Feeling sad during pregnancy

[MedChic]

Sis stylus, try mo mag coloring book para di ka mainip. Or watch mga series. 😌 or online shopping ng mga gamit ni baby. hehe.

Nung nag bedrest ako, nag download ako ng game of thrones na series.. Ayon.. Parang di ako nakabedrest at nasstress pa din ako sa pinapanood ko. hehe. 🤗

[theEmpress]

^^ that's good sis, ingat ka lagi.

for all those feeling sad, basta sporadic lang at hindi lingering yung feeling okay lang yan. that's part of the hormonal changes we go through. pero pag extended period of time, dapat hindi kasi affected si baby.

let's be thankful for the support we receive from family and friends. imagine natin yung ibang mommies doing it on their own whether by choice or circumstance. how strong they face everyday na mag-isa lang. so ang key is to be appreciative and not focus on oneself.

take care all mommies!

[stylus]

^^oo sis. Binabalak ko na rin yan. Hinihintay ko lang muna makapag adjust mga tao sa office na 1 month pa ako mawawala. Medyo marami pa rin akong emails. So may 10% stress pa rin dahil sa work. Ayoko na sana mag entertain ng work related concerns kaso kailangan din naman talaga nila ng reply ko

[simang]

I'm getting overly emotional lately.. feeling ko i'm physically tired na maging buntis. Hay. I'm 35w3d today and constant na ang backpain, hingal. Tapos ang init init pa ng panahon, magstay lang ako sa non-a/c na room for few minutes nahihilo na ako. Sabi ko nga kay husband ayokong ientertain yung feeling ng pagod at sakit ng katawan kasi baka isipin ni baby nagrereklamo ako na andyan sya, but kagabi naiyak na lang talaga ako sa pagod at sakit ng katawan. Tapos everytime I'd look at my tummy sa mirror and realize na my baby is alive sa loob ko, iiyak na naman ako. Now na i'm 4 weeks away from seeing my baby, nakakaoverwhelm pala -- both in good and bad ways. Siguro yung anxiety din of waiting for baby to come kasama na din dun.

Overall naman my pregnancy has been very happy and healthy. Few episodes lang na nalulungkot at nagwoworry ako. But right now medyo iba sya kasi may kasama ng physical pain, tapos anxiety pa. Gusto ko na talaga makita si baby.

[stylus]

^aww. Konti na lang sis. Enjoy your last 4 weeks of being pregnant!! Ako nga ngayon at 11 weeks, naiinip nako! Haha! Gusto ko na lumaki tyan ko para makapag maternity dress na. Para feeling buntis na talaga! Naeexcite ako lalo pag nababasa ko posts nyo sa second quarter thread! Konting tiis na lang sis, magkikita na kayo ni baby mo

[krisel_06]

^^Good luck sis Simang, buti ka pa ilang weeks nalang makikita mo na si baby. Ako, 3 months to go pa, very excited na rin! hehe.

^Ganyan din ako noong first trimester ko. Gusto ko na agad lumaki si tummy para makapag maternity dress na rin, hahaha. Naiinis pa ko pag di ko makuha mga privilege ng pregnant kasi di pa halata tummy ko, kailangan ko pang ipangalandakan, haha!

Just to share, last night umiyak na naman ako over petty things, haha! Di lang nagawa agad ni boyfie yong request kong oatmeal, naiyak na ko, as in agos luha talaga, hahaha! Feeling ko di na ko mahalaga sa kanya. Hay over na pagiging emotional ko.

[stylus]

^ haha. Ako din sis. Super sad talaga ng feeling pag di mahanap ni hubby yung gusto ko. One time gusto ko ng chilled taho na mabibili sa sinangag express. Sinuyod nya buong manila kasi yung first branch na pinuntahan nya, closed na pala. Yung next branch, walang available na chilled taho. Sa 3rd try buti meron na. Kung walang mahanap magwawala talaga ako!!!

[loidyloids]

Me too. May mga times na madali akong umiyak. Para nga akong bata eh.

Emotional talaga ang mga buntis 

[arkimommy]

Hubby forgot our anniversary last Friday and grabe iyak ko nun. I think first time niya makalimutan anniv namin. Until now, wala pa rin siyang "bawi". Nung nag-open up ako sa kanya sabi niya pregnancy hormones lang daw nafi-feel ko. Hay.

[crzysxycl]

Same here. Minsan may mapanood lang ako or may maisip akong sad thought, umiiyak na ako. Parang loka loka lang.

[simang]

Maraming salamat sis stylus, krisel. Minsan i feel like yung mga negative emotions kelangan mo lang talaga ilabas in some way. Last week sobrang pagod ang katawan ko and I was very emotional. After my check up last saturday, everything instantly felt better. Parang biglang bumuhos yung positive support from my husband, my OB, my parents, lahat. Kaya ngayon, di na ako ganun nagwoworry. Haha hay roller coaster of emotions talaga ang pagbubuntis.

