Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 8)

[kvandenhaak]

Bakla si husband kaya nagrereklamo the wife wants too much sex. Lame excuse, *censored*!

[astarte]

Sa guys na physically kasama ang wife/gf/live in partner nila na syempre katabi mo matulog and nakakasabay mo maligo and all, how long can you stand na no sex at all and pls cite how many days/weeks/months or even years nyo kaya tiisin? Sorry for being blunt, sa mga oras na to wala lang ako maisip na better choice of words. Lol.

Meron bang may idea dito sa possibility na yung partner mo is bi or biglang iba na pala ang gender preference, pwede rin na it's within him all along pero how can you directly tell di ba especially ayaw mo din itanong yan sa own set of friends mo pero sana may makapag bigay ng other options muna and inputs aside sa option to ask that question to the person. Wag muna natin gawin yang "in your face" question na moment.

TIA sa mga sasagot.

[TomHansen]

^For me kaya namang tiisin ng kahit gaano katagal basta valid yung reason ng gf ko(medical condition/religion/beliefs) at napag-usapan namin ng mabuti before pa kami nagstart ng relationship. Wait sino ba ayaw ng sex ikaw or partner mo and why?

Kung feel mo bi ang partner mo walang masama kung "in your face" ang pagtatanong pagdating sa preference niya kasi hindi lang naman para sa iyo ang truth na matatanggap mo kung hindi para sa kanya rin, nagsasayang lang kayo pareho ng oras niyo. And if its within him na dati pa ibig sabihin he misrepresented himself sa iyo, niloko ka niya. Also, wala namang babae na nangarap na magkapartner ng bakla nung bata siya, do yourself a favor sis tanungin mo na tapos magpa-parlor na kayo..

[Girltalker2]

i just really want to ask this about men... bakit ayaw niyong magpalit ng diaper ng bata, magpaligo at magpakain? i mean, it's not as if parating gagawin. pero kung kinakailangan like once in a while lang naman para makaalis naman si misis o makapagpahinga man lang sandali, bakit ayaw niyong gawin??? male ego??? bonding time din yun with the kids, anong problema?

Di naman lahat ng guys. Sadyang tamad lang iyan at alam nya you will do it anyway. Bakit ayaw mo try iwan sa kanya and umalis ka if you need to (days).  Mapipilitan din iyan.

[jtansanco]

i just really want to ask this about men... bakit ayaw niyong magpalit ng diaper ng bata, magpaligo at magpakain? i mean, it's not as if parating gagawin. pero kung kinakailangan like once in a while lang naman para makaalis naman si misis o makapagpahinga man lang sandali, bakit ayaw niyong gawin??? male ego??? bonding time din yun with the kids, anong problema?

Nah, he's just not ready to take that responsibility. Lazy and expects that having a family is an easy thing.

How about a guy with 4 kids tapos gusto makipaghiwalay because the wife wants too much sex? And this guy has gay friends... Does it mean he's gay and making excuses lang to get out of the marriage?

Well, ano ba size ni wife? Baka naman di na physically appealing si wife? Guys are visual predators. He won't say "no" to a "hot" girl in his eyes.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

Bakla si husband kaya nagrereklamo the wife wants too much sex. Lame excuse, *censored*!

If that's the case then okay na rin siguro, so as not to spread the disease.

[dismembered]

If that's the case then okay na rin siguro, so as not to spread the disease.

Hay oo nga! Baka naman may mga churva na rin sya sa ka federation nya at baka mahawa pa si misis. Hindi naman sa discriminate sila, pero may kilala akong med tech and halos lahat ng postive sa HIV nila is mga gays. Siguro nga, kung ganito lang rin ang reason, kailangan na nyang hiwalayan if pumapatol din sa iba na.

[j.adore]

Question is... bakit maghihiwalay agad? Abused na ba sya kasi si wife wants too much sex to the point na itatali na sya, binubugbog sya para lang makipag sex? If not, bakit magdedemand ng hiwalayan?

Pero malaki ang possibility na ganun nga. Dumadami na talaga sila!

Di naman ganun level saka dami na nila kids kaya gender yung suspect.. I guess it's also in the culture, konting hirap lang, ayawan na.

How much is too much kaya for the husband?, kasi pwede namang pag-usapan at mahanap nila yung middle ground kung gaano sila karami dapat magsex per week. Masyadong mababaw para i-end yung marriage unless nagdadahilan lang yun si guy at hotdog din ang gusto niya..
There's always a way ang tanong is willing pa ba si husband to fix the marriage? Why did he fell out of love? was he blaming the wife, may pagkukulang raw ba siya? Hindi naman ganon kadali mawala ang love especially sa mag-asawa, if willing pa silang ayusin pareho then kayang kaya.

They are still together pero trying to get out of the marriage nga si guy for that sole reason. Baka still working it out..

Well, ano ba size ni wife? Baka naman di na physically appealing si wife? Guys are visual predators. He won't say "no" to a "hot" girl in his eyes.

Not much difference naman.. One of them lucky women who bounce back to their original sizes.

But still, pwede naman to tell the wife about this problem and they both find a solution di ba?

