, fewer photos. Haha!

Only God knows

[marsala2016]

Sis twinxz when was your wedding? Iba na talaga panahon ngayon. Dec. wedding din kami, ineexpect ko na maulan. Hay. Now naisip ko sana nag jan. Or feb. wedding nalang ako, worry ko din ang bagyo sa dec.

[Cheroppy]

Thanks mga sis sa advice. 

[twinxz]

^^December 19, 2015
Typhoon Onyok currently devastating the metro that time. Haha!

It was also our 9th year anniversary na kaya we chose that date talaga.

[MissEi]

Hi sis twinxz i remember my friend because of you It was also their anniversary and wedding way back 2012 (August 1, 2012 to be exact) si Habagat ang napadaan sabi nila okay lang kahit walang maka attend basta ang importante makasal sila pero dahil sa love na love sila lahat ng ininvite nila dumating naman ang 200 guests nila nakakatuwa kasi despite of the very bad weather nakapunta pa din sila. na interview pa nga sila sa TV5 hahahaha. wala nakakatuwa lang.

[twinxz]

Yup! The show must go on talaga! Madami din akong kasabay non dito sa GT ng wedding. Dito talaga napatunayan sino yung mga taong literal na will weather the storm just to be there for you sa wedding day nyo. Nakakataba din ng puso!

I wonder if binaha wedding ng friend mo? Usually those are the ones being featured sa news eh.

For sure it was already flooding in Manila that day kasi evening pa lang it was raining non-stop na. Our wedding is in Antipolo kaya walang flooding hehe!

[ANJFinally]

sis twinxz naalala ko yung wedding mo na binagyo sa 2015 thread. hehe! Isang tray na itlog siguro ang iaalay namin. Araw araw kong prayer na sana wag kaming bagyuhin. This coming 1st Week of December ang Wedding namin.

[marsala2016]

Aww sis twinx. I feel you. Lalo ako kinabahan, kami dec.17 2016 ang wedding. Wag naman sana mabagyo.

Sis anjfinally, balak di namin mag alay ng itlog,well inadvice samin na gawin. Sana totoo nga,wala namang mawawala if gawin natin yun. Pag pray natin ito sis anj.