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Help! What to do?
« on: June 14, 2016, 01:35:13 pm »
I have found out na iyong helper namin sa  bahay kumunsumo ng 4k bill sa phone! siya pala ang salarin. i checked with cs kase kung [textspeak!] yung mga numbers na tinawagan, then what time saka anong araw. Wala nang iba kundi siya iyon kasi kame lang ng husband ko sa bahay, then siya then my son who is 20 months old.I talked to her sabi ko babayaran niya yun. pumayag naman siya. ang gusto kasi ng husband ko bawiin yung phone na binenta namen sa kanya kase kanya na yun. pero kung tutuusin may right si husband na kumpiskahin yung phone...dahil tutuusin siya pa may utang sa amin.

Help me to decide. pakikinggan ko ba husband ko. gusto pa nga niya ipabarngay si helper ayoko na sana.help on what to do..
« Last Edit: June 14, 2016, 11:26:34 pm by miss resilient »

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Re: Help! What to do?
« Reply #1 on: June 14, 2016, 05:25:22 pm »
May use ba yung phone sa inyo? I would assume wala since you sold it to her.

Have her pay via salary deduction kung wala siya cash ngayon. Go to baranggay for witness sa agreement niyo.

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Re: Help! What to do?
« Reply #2 on: June 14, 2016, 06:13:44 pm »
Matagal nyo na ba syang helper? Cos maybe if you'll have her pay via salary deduction eh aalis lang din sya agad. But tama si j.dore - have her pay via salary deduction with some kind of barangay intervention. Have her pay 2k muna, then the rest installment na, just in case she absconds.

About the phone: that's already hers if she has paid it in full na, but pwede nyo naman bawiin and it will serve as collateral na lang until she can pay the charges in full, or depende sa ano magiging agreement nyo.

Just curious: how well do you know and trust her?
« Last Edit: June 15, 2016, 01:05:14 pm by And1moon »

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Re: Help! What to do?
« Reply #3 on: June 14, 2016, 10:39:55 pm »
I don't think na puede nyo i-confiscate yun phone kasi sa kanya na yun di ba?
So you can only take it if she gives it to you freely as a collateral sa 4K na phone bill.

Ano daw reason sa 4K phone bill nya? Emergency ba? Nakikipaglandian phone pal or what? parang ang laki ng bill para umabot ng 4K.

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« Reply #4 on: June 14, 2016, 11:25:24 pm »
Hi. Ako ang sumuko mag take ng notes from cs when i called the phone company. Multiple calls ang ginagawa niya sa iba't ibang number. At yung mga oras, yung mga time na wala kame sa bahay. Either papasok ako or tulog na ang husband ko because we work opposite time.

Ang matindi pa, habang naliligo ako tumatawag din siya. For two weeks maya't maya ang calls niya sa cellphone na other networks. Problema ang binigay sa akin ng babaing yon. Yung malalaking chunk of calls belong to a guy na nasa phone book niya kaya di na siya makapag lie sa akin.

@and1moon: how long do we know her? not for so long. ang original na yaya kasi yung sister niya na kilala ko. kaso bigla siyang sumama sa boylet niya kaya ayan ang iniwan sa amin.  thanks sa suggestion mo na icollateral ang phone. kasi ugali ng family nila ang tumakas sa obligasyon.

Just to give her background. Taga kabilang subdivision ang family nila. Caretaker sila ng isang property, now yung kumare ko at kasimbahan ko ang kapitbahay nila na kilalang kilala sila. Yung mga kakilala kong ito they don't want to give comment or what pero sabi nila "mahirap ang madikit sa pamilya niyan kaya huwag kang masyadong kampante". We trusted her and her sister kasi masisipag naman ang pakita nila.

We realized ayaw lang magsalita ng friends namin about her family. They want us to find out for ourselves kung anong klase itong kinupkop namin sa bahay. Never ko siyang tinuring na iba, in a short span of time, siya na ang maysabi hindi ako nagwiwithhold kung ano ang kakainin niya lahat malaya siya. She can use the appliances, pc, net, phone..ano pa ba? I asked her anong nagawa naming masama sayo para gawin mo ito. Sabi niya wala naman...problema talaga ang binigay sa amin ng babaing ito  :(

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Re: Help! What to do?
« Reply #5 on: June 15, 2016, 07:29:08 am »
Now that there's an issue and with her family nearby, is it safe to still leave her alone with your son at home?

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« Reply #6 on: June 15, 2016, 01:48:38 pm »
madall naman siya palitan kung may kapalit na. wala kase akong kilala na puedeng pumalit sa kanya...but still d ako napapanatag pag iiwan siyang mag isa sa bahay. Pray siguro ako na wala na siyang masamang mgagawa

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Re: Help! What to do?
« Reply #7 on: June 15, 2016, 03:21:09 pm »
Install hidden cameras all over the house. Meron pa nga, pwede livestream sa phone while you're at work.

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« Reply #8 on: June 15, 2016, 06:31:08 pm »
^great idea. :) pero it would involve high cost..

on Friday wala kame both ng hubby ko maghapon. nagsabay ng team building mga office namin so late night na kame uuwi. no choice ako ms. j.adore. kinausap ko siya kanina na huwag magpapapunta ng kung sino sa bahay ...at baka pakiusapan ko na lang yung kumare ko na dumaan sa bahay at tingnan sila para di sya maglakas loob gumawa ng di maganda.

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Re: Help! What to do?
« Reply #9 on: June 15, 2016, 07:02:20 pm »
CD-R King yung cheapest na alam ko :) Yes, have someone do a surprise visit.

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Re: Help! What to do?
« Reply #10 on: June 28, 2016, 12:19:59 am »
hi all. for now bumabalik naman siya kahit ganito ang nangyari. i am glad kase at least di siya tumakas.

ang problema ko lang talaga is mabayaran ang utang na siya ang maygawa :(

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Re: Help! What to do?
« Reply #11 on: July 23, 2016, 09:18:18 am »
Baka puede Nyo i-lock phone landline nyo para di na makatawag palabas. Just make sure may List of landline numbers beside it para madali kayo mahanap or any close relatives in case of emergency.

I'm sure 4K 1-2 months bayad Na naman iyan. But u have to definitely find another maid. Mahirap Magkaron ng maid na panay pag b-BF Lang ang inaatupag.
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Re: Help! What to do?
« Reply #12 on: July 25, 2016, 03:47:53 pm »
We have the same issue before sis. Salary deduction lang, yung masama lang, ang sinasabi niya pala sa kanila ay hindi nabibigay sweldo niya kasi wala kaming pera.  >:( Anyhoo, pagkatapos bayaran yung bill, pinauwi ko na, hinatid ko sa kanila at kinausap yung mama niya kung gaano kasinungaling ang anak niya at kung gaano kakati ang kamay. Ayun! Hiyang-hiya yung nanay niya.

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Re: Help! What to do?
« Reply #13 on: September 21, 2016, 03:22:53 pm »
tinakasan na kame ng yayang iyon kasi di na pinapasok ng parents niya dahil nahuli nga na don natutulog sa boyfriend nia pag off..ang mali pa diyan sinasabi nia na sinasama ko siya pagluwas pag di nakakauwi. anyway nakaraos na ko sa bayarin na yon siguro mga 2k plus pa utang nia skn

For now..mejo at peace na kame kase relative na yung nagbabantay sa baby ko.

 


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