Feeling sad during pregnancy

[sarsingkit]

Anyone feeling the opposite? Im not sad, I'm not extremely happy din naman. Chill lang ako lagi. Lol. Maybe because I'm having a boy? Ewan. Hehe. I watched White Helmets the other day and akala ko maiiyak ako kasi I normally cry pag mga ganitong documentary. Wala naman nangyari sa kin. Hehe. My cravings only appeared on the first trimester. Ngayon, wala na. Everytime we eat out, si hubby na lagi pinapapili ko kasi wala akong maisip kainin, as in. So kahit ano lang.

Parang minsan naisip ko may mali ata kasi two of my workmates asked me (on separate occasions) kung naiyak daw ba ako during the ultrasound. Sa isip ko, am I suppose to? Haha. Sabi ko na lang, ultrasound is something, gives you mixed feelings.

[momlory]

hindi ko akalain na madalas ako umiiyak during my pregnancy jourey. Magisa lang kasi ako nakatira ngayon sa bahay kasi walang available para kasama ko sa house. Walang help from my family and wala rin avaialable for my inlaws.

Ang choice ko tumira sa parents ko pero since sa makati ako nag wowork at nakatira kami sa dasma cavite sobrang layo minsan 3-4 hours ang byahe. Wala akong choice kung hindi magrent at tumira magisa.

Gusto ng family ko isacrifice yung baby ko and everyday mag commmute pero ayoko talaga. Nasa abroad ang husband ko so magisa lang talaga ako ngayon.

SAna makayanan ko to sis.

[xsugar]

oh, wag ka na malungkot sis! pregnancy hormones lang yan for sure. ako din preggy and i travel everyday to and from work all the way to batangas. i was thinking of boarding na din soon para di kami pagod kahit hanggang 2nd sem lang pero di pa ako maka decide

it's really hard mag-isa lalo na sa sitwasyon natin and of course, iba p din yung may nag aasikaso at nakakausap tayo. look for other options na lang like a boardmate or relative/friend na working din sa makati na pwede mo makashare sa rent para may makasama ka.

[sally_newbiemom]

there will even be more hormonal changes after you have given birth, coupled with the stress of taking care of your newborn baby, it can be very confusing to be feeling happy and then sad, in a span of a few minutes. the tougher case are those that develop into post parts depression.

best solution is a network! of friends, of family, of fellow moms like this group. or your mom, mom in law, sisters and best friends who are moms too, they will be the best people to talk these feelings out with because they have been there and they would understand.

[Shadow Angel]

^tama ka dyan nagkaroon din ako ng slight post patrum after giving birth need talaga ng mga mommies ng support from their love ones. Ako I feel so confused why I feel sad samantalang dream din namin magkababy. I told to myself I should be happy pero wala may mga times umiiyak pa ako. I need talaga ng support at lumabas din paminsan minsan para maka recharge kahit saglit. Good thing my husband understands and nasabihan na sya ng ob ko regarding that. But now I am totally fine and back to normal.

[mrs.abc]

Kaya natin to mommies, look on the bright side na lang lagi and think how blessed we are kasi we'll finally meet our babies in few months. Ako mas naging sensitive talaga pero di naman sad. Minsan konting joke ni hubby, naluluha na ko or pikon. Minsan may iccrave ako tapos sasabihin nya 'bukas bili tayo' naiinis din ako, parang life and death minsan e. Yong gusto ko talaga ngayon na! Tapos magtatampo na ko, parang bata. Hahahah pero yon nagpapaka-positive na lang ako, after few minutes ok na ko ulit. Nakakatulong din na nag-aadjust si hubby at mas patient na sya sa mga toyo ko.

[iloveChristmas]

31 weeks today and I have been overly emotional. Sometimes I'd cry over silly things.. after a few minutes when I realized how silly it was that I cried.. I cried again for being unreasonable! also been feeling so heavy and out of breath.

[momlory]

Ang mahirap kasi sis wala husband ko sa pinas. And wala rin akong makuhang support from families and inlaws para may makasama ako sa house. So magisa pa rin ako hanggang ngayon nakatira ang hirap ng sitwasyon. Umiiyak pa rin ako madalas pero I pray na sana mairaos ko ito lahat kahit magisa lang ako

[xsugar]

Good luck sis! Please  don't worry too much baka maka apekto sya sa baby mo..Isa pa sabi sa studies ang mommies daw na ma-worry, sad or nega thinkers tend to have babies na ma-tantrums

Basta andito kami sa forum if you need someone to talk to!