Anyone Into Feng Shui (Thread 20)

[Sunrise]

Hi po sir CH,

Aware po ako na GM ngayon pero okay lang po ba magstart ng investment kahit GM? Planning to invest po sa UITF or mutual fund kasi. Thanks in advance po.

Mga sis, saang church po pwedeng makaattend ng cleansing of family tree?

[CityHunter]

Hi, Sunrise.

No.  Do not take that risk more so its a Fire year (plus Monkey year pa.)  Yes, may bit of chance that things would play out for the better.  My banker already messaged me na adjusted yun forex or something so good time to rethink investments.  Ha ha, as if our savings is anything big.  Pero ako would plan my moves pag September na.

I talked with a priest friend - director ng old school namin - and he mentioned sa Ateneo mayroon.  I also got to talk with a priest sa Don Bosco Makati and mayroon rin daw doon.  Yun lang when some here asked there wala daw.  


Hi, rarity.

In some cases by doing service you also get to fix yourself.  Sa remedies when you really figure things out ay its really doing something to help your karma.  For example, kung nasa forecast mo na mawawalan ka ng pera in a very big way ay that means serious losses.  However, all is not lost.  Para makontra iyon then spend on something useful (and good sana rin) in a big way.  Why do you think we are encouraging you folks to do good deeds on a regular basis.  And in level na masabi mo real sacrifice - yun aaray ka talaga. 

However, may mga aspects rin in our life na dapat by exploring or even rediscovering ourselves.  As not all can easily find worthy gurus hence the request that folks share their thoughts and even questions here.  Pati na insights, etc.  For even a guru can learn from the student.   And indeed wait ka lang.  When the time is right the guru will find you too.  Dahil if one forces itself ay mas malamang you end up with something that may lead you to the dark side.

Ha ha.  I too need to read on quantum physics

If you are to ask how I do mine ay usually I do it early in the day.  That way rested and digested yun food na - well, mostly digested.  Mas able to focus ako on the task.  Admittedly, I tend to take it for granted that I could connect to them easily.


Hi, cldy_1981 (and mga sis.)

What I do naman is I really set aside a moment for it.  I usually reserve ang dawn for that.  This way clear pa ang mind ko and alam ko that moment is set aside just for Him. 


Hi, sweetsweet.

I totally have no idea that SM offers such to those who give birth at their place.  For me kasi each of us are born with a certain blessing and curse.  Isipin na lang ninyo why was it that Jesus was born in a very simple place. 


Hi, najine.

A mother-to-be is considered blessed dahil not all are granted that privilege.  However, your and that of your child(ren)-to-be ay on a phase wherein changes are happening.  Hence the erratic chi.  Kung sa Star Wars ay ang sasabihin sa iyo, "I sense a disturbance in the Force."  Not in that serious level of a magnitude naman often but definite something that can produce unexpected developments.


Hi, honeybunny, itt and mga sis.

Cleansing of the Family Tree is one good option.  Dahil this is a joint effort that touches on sa past, present and future.  Its not easy to find a good equivalent pa for that.  One can figure out some of the root causes, do some sacrifices but its simply like a general practitioner trying to fix something that requires an expert. 


Hi, mga sis.

Malapit na magtapos ang Ghost Month but do not let your guard down yet.  Usually ang 3 days after ay also treated with caution.  To those who feel things have been bad but have done nothing to help fix things ay pwede pa kayo humabol.  Do not forget to set aside a moment sa last day of this month to reflect on your actions, thoughts and deeds.  To seek the liberation of the damned souls who truly seek repentance.  And lastly yun sarili rin ninyo seek forgiveness and cleansing.

[akthung]

my thoughts on the topic,

not addressing anyone in particular but just sharing

However, may mga aspects rin in our life na dapat by exploring or even rediscovering ourselves.  As not all can easily find worthy gurus hence the request that folks share their thoughts and even questions here.  Pati na insights, etc.  For even a guru can learn from the student.   And indeed wait ka lang.  When the time is right the guru will find you too.  Dahil if one forces itself ay mas malamang you end up with something that may lead you to the dark side.

yes gurus are people and they themselves are on the path too, its just that they're way ahead and there are times that they do need to learn from others... however it doesnt mean that the aspirant is automatically on equal footing with the guru or a senior disciple. may mga tao kasi na naglalaro ang ego, kung umasta kala mo sino na, na dapat automatic ka equal mo na.  its like work, when you're new you have to put in the work and make good results, show them that you can be depended on, many gurus are clairvoyant and they don't rely much on the physical. they check on the cleanliness of your chakras, the size, how big your spiritual cord is...they can check every detail in your life...cuz really....if one is preachy pero makapal pa ang isang sinulid kesa spiritual cord nung tao, hindi yan paniniwalaan ng guru. simple as that. because somewhere in there,  there is something wrong. dumaan din ako dyan.

noon, feeling ko mabait akong tao kaya madali lang dapat. but no. LOL the odds were against me because i was very young. people thought i was only part of the spiritual group because i was of my parents. dead wrong sila. i went there because i wanted too even if my parents were against it.