I might see my baby in 2 weeks. Sobrang excited ako ngayon more than anything :-)

[belle_v2g]

Ang funny ng cravings stories! Lol!! Ako naman kahapon, nagrequest ng choc mud cake. Ubos ang kalahati. Yung half kinain ko ngayon hehe!

[120515]

big hug, sis simang! just a few more weeks

speaking of cravings, last saturday i wanted pancakes, specifically mcdo pancakes, and i was irrationally angry that my husband couldn't get me to mcdo fast enough so i can get my pancake breakfast. as soon as i had my first bite, i felt a whole lot better. he joked that now he has to deal with 2 angry people - me and my baby - if we don't get our way! hahaha!

[belle_v2g]

I'm highly emotional too when I don't get what i want. I easily get affected pag halimbawa, i didn't like the sound of hubby's tone pag nakukulitan sya, or when he spends too much time on his mobile. One time ayaw nya yatang makipag harutan, tinalikuran ko and he didn't realise i was already crying. nakakatawa na nakakainis!

[jelly_ace]

Feeling so low and depress. I've been been out of work for 2 weeks now. First, because my daughter got sick. She was vomiting then pooping like crazy. We took her to the hospital and found out it was due to gastroenteritis then later on UTI then yesterday after having the lab culture for her poop turned out it's salmonella infection. I feel like the worst parent. How can my daughter gotten salmonella?

Then last Sunday was Mother's Day but I was not in the mood to celebrate. I feel so useless staying at home doing nothing but laying on the bed. My morning sickness is now on full swing. All day sickness to the max. Could not eat anything but ice chips. If I try to eat something like bread or cracker I will just throw it all up. So scared. Don't want to be hospitalized.

Hubby couldn't go to work either because he has to take care of me and my daughter. Been crying everyday and the only time I feel better is when I'm asleep. Then I wake up and there goes the morning sickness again.

[blushberry]

I can't imagine being pregnant again.  I don't know why others look happy and glowing.  I just feel really ugly and haggard.  Could be the body and hormonal changes too.

[lyrahs]

Buti na lang nabasa ko tong thread. Naloloka din ako pag alone lang sa bahay.
Gusto ko lagi kami magkasama ng partner ko. weekends lang kasi kami magkasama pag walang work. pag weekdays, nagsstay ako sa bahay namin kasi mas malapit sa work ko. tapos madalas ako nagtatampo sa kanya kasi parang bale wala lang sa kanya na magkahiwalay kami. Hindi niya kasi alam kung ano ang feeling ng isang buntis. Laging feeling ko mag-isa lang ako. Sobrang lungkot pa pag uuwi ka ng walang tao sa bahay, wala kang katabi matulog. Di ko din sinasabi sa kanya na nalulungkot ako pag ako lang mag-isa, di niya din kasi maiintindihan kung bakit ganito ako ngayon. ang hirap lang ng sitwasyon.

sis pareho pala tayo ng situation. Weekends lang din kami magkasama ni partner, buti na lang din at may kasama akong friend sa apartment. Pero umuuwi din sya pag off nya.
Kaya pag andyan si partner, todo lambing ako na wag munang umalis. Tas dadramahan ko pa na iiwan na ako. Last week naalala ko, nakayakap ako sa kanya tas naramdaman nya na basa na yung dibdib nya. Nagulat sya at nagtanong kung ano na naman daw nagawa nya. Haha. Di ko alam isasagot ko, parang bigla akong naumid. Gusto ko lang sana sabihin na wag na muna syang umalis. Hehe. Kakaloka.
Akala ko ako lang ang nakakaramdam ng ayaw mag-isa at nalulungkot. Marami pala ako karamay. Hehe

[kittybabe]

hang in there mga sis. Ako i craved for burger machine's sans rival at midnight. Talagang pinuntahan namin lahat ng alam namin na burger machine in commonwealth ave. i was already teary eyed kasi 4 na napuntahan namin, wala. On our 5th branch meron sila [textspeak!] malaki pa na sans rival. Iyak tawa ako when hubby got into the car and handed over the sans rival to me.

[stylus]

^ako naman sis i used to crave for chilled taho na mabibili sa sinangag express. Nakatatlong branch kami. Sa pang apat meron!

I really didnt get to experience yung "feeling sad" pero i guess mas sensitive yung feelings ko nung naging preggy ako. Pag di nagawa or naibigay kagad yung gusto ko ang bilis ko magtampo.

[Shadow Angel]

Ako din minsan may sad momment hindi naman ako ganito masayahin talaga ako. Si hubby nga tuwang tuwa pag nakikita ako nakangiti kasi mula ng magbuntis ako bihira daw nya ako makita masaya talaga. Gusto ko happy ako magbuntis.