Author Topic: Hubby left his job  (Read 20081 times)

swtgrl_bee

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Re: Hubby left his job
« Reply #120 on: October 16, 2017, 10:42:12 pm »
Tama, sorry ang weird niya. Sabihin na harap harapan na hahanap siya ng iba?  :o Pero kung ako sa sitwasyon mo, iiwan ko talaga siya. Lalo na at may anak ka na. Siguro kung kami lang siguro, baka nakakakilig pa na sa hirap at ginhawa. Pero kung may batang nagugutom na hindi ko man lang mabigyan ng maayos na buhay. Sorry not sorry, pero kahit masakit. Tapusin na.

fifi_girl

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Re: Hubby left his job
« Reply #121 on: October 17, 2017, 12:22:35 pm »
Ilang beses ko na din naitanong sa sarili ko kung gusto ko nga ba sya makasama talaga. But then kahit ako hindi ko alam [textspeak!] sagot.

I would've considered moving in with him sa province. Pero kahit ilang beses ko pagisipan, parang may mali talaga sa gusto nya mangyari, but my gut is telling me something else. And i chose to trust my women's instinct/intuition this time. I know i can't easily "un-Love" him, but i know one day i will get there. One step at a time, i am trying to move on. Sabi ko na lang, bahala na si God, i know he has better plans.

Minsan nga naiisip ko, [textspeak!] kaya iniisip ng family nya pag nakikita nila na im trying to get my life back. That is sometimes go out for lunch with my friends, that i am trying to enjoy my life.  I never deleted them in my FB, kase wala naman kami problem, and i also want them to get updated with my Son kahit thru FB pics lang.

mysterioza_me

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Re: Hubby left his job
« Reply #122 on: October 17, 2017, 03:17:24 pm »
Wag mo isipin kung anong iniisip nila tungkol sa iyo. Tama lang naman ang ginagawa mo. Alangan naman magmukmok ka habang nagmumukmok din ang partner mo. Aware naman siguro sila na ikaw ang sole na nagsusupport sa needs ng bata.

fifi_girl

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Re: Hubby left his job
« Reply #123 on: October 17, 2017, 06:44:11 pm »
^In good terms naman kami ng family nya and naintindihan din naman nila yung naging decision ko. I just hope that they don't take it against me that i am starting to move on, baka kase isipin nila na basta ko na lang iiwan yung kapatid nila.

I still miss him everyday though. I hope dumating agad yung araw na hindi ko na hindi ko na mararamdaman ito. I know i will never forget him, i'll just get used to the fact na hanggang dun lang talaga

alyssa.online

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Re: Hubby left his job
« Reply #124 on: October 17, 2017, 11:54:49 pm »
Sis please talk to him. Right now your family needs love and support. I think hindi nya na talaga kaya job nya.If his passion is into bakery business baka lumago ito. Usap kayo maayos. Malay mo next Bread house or Pande Manila business nya. Usually food business mabenta naman.

fifi_girl

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Re: Hubby left his job
« Reply #125 on: October 19, 2017, 10:32:14 am »
Sis please talk to him. Right now your family needs love and support. I think hindi nya na talaga kaya job nya.If his passion is into bakery business baka lumago ito. Usap kayo maayos. Malay mo next Bread house or Pande Manila business nya. Usually food business mabenta naman.

Naku sis, i already talked to him several times na. Sarado talaga utak niya. Not sure if you've read but he already closed his bakery business, because he cannot afford/find somebody who can help him with the operations. And that time, problema din yun ipapasweldo sa katulong nya kase hindi naman kumikita ng sobra yung tindahan. Kaya nga ako ang pinipilit nya na mag-resign at umuwi so i can help him daw. But then, i cannot just leave my job, since we have a son na kelangan buhayin at pag-aralin.

cupcakejane

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Re: Hubby left his job
« Reply #126 on: November 16, 2017, 11:37:41 pm »
If you attend a couple's group, I would advise asking your group leader to talk to your husband and counsel him.  Sometimes it's not always best to vent out your feelings when he is just as emotional.

shinies

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Re: Hubby left his job
« Reply #127 on: November 17, 2017, 05:21:52 pm »
Kaloka di naman pala kasal :o Ok na din yan nakita yung kaibahan sa pagkatao at may pagkakataon pa umalis sa sitwasyon.

 

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