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neenah

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Orgasmic dysfunction/disorder in Women
« on: March 02, 2016, 07:51:02 am »
Hi, Naghanap ako ng thread about dito pero wala akong makita kaya post ko na..

Parang ngayon ko lang na-assess sarili ko na ganito pala ako,
I am 29yrs old, married with 1 child.
Everytime we make love, wala kong nararamdaman during intercourse,
Meron lang masarap kapag foreplay pero hindi enough, parang kulang talaga..
Palaging ganon ang sitwasyon, then nagkakwentuhan kami ng friends ko last night about dito,
at nalaman ko na ako lang pala sa amin yung ganito.. Parang abnormal lang ang dating..  :'(

Do I need to see a doctor? An OB?

Anyone who had this kind of sickness? Paano ang treatment?

Please share...

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Re: Orgasmic dysfunction/disorder in Women
« Reply #1 on: March 03, 2016, 09:15:05 am »
Sis, do you reach orgasm ba if you masturbate? There are some people who have orgasm through clitoral stimulation (like me) while the others through intercouse or gspot (i consider them the lucky one).  If you can reach the big o through clitoral then i guess you and your partner needs to focus on your clit during love making.

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Re: Orgasmic dysfunction/disorder in Women
« Reply #2 on: March 03, 2016, 09:29:39 pm »
yup tama si tetet baka clitoral stimulation ang need mo to reach an orgasm. Masturbate, kilalanin mo muna every part ng vajj mo at hanapin mo yung kiliti mo para alam mo kung ano ipapagawa kay husband mo kapag nag-do na kayo. Try doggy then tell him to play with your clit with his fingers..

Mula pa ng bf/gf kayo hindi ka pa nagorgasm? Size? Are you taking any medication ba? Wag kang magworry baka makaapekto din yan, experiment muna sis last resort mo na yung pagpunta sa OB..
 
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Re: Orgasmic dysfunction/disorder in Women
« Reply #3 on: March 03, 2016, 11:13:50 pm »
Oh so it's a sickness? I thought it's normal for some percentage of women.

I haven't really explored kasi I don't like doing it on my own.. Weird din if touching while doing it.. If going to a doctor, may mga tests ba ganon?

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« Reply #4 on: March 04, 2016, 01:04:42 pm »
^ Di naman siguro sickness kasi ang pagkakaalam ko rin normal sa ibang babae walang mafeel sa intercourse kaya dapat step up yung partner sa foreplay/oral. Make sure na alam din ng partner para gumawa siya ng ibang paraan para masatisfy ka.

But do you reach orgasm ba sa oral, fingers? Try mo lang magexplore sis na ikaw lang mag-isa so you can take your time malay mo may madiscover ka. Kapag pumunta ka rin naman sa doctor tatanungin ka rin if nag"experiment" ka so gawin mo muna lahat para ready sa Q&As ni doc, tests di ko sure.. Di naman weird si partner mo naman ang magt-touch sayo while you're doing the deed, kalimutan mo muna yung salitang weird when you're doing the deed dapat all-out sis.

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Re: Orgasmic dysfunction/disorder in Women
« Reply #5 on: March 04, 2016, 01:05:58 pm »
@tetet i do maturbate, masarap pero hindi katulad ng mga nabasa at narinig ko about reaching O.. so iba pa pala ang clitoris sa gspot.. i thought pareho lang sila..

@tomhansen thanks! ill try your suggestion, mukhang kaylangan ko na tanggalin ang hiya ko sa ganong posisyon.. hehe.. yes, since bf/gf wala pa.. medication, wala naman.. so OB ba talaga ang pupuntahan kung sakali?

@j.adore idk if sickness nga sis, interpretation ko lang dun sa word na "dysfunction/disorder".. hehe.. hindi ko rin alam kung may tests na ginagawa..

kakakita ko lang nung thread na to "Matagal mag cum/orgasm. Or hindi talaga nag cum/orgasm.", try ko muna magbasa basa..
thanks sa replies!  :)

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Re: Orgasmic dysfunction/disorder in Women
« Reply #6 on: March 04, 2016, 01:10:36 pm »
^^@tomhansen, actually, nag try na ko magexplore on my own, nakapanood na rin ako ng nagmamasturbate na babae, pero kapag ginagaya ko parang wala naman.. yung oral, nasasarapan ako, pero hanggang dun lang.. wala yung O na feeling..

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Re: Orgasmic dysfunction/disorder in Women
« Reply #7 on: March 04, 2016, 03:38:17 pm »
oral, no
fingers, no
penetration, I think I did a few times pero honestly I'm not sure if they're actual O.. and I read if you're unsure, means never pa? Reading up on other's experiences, I never had the same thing din.

By weird I meant naguguluhan yung utak ko haha when doing the deed and my husband touches me at the same time I think I'm confused where to focus the sensation? Though yun yata problem eh, I think more instead of feeling.

Walang point daw masyado yung mga medical tests kasi babalik lang that you're normal hehe. Try mental adjustment daw and also other sexual activities aside from penetration daw.

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« Reply #8 on: March 04, 2016, 04:17:54 pm »
^^ Oo dapat wala ng hiya since magasawa naman kayo, isipin mo lang yung pleasure mo saka mo na isipin yung sinampay or yung sinaing mo kung sunog na. Also try closing your eyes para ang focus mo is yung feeling. Make sure rin na wet na wet ka na before penetration baka kasi nakakaramdam ka ng pain dahil di wet? I think yes sa OBGYN(di ko pa kasi natry haha) since part yung ng trabaho nila.

try mo lang ulit magexplore like 10x pa malay mo diba, kapag ayaw pa rin then saka ka na magpunta sa ob.
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Re: Orgasmic dysfunction/disorder in Women
« Reply #9 on: June 29, 2017, 01:10:43 am »
I know someone who is currently having this dilemma. She's in her 30s, and according to her, everytime she does it with her boyfriend, she feels she's able to climax but doesn't ejaculate - if that makes any sense. Basta, she doesn't cum. It's happened a few consecutive times and both she and her boyfriend are in huge frustration already. Any thoughts?

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Re: Orgasmic dysfunction/disorder in Women
« Reply #10 on: June 29, 2017, 01:39:32 am »
^I don't ejaculate but I most definitely reach orgasm. I think most women are like that, the fluid kasi of females is mainly for lubrication and not necessarily for ejaculation.
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