wala pa akong nacocontribute sa mundo noon so to speak and probably aura wise i wasnt that convincing too. dinaan ko sa practice, character building, attendance, service sa ibang lugar at grupo. and later on i stood out. the guru was strict and i was often facepalmed at the beginning, but one day the guru over heard me talking to another member. nakita niya paano ako mag iisip and how i understood things (in hindsight eto narealize ko). he like what he heard what happened next was he'd always single me out, he'd advise me based on his clairvoyant readings even if i didnt ask for them (binabasa basa niya ako every time he sees me). minsan out of 600+ people bababa yan ng stage at pupunta sa dulo (where i am) and magbibigay ng payo. then one they he asked me to visit him at his home. what im trying to say is one must work hard to be at equal footing, walang automatic entitlement, hindi pwede attitude ng millenials dito, same thing sa business world...you have to work hard before the CEO listens to you, and learn from you. matalino mga yan. but once you're there then you feel like you're brothers...but still sila pa din yung guru. most of the time its us who needs to learn from them.


In some cases by doing service you also get to fix yourself. 

service din kasi is parang sinasala ka sa apoy. when you meet people you see yourself. its like a group project. nakikita mo sino dedicated. sino ang tamad. sometimes service and the projects that come with it is a way that a teacher sifts students. also its easier to heal pag nasala ka sa fire dahil yun mag didisintegrate ng mga crystallized negative energies.

Cleansing of the Family Tree is one good option.  Dahil this is a joint effort that touches on sa past, present and future.  Its not easy to find a good equivalent pa for that.  One can figure out some of the root causes, do some sacrifices but its simply like a general practitioner trying to fix something that requires an expert.

meron din kaming cleansing, same concept, but we also tackle those beyond the family tree. its just that it takes a lot of energy to go to the past, most specially the ancient past, and heal and disintegrate problems and crystallization. usually its the master and the support from the master's lineage of inner teachers that provides the huge amount of energy. if one tries to do this on their own, its like spreading paper so thin its practically useless. immediate past is easier for the individual. and one must constantly do it. parang nag popolish ng bakal. it takes time to reach a mirror like shine

[CityHunter]

Hi, mga sis.

Ihabol ko na lang the rest when I could but share ko muna the following.  Very true yun sa last part ng recent post ni akthung. 

When I was asking Him for help on a very special case wherein all I have on my arsenal was simply like trying to plug a dike full of many holes ay that was when a friend helped.  She directed me to another friend who introduced me to their guru.  This guru hindi rin niya alam why his guru supported by other fellow gurus forwarded to him a certain mantra.  Hindi type ng guru friend namin in using that mantra as it deals with super serious problems na iniiwasan na niya to handle.  So in short ay that mantra was meant for me to use for this case and it helped not just that person but many. 

Yun guru friend rin namin continues to level up and discover new things.  Minsan he went to a neighboring country and bago pa sila magsimula ng chant ay he already heard something chanting it.  He was surprised so asked the priest and ang sagot was angel presence kasi. 

That guru friend died but he is now reborn - be open minded if you do not believe in reincarnation. 

And on the subject of options besides the Cleansing of the Family Tree ay in time it would be allowed to be openly shared. 

Plus to remind everyone sa pointed out on learning from each other.  The inexperienced gets mistakes because of lack of experience nga.  But the experienced makes mistakes due to overconfidence.  In short do not be mayabang.

[cldy_1981]

Hi, mga sis.

Ihabol ko na lang the rest when I could but share ko muna the following.  Very true yun sa last part ng recent post ni akthung. 

pus to remind everyone sa pointed out on learning from each other.  The inexperienced gets mistakes because of lack of experience nga.  But the experienced makes mistakes due to overconfidence.  In short do not be mayabang.

Sir CH - my own experience on this po is that I keep going back to this thread and to the people here because walang judgement especially from you (I'm not patronizing you - but really more of thankful ako) kasi sa totoo lang ang hirap to understand things that are not commonly discussed and shared or people do not necessarily believe in.

Ako po kasi as a person, talagang sadyang matanong ako, kahit po sa work and kahit sa asawa ko (hahaha!) kasi I want to ask questions rather than assume and misunderstand things. And always po, nakakakuha ako ng advise and learnings from you without making me feel na ang "t****" ko or masama akong tao. hehe!

[akthung]

I'll have to be honest.

*when reading the following words, think of the most neutral tone *

If your concern is how good you feel, then hindi ka uubra sa mga Master.

Buti nga nasa GT ka lang at hindi kakilala ng mga tao pero ako, ive been embarassed in front of hundreds of people, ive been scolded, shamed and even "disowned"

may kausap kaming malaking tao noon, and the person asked my teacher kung sino ako. He said i was no one and that i do not represent him (kahit ako ang rerepresent sa kanya), ...

after the meeting he told me he tested my ego. And he was happy with how i responded.

 You can not fool a master with false humility. He can hear your thoughts and see your emotions

minsan iniwan din ako out of a meeting...

