Hi, mga sis

A thousand thanks for the very warm birthday greetings

Hi, cldy_1981.
Yes, that kind of role is not something one would want to be in not unless nga appreciated and recognized yun efforts. As with how most of us find ourselves in a situation may it be to our liking or not ay its really about the chi within us. When we radiate a certain frequency ng chi ay that is also what we attract to us.
Okay, like what akthung shared ay self-assess muna. A honest assessment ha.
Minsan kasi by trying hard we are actually creating the problems that we so hate. This is why we often advise you take a pause - and have a Kitkat moment.
I am not sure kung napapansin rin ninyo na when you are in that state - tawagin na natin muna na Kitkat moment - ay magaan ang dating and you even gain some enlightenment. This is because you have purged o at least put down those barriers that limit your feel of the situation o flow of events.
Ganito muna gawin mo. Review the recent times na na-feel mo ganyan ang mga pangyayari. Then write down what were your observations on yourself as well as those around you. Tapos expand mo. What did you have sa meals prior, did you get to rest, were you relaxed o happy or not, etc. This is to assess ano ang flow ng chi that led to these kind of developments.
Hindi kasi mangyayari iyan without something to trigger it. Even if its karma pa. Something has to trigger it.
For kahit karma level pa na event IF measures were made CORRECTLY or as best as one could ay mitigated ang situation. This may it be mayroon o wala ka na "pangontra." Per personal experience ay mitigated circumstances ang what can one expect mostly.
Okay, let me give you an example using myself as an example - I know this is usually frowned on but walang magamit na example kasi. Hindi ba sinabi ko me and wifey applied for a NBI clearance. We had ours done sa satellite office As may lumabas daw na hit na katulad ng name namin na may kaso ay punta daw kami ng main office. It was already a bother that they made us wait more than the prescribed number of days (FYI. 3 working days ang norm na dapat ngayon.) Then may pa-computer pa sila when wala naman palang kwenta. As ewan why they ask for our photos, biometrics, etc. when they still base their "hits" on the name.
Anyway, punta kami na ng NBI. It has been quite a while since we visited the main office nila. Sa side entrance ang mga mag-apply not the old one that faces Taft. Shocker 1. Libre ang wifi sa loob though ewan where you can apply online - didn't check. Not sure if they have personnel to assist too. Shocker 2. Kahit mga galing Las Pinas and Cavite kasama namin pumila to clear ourselves na hindi kami ang may kaso. Shocker 3. Staff nila ewan kung takot o kaunti lang ang alam as hindi masagot ilang mga tanong namin. Shocker 4: May mas ewan na who directed me to go back to the satellite office kasi mali yun spelling sa NBI clearance I got. Sabi ko direct me to where I can have this done here kahit magbayad pa ako uli. Lumabas doon connected nga naman yun entry sa satellite office with theirs. And yes, it looks like it was my fault - used a lousy keyboard sa internet cafe. Really need to level up to a better celfone - reminder to myself. Shocker 5. I am not sure kung understaffed sila or not as 5pm ang limit ng time they serve the public and holiday come the first day of susunod na week. Natapos rin lahat wherein I got to hold my patience - yehey! Though took down where I can send my suggestions - na gagawin ko pa lang.
The lesson here is on each phase (marami actually but iyan na lang as maging nobela pa yun kwento) ay I could've radiated a different chi that would affect me in a different way emotionally and physically which would result in me not being helpful to the situation. What I kept reminding myself was dating tao rin ako ng gobyerno at alam ko ang nangyayari sa kanila. It is not their direct fault - save for a handful na ewanness to the max talaga - kaya ganun ang kind of service. And I did notice that when you radiate that positive chi yun kausap mo gets a positive boost too.
So my advise sa iyo (muli) ay review then figure out how to adapt next time that happens. Not naman that you voice out you handled the situation the others left unfinished in a so-direct way. Meaning do not be like Mr. Trillanes na suited to handle the chairmanship of videoke control. Sabi nga nila they are many ways to cook chicken - parang pangit kasi yun many ways to skin a cat.
Will see if I can create a short kodigo for a special cleansing. Have yet to ask my students if it helped them kasi. Its basically quite like mga video links akthung shares to us iyon.
For now kung stumped ka ay iwasan mo ang meat for a few days. As in all meat. Sabihin mo na minimum of 4 straight days and observe. Kung kaya ng powers ay 7 to 9 days. Bawal mag-cheat ha as pati choco, softdrinks, etc. off limits. And what vices one has.