Need friends

[missgoodvibe]

Hi mga sis!

Tanong ko lang.. Me and my boyfriend kasi nasa situation na sawa na daw siya kasi masyado ako controlling. Dati daw kasi tinitiis niya.. Pero ngayon pagod na siya. Kailangan yata namin ng time away with each other.

I know magiging okay siya since he has a lot of friends.. Ako kasi siya lang meron ako eh. All of my best friends, kasal na. Busy na sa mga buhay pamilya nila. So wala ng pwedeng maging available sa akin, para samahan ako,gumala and talk. How can i cope up? How ans where to meet new friends? Para hindi sakaniya lang umiikot mundo ko. I need help. nakakabaliw

[jtansanco]

Try Tinder. Be careful though because a lot of guys will want to only get under your pants. You can also befriend guytalkers here. I'd recommend TomHansen. HAHA

[junetwentythree]

^^ If they're truly your best friends, they'll make time for you. If anything, you should go visit them! Since they have families now, maybe you can pay them a visit and just catch up. But yeah busy yourself with other things. Sometimes it doesn't even have to involve other people. Find things that interest you and do that! Find yourself. This is the best time to do it! NEVER, ever, and you must take heed now...EVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, make one person your world. EVER.

And yeah, I agree with jtsanco. hehe. TomHansen's looking for a pal. Maybe. Sorry! Joke lang! Or not. Hah!

[missgoodvibe]

^^oh thanks! Pero yung nga, maybe not  tinder. Ayaw ko naman maghanap ng ipapalit, tsaka baka mapahamak pa ako. Haha

^kala ko kasi mundo niya din ako. Kaya i gave everything. Hehe. Sino ba yung tomhansen? Kung gusto niya din ng kausap, pwede ako.

Yes, puntahan ko friends ko pag off ko sa work,  kaso nakakahiya naman mag iiyak sa harap ng family nila.

[jtansanco]

^ Message your high school friends one by one. These are the people you grew up with. That's a good way to start finding an old new friend. Malay mo, si Michael naging Michelle na. You'll never know! Haha. Or check your FB list of friends and message people of interest.

[rasee16]

TS, find a hobby that best interests you. Join a cooking class, fashion class, gym session, yoga class, photography class, backpackers club, whatever it is, try to do something new. It's the best thing to broaden your network. Or if you just want someone to talk to, let's have coffee.

[badw33d]

Tanong ko lang.. Me and my boyfriend kasi nasa situation na sawa na daw siya kasi masyado ako controlling. Dati daw kasi tinitiis niya.. Pero ngayon pagod na siya. Kailangan yata namin ng time away with each other.

meron palang ganyan time away from each other? hehe. break na yan diba?

I know magiging okay siya since he has a lot of friends.. Ako kasi siya lang meron ako eh. All of my best friends, kasal na. Busy na sa mga buhay pamilya nila. So wala ng pwedeng maging available sa akin, para samahan ako,gumala and talk. How can i cope up? How ans where to meet new friends? Para hindi sakaniya lang umiikot mundo ko. I need help. nakakabaliw

take a break? travel? do other stuffs? like rasee16 said, you might want to invite her for coffee and talk, or invite us all for coffee, but you're buying

i see you have 160post, somehow you might know somebody in this forum, start with him/her. then again, i strongly suggest having coffee with us hahaha

[Ma.Jewel_1987]

I'll go with find a new hobby sis, not hubby hehe.

[khaleesiCersei]

Sis try to enjoy your own company. Gumala ka or shopping ka mag isa, mag 'me time' ka, its fun hehe. Isa sa fave ko ang mag coffee by myself, and syempre mag pa spa.. and sis kahit may mga family na ang friends mo im sure makakahanap pa rin kayo ng time to get together. Pero yun nga kung hindi sila available you can try going out by yourself

[missgoodvibe]

Yes, i want to try new hobbies, etc. Pero i can't din kasi gawa ng work ko, shifting ako. So pa iba2 yung time ko. And worry ko kasi baka pag kunwari nasa labas ako, nagttravel, bigla nalang ako masenti, or pag nasa coffee shop ako bigla ako maiyak. Hahaha.

San ba kayo located mga sis? Sa alabang kasi ako. Kung malapit kayo, please samahan niyo ako. Hehe

[badw33d]

^dont worry about it. if you travel, you'll get to see other places and meet new people. and coffee alone? dont be, call Ma.Jewel_1987 or khaleesiCersei hahaha.

[Ma.Jewel_1987]

Why not  Makati ako sis, sa RCBC tower haha

[momentum]

Uuyy taga alabang ka sis? Ako taga Sucat :p kaso I don't know if makakatulong ako sayo kapag depressed ka kasi baka madepressed din ako haha!  But I can be your friend. Ok ba sayo single mom?

 

[cybelekronos]

TS, madami ka makasama sa break up threads, may group sila sa viber. pwede mo makausap. alam ko may group meet up din sila.
or if need mo kausap pm mo lang kami.

yang bf mo ay naku dahilan lang yan. sensya na pero alam na natin san patungo yan time away na yan aka space ending nyan outer space hmf 

[TomHansen]

Try Tinder. Be careful though because a lot of guys will want to only get under your pants. You can also befriend guytalkers here. I'd recommend TomHansen. HAHA

HAHAHA!!! muntik ko nang mabuga yung kape ko sa screen..

[chicafabulosa]

Kasi naman si Jtansanco happy na....

[FayeP]

sis missgoodvibe, makikisabat....catholic/christian ka ba? try mo magjoin sa choir sa church nyo, it's a good start for finding lifelong friends din...

or magvolunteer work ka, yep shifting ka, pero di ka naman siguro 24/7 nasa loob ng office di ba? di naman kelangan whole day un pagvolunteer work...

[Girltalker2]

Sometimes maganda rin matuto mag Isa and being independent. Mahirap laging nag aantay ng kasama kasi there will always be occasions that you need to do things for yourself without a companion, otherwise, walang mangyayari sayo if lagi mo need ng kasama on all of your activities.

So grab this chance to explore what you like/don't like. Church is a good start, that is, if it interests you. Exercise/gym is also good.

[jtansanco]

HAHAHA!!! muntik ko nang mabuga yung kape ko sa screen..

missgoodvibe, meet TomHansen.
TomHansen, meet missgoodvibe.

PM away! Hahaha!


@chicafabulosa - can't be happy knowing may abangero! Hahaha

[junetwentythree]

HAHAHA!!! muntik ko nang mabuga yung kape ko sa screen..

E-di punasan ang screen tapos mag-message na kay TS...