If that's the case then okay na rin siguro, so as not to spread the disease.

Hay oo nga! Baka naman may mga churva na rin sya sa ka federation nya at baka mahawa pa si misis. Hindi naman sa discriminate sila, pero may kilala akong med tech and halos lahat ng postive sa HIV nila is mga gays. Siguro nga, kung ganito lang rin ang reason, kailangan na nyang hiwalayan if pumapatol din sa iba na.

OMG oo nga

[jtansanco]

^ Yeah, they need to talk about it. Really discuss the issue. Since they're married, it shouldn't be a problem. But if the guy is hesitant to do it, medyo delikado na.

[kwang sun]

To the men out here , do you prefer girls with make up or yung wala???

[dismembered]

^ May thread na dito about that mababasa mo ang arguments haha

The way I interpreted the posts there, most men gusto ng naturally beautiful women. If maganda ka na, pwedeng wala ng makeup. Hindi naman masamang mag makeup to enhance or emphasize yung beauty. Siguro iwas lang yung mga lalake sa talagang pag nag makeup hindi mo na ma-distinguish sa no-makeup look nya. Tipong feeling ng lalake naloko sya.

I remember my colleagues spying girls on FB comparing her profile photos with makeup sa mga photos na tagged lang sa kanya na walang makeup. As I see it, parang turn off sa kanila pag super makeup na nakakadaya.

[amethyst028]

@kwang sun this question is subjective depende sa guys. i read somewhere na guys are clueless what too much makeup really means. they think kim kardashian is natural looking daw.

anyway i remember going out on a date with this guy, for me yun na yung best look ko meaning todo na yung makeup ko pero for him natural look iyon sabi niya wala akong makeup that day.  when i wear makeup i try to enhance what i already have. yung mukhang fresh at blooming lang. i don't contour, highlight, noseline etc. na tipong pag walang makeup hindi nako makikilala ng mga tao sa sobrang ibang iba na yung itsura.

there was a time naman na napasugod si ex sa house ko kasi halos 6hours daw siya walang natanggap na text. nung nagpunta ako sa gate to face him sabi niya "o bakit ka naka makeup saan ka galing? o baka may pupuntahan kang gimik?" nag a-aral kasi ako mag bake that time and maliit lang oven so lagi ko binabantayan kada batch kaya di ko na check phone ko. truth is napaka dugyot ko nga nun dahil di pako naliligo, pinawisan pa ko dahil mainit yung oven but to him kapal daw ng makeup ko. ang weird diba?

minsan sa lipstick siguro pag makapal ang lipstick or super strong ang dating sinasabi nila ang kapal ng makeup o kaya sobrang puti ng mukha na hindi pantay sa leeg or blush on na para kang sinampal. wear makeup in a way na hindi halata para safe ka.

[TomHansen]

To the men out here , do you prefer girls with make up or yung wala???

Ok sa babae ang nagmamake-up kasi it shows na pinaghandaan niya at gusto niyang maging presentable sa ime-meet niya. As long as hindi sobra at hindi makapal na parang ibang tao na yung kaharap mo dapat walang problema sa lalaki yun..

[jtansanco]

To the men out here , do you prefer girls with make up or yung wala???

I get that girls wearing make up give them confidence. I appreciate wearing make up whenever we go out on dates. They want to feel pretty and be beautiful for their date - I commend them for that. In the beginning, go wear your make up. But if we become together, I'd rather see you with less make up. The longer we are together, the more I want to see your inner beauty.

[layzieg]

Why do guys ask for your number and not call? Are they being polite only?

[jtansanco]

^ If I get a girl's number, it's almost always I will reach out to her and try to get to know her. I guess the only reason I will ask for a girl's number and not contact her is if I "felt" pressured to get her number during that time or if she's trying to give me her number without me asking really for it.

[Girltalker2]

^ and ^^ di ba collect and select din iyan?

Like the guy collects the numbers and see who he can ask to go out with, if he wants to. So piliin nya yung girl na pinaka gusto nya and Yung iba reserba?

Asking your number doesn't mean he will profess his love for you and commit to you at manliligaw na. Para sakin, if a guy asks for your number, he just 'might' be interested. So all you need to do is just wait and don't expect. Ganun lang ka-simple.

[snowkeis]

Bakit ibang guys hindi marunong manuyo. Ano possible reason bukod sa hindi kayo showy.

[layzieg]

I would think kasi if he asks for your number without any pressure whatsoever, he would at least try to get to know you...

Sana they can be honest na lang instead of being polite hehe

[Girltalker2]

^ he only asked for your number, he didn't say he will call you.

Malay mo nawalan ng load, or naghahanap pa ng lakas ng loob. Worse, baka may gf/asawa na. Just let it go, it's not worth whining about. Move on. I met pa nga some guys who said he will call you but didn't call. Mga ganyan, di na dapat pinagtutuunan ng pansin.

Bakit ibang guys hindi marunong manuyo. Ano possible reason bukod sa hindi kayo showy.

Hindi ba sadyang ganyan na talaga? May iba naman tamad at alam nila Ikaw din lalapit later.