Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 8)

[simang]

Budgetchic, i believe you're talking about the same guy ilang beses mo na yan kasi natanong. Ganito lang yan, if a guy likes you, walang paligoy ligoy yan. He won't wait for you to ask him out dahil sya mismo gagawa ng paraan makasama ka. Also, he will do something. Hindi ka aasa sa salita lang. Para kasing ang tagal nyo ng nag uusap ng ganyan wala namang natutuloy sa mga lakad nyo.

It's also very obvious na you like this guy, bakit ba kasi hindi pa kayo magdate? Kung yayayain mo, eh di yayain mo lumabas... Ituloy nyo. Tapos balitaan mo kami hehe.

[jtansanco]

^^ No updates. The End na ata. Haha. The search continues...

[budgetchic]

@jtansanco for example lang bro if may ganyang line? Haha kasi merong ibang guy na nag-ask naman sa akin na may "yayain mo ba ako?" line nung nagtanong ako about resto. Kaya sinabi ko after, hindi naman, nagtanong lang.  Also, what if you don't like her talaga nor interested with her? Gagawa ka ba ng excuse para lang HUMINDE?

@simang yes sis. soryy about that. siya na nga mismo nag-aask non but ilang beses ko na siyang na turn down. So i'm a bit worried na kapag ako naman ang mag ask out sa kanya, baka ibalik lang nya sa akin.

Hindi naman siguro masama na ako yung mantreat diba? Makabawi man lang. Plan ko this Saturday na manood kami ng movie. Mamaya ko siya i-aask.

[chicafabulosa]

^^ No updates. The End na ata. Haha. The search continues...

Kasi naman pwede na yung si Yan, petite nga lang... Ganda naman ah.

@budgetchic sensya na wala kasi sa circle ni Jake na nag aask ng ganun I think hehe... Pero with your question if di nya type if aayawan ba nya yung girl.. Knowing this guy, naku mabilis pa sa alas kwatro yan di na nya kakausapin yung girl. As in iiwas yan ng todo

As for your question, sis if like ka ng guy you dont have to ask him by yourself. Kasi sya mismo ang gagawa ng way na ma-ask ka nya out. Its fine to ask a guy out kung close kayo na magkaibigan. But i think its awkward naman if you will be the one to do the first move to ask a guy out. Just wait for him to donthe first move. If di ka nya ma-ask out. I can only think of two reasons 1. Nahihiya sya sayo or 2. Di ka talaga nya type (maybe friendzone ka na nya). For sure naman if di ka nya type, move on na lang, dami naman dyan around you. Malay mo, meron pala na gusto mag ask out sayo, kasi walang guts lang kasi nasesense na type mo this guy Just my two cents.

Oo nga JT, may mga guys yata na ganun magtanong. So far rin kasi la pa ako narinig sa circle ko na nag ask ng ganun sa girl. Most of the time kasi ang tanong nila is ,gusto mo try yung food nila... Or natry mo na ba dun kumain? Something to that effect hehe..

[red_yesha]

Kayo bang mga boys, gusto nyo rin ba na yayain kayo lumabas ng girl na gusto nyo? Anong una nyong mafefeel/maiisip kapag may mag-aya sa inyo?

Ex.
G: Hey __, napanood mo na ba tong movie na 'to??
B: Hindi pa eh. Baket? Yayayain mo ba ako?

Naalala ko tuloy yung lover ko haha. Samin ang smooth ng usapan.
Him: Gusto kong manuod ng Batman vs Superman ngayong Linggo kaso wala akong kasama
Me: tara!

Ayun nagtuloy tuloy ang date. Success story, naging kami
Kaya ikaw sis kung gusto mo ang lalake, ituloy mo na yung date nyo kasi dun mo malalaman kung may spark ba sainyo o wala. Okies? Goodluck! I hope matuloy na kayo.

[budgetchic]

@chicafabulosa haha! Nice sis. ikaw na talaga ang sumagot in behalf of JT ah. Well, I think mas ok yun kesa naman na magpa-fall siya sa girl, hindi naman pala siya interested. haha!

If you haven't read sis my previous reply, si guy po matagal na pong nag-aask yan na lumabas kami kaso di ko po pinagbigyan. pinapaasa ko daw kasi siya sa wala. Haha. Kaya ngayon, nag ask ako dito sa GT if ok lang na ako naman mismong mag ask sa kanya. Haha! Bumaliktad bigla.

@red_yesha nice sis ah! maswerte siya kasi available ka. hahaha! Success pala yung love story nyo. Mamaya sasaglit ako para kausapin siya haha para lang mag invite. This Saturday gusto ko manood ng conjuring 2 eh. Hahaha!

[dismembered]

For me, kapag nagtanong ako sa girl ng "Yayayain mo ba ako?", ibig sabihin playing safe ako. Depende din kung gusto ko si girl.

Pag sumagot si girl ng "Hindi". Sasagot akong "Eh di hindi, di ko din naman gusto yung movie". Pero pag gusto ko talaga si girl pwede din ako bumanat ng "Ayaw mo? Ililibre pa naman sana kita".

Pag sumagot si girl ng "Oo, tara". eh di game! Pero kung di ko naman ganun ka-gusto si girl, or hindi ko gusto yung movie, sasagot ako ng "Ilibre mo muna ako. Lol".

[argento]

^ I think you should omit the "Yayayain mo ba ako?". It's unlikely that a guy will make that comment to a girl.

agree, ang tamang sagot diyan ay hindi pa. you wait if mag offer sya. 

[amethyst028]

just be straight forward and not think about it too much. don't feel bad rin if he says no. ganon talaga ang buhay.

me: kamusta?
guy: ok naman. u?
me: ok lang din. may lakad ka sa friday?
guy: di ko pa alam. why?
me: nasa makati kasi ako ng afternoon. coffee tayo?
guy: ok [textspeak!].
me: greenbelt 6pm?
guy: ok

that's it. kung sinabi niya may lakad siya then ask ko how about sat? kung hindi pa din sabihin ko sige next time na lang. but i will never ask him again. wait ko na siya ang mag initiate na. baka kasi di niya ako type. but of course as a girl you will only do this kung alam mong type ka rin ng guy and mas mataas ang chance na he wants to see you too.

[emptieme]

Question lang..

if a guy, particularly a husband, tells his wife that he already fell out of love, does that mean that the love isnt really there anymore?

Is there a way/ways to make him fall in love again with his wife?

[iwannabeasupermodel]

Sis budgetchic, you keep on overthinking! Just take a dive. It's not so bad. Whatever the outcome, at least you tried and you know na. 😉

[chicafabulosa]

@budgetchic haha sorry sis. I know JT personally. we're friends kasi and I am also trying to set him up for dates. hahaha

anyways about your concern... well if he was asking you before and you declined before tapos now medyo gusto mo bumawi lang I think sige give it a shot. i think from what I understand sa replies mo mukhang nagulity ka when he said na paasa ka, tama ba? pero im wondering bakit nya nasabi na pinaasa mo sya sa wala. did you show him any sign you like him before to ask you out? anyways just give it a try. if he said no ng "isang' beses move on.. lalo na if di mo naman type and parang bumabawi ka lang. now if type mo naman si guy, and he said no, sis hanggang tatlong no lang then move on na ha. dont take it to seriously.

[budgetchic]

@chicasfabulosa ok lang yun sis. kaya naman pala kilalang-kilala mo na siya. lol.

Yes, ganun na nga sis. Nasabi nya na paasa ako kasi sinasabi ko sa kanya sa ganitong month. Tapos ayun, di naman natutuloy. haha. salbahe ko.

But yeah, nakausap ko na siya kanina personally. Saglit lang just toa sk hm out. masaya siya, finally daw. LOL! He's been waiting for that day, kasi baka daw kapag siya mag-ask, ituturn down ko nanaman at baka makulitan na daw ako sa kanya. Kaya ayun. Movie date lang this Saturday hahaha! Excited~

[jtansanco]

^ Congratulations!!!

Question lang..

if a guy, particularly a husband, tells his wife that he already fell out of love, does that mean that the love isnt really there anymore?

Is there a way/ways to make him fall in love again with his wife?

Yikes! I probably know some friends who are like this. They're still together because there's no divorce in the PH and just for the sake of keeping the family intact. Kawawa naman daw kasi yung kid/s. Anyway, try to be sweet and be malambing again. What made him fall in love with you in the first place? Remember those times and try to make an effort to win his love back. Remember the reasons why he chose you to be his companion in life back in the day.

[badw33d]

Question lang..

if a guy, particularly a husband, tells his wife that he already fell out of love, does that mean that the love isnt really there anymore?

Is there a way/ways to make him fall in love again with his wife?

Majority of the time, YES. that's a sad truth. But sometimes, we guys say these coz we have another thing going on, we got exited with it. Once the thrill and excitement is gone, then back to wife. Again, the sad truth.

But there must be a root cause why the husband fell out of love, or fell there's no more love. Ask the husband.

[dismembered]

Question lang..

if a guy, particularly a husband, tells his wife that he already fell out of love, does that mean that the love isnt really there anymore?

Is there a way/ways to make him fall in love again with his wife?

What a lame husband. So what if he already fell out of love? What's next then? Separation na? A man must know that once he enters marriage eh hindi na lang all about love ang iiral jan. anjan na ang responsibilites and obligations and commitment. I don't think may reason pa para sabihin na "he fell out of love unless may iba na syang "love".

I think yun lang ang reason. Pag sinabi nyang he fell out of love, meron na syang ibang love.

[valaina]

i just really want to ask this about men... bakit ayaw niyong magpalit ng diaper ng bata, magpaligo at magpakain? i mean, it's not as if parating gagawin. pero kung kinakailangan like once in a while lang naman para makaalis naman si misis o makapagpahinga man lang sandali, bakit ayaw niyong gawin??? male ego??? bonding time din yun with the kids, anong problema?

[j.adore]

How about a guy with 4 kids tapos gusto makipaghiwalay because the wife wants too much sex? And this guy has gay friends... Does it mean he's gay and making excuses lang to get out of the marriage?

[dismembered]

How about a guy with 4 kids tapos gusto makipaghiwalay because the wife wants too much sex? And this guy has gay friends... Does it mean he's gay and making excuses lang to get out of the marriage?

Question is... bakit maghihiwalay agad? Abused na ba sya kasi si wife wants too much sex to the point na itatali na sya, binubugbog sya para lang makipag sex? If not, bakit magdedemand ng hiwalayan?

Pero malaki ang possibility na ganun nga. Dumadami na talaga sila!

[TomHansen]

How about a guy with 4 kids tapos gusto makipaghiwalay because the wife wants too much sex? And this guy has gay friends... Does it mean he's gay and making excuses lang to get out of the marriage?

How much is too much kaya for the husband?, kasi pwede namang pag-usapan at mahanap nila yung middle ground kung gaano sila karami dapat magsex per week. Masyadong mababaw para i-end yung marriage unless nagdadahilan lang yun si guy at hotdog din ang gusto niya..

Question lang..

if a guy, particularly a husband, tells his wife that he already fell out of love, does that mean that the love isnt really there anymore?

Is there a way/ways to make him fall in love again with his wife?

There's always a way ang tanong is willing pa ba si husband to fix the marriage? Why did he fell out of love? was he blaming the wife, may pagkukulang raw ba siya? Hindi naman ganon kadali mawala ang love especially sa mag-asawa, if willing pa silang ayusin pareho then kayang kaya.