And minsan din inutusan ako si i wouldnt be part of the meeting...

Think about it, if you're protecting how you feel and think...what is it really that you are protecting?

[CityHunter]

So what do we need to do about all of these inter-generational curses caused by ancestral sins? Two things - You can recite the prayer below from Father Hampsch and the Claretian Teaching Ministry every day. The best time to recite it is immediately after Holy Communion, when you and Jesus Christ are one; when you are like the Blessed Virgin Mary - a living tabernacle of The Savior. That is when you are the holiest, and when your prayers are the most efficacious. A few minutes of heartfelt prayer after receiving Jesus in the Eucharist while in the state of grace are worth many hours of prayer later on.

And, you can also have the spiritual benefits of having Holy Mass celebrated for your family tree - past, present AND future.

PRAYER FOR HEALING THE FAMILY TREE

"Heavenly Father, I come before you as your child, in great need of your help; I have physical health needs, emotional needs, spiritual needs, and interpersonal needs. Many of my problems have been caused by my own failures, neglect and sinfulness, for which I humbly beg your forgiveness, Lord. But I also ask you to forgive the sins of my ancestors whose failures have left their effects on me in the form of unwanted tendencies, behavior patterns and defects in body, mind and spirit. Heal me, Lord, of all these disorders.

With your help I sincerely forgive everyone, especially living or dead members of my family tree, who have directly offended me or my loved ones in any way, or those whose sins have resulted in our present sufferings and disorders. In the name of your divine Son, Jesus, and in the power of his Holy Spirit, I ask you, Father, to deliver me and my entire family tree from the influence of the evil one. Free all living and dead members of my family tree, including those in adoptive relationships, and those in extended family relationships, from every contaminating form of bondage. By your loving concern for us, heavenly Father, and by the shed blood of your precious Son, Jesus, I beg you to extend your blessing to me and to all my living and deceased relatives. Heal every negative effect transmitted through all past generations, and prevent such negative effects in future generations of my family tree.

I symbolically place the cross of Jesus over the head of each person in my family tree, and between each generation; I ask you to let the cleansing blood of Jesus purify the bloodlines in my family lineage. Set your protective angels to encamp around us, and permit Archangel Raphael, the patron of healing, to administer your divine healing power to all of us, even in areas of genetic disability. Give special power to our family members' guardian angels to heal, protect, guide and encourage each of us in all our needs. Let your healing power be released at this very moment, and let it continue as long as your sovereignty permits.

In our family tree, Lord, replace all bondage with a holy bonding in family love. And let there be an ever-deeper bonding with you, Lord, by the Holy Spirit, to your Son, Jesus. Let the family of the Holy Trinity pervade our family with its tender, warm, loving presence, so that our family may recognize and manifest that love in all our relationships. All of our unknown needs we include with this petition that we pray in Jesus' precious Name. Amen."

[itt]

^^ thank you sir CH ay may PM po ako sa inyo

[snowberry]

Hello Sir CH . I just want to ask you if these happenings in my house ay may kinalaman sa ghost month, just a co incidence or there's some thing in my house. Sunod sunod kasi nasira mga gamit sa bahay. First is yung gripo, after a day yung pipe, afterwards heater ng bathroom, then the car, then the fan and then kanina coffee maker , which is really unusual . This happened in a span of 2 weeks. I really get so upset kasi ako pa naman yung tao na ayaw na ayaw kong may sirang gamit. Hay , pagod na ko sa kakapaayos.  What do you think po sir CH? Is there something sa house? Please help.

Nabasa ko yung prayer na itinuro nyo sa kabilang thread ( yung sa kulam) , will this work?

[katesys]

Thank you so much po Sir CH for the prayer!! Malaking malaking tulong po yan I'm sure hindi lang po sa akin

Ask ko lang po kung naniniwala po ba kayo / relevant din po ba sa feng shui yung astrological events like Mercury retrograde, other planets retrograde, etc.  Sabi po kasi mag-Mercury retrograde Aug 31 to Sept 23, etc. so ang advice ng iba is to postpone important things and may risk daw of misunderstandings, miscommunications, etc.  Nakakapraning lang po, lalong mapopostpone ang mga plano pero syempre better na lang din po siguro yun kesa may pumalpak.

[akthung]

For me i think you need to give more.

also sometimes when we ask for something bigger than what our karma allows, but we are still a bit entitled to it, something has to give, to make way for the new thing to come.

for me good sign yan because its either something good is coming or if imbes the bad energy goes to you it goes to your things instead. You can always buy new things but if bad energy or karma hits you, you'll never now if you can recover or fully recover... Better lose the objects imho

even better is when one becomes more generous

[CityHunter]

Hi, snowberry.

I would have to agree with akthung.  Do note that as I write/type this all I am eating is bread with raspberry spread.  Hence, no distortion sa chi ko in sensing what you fear may be caused by unnatural forces.

True na you are fortunate as instead of you or your family suffering mismo - as in kayo ang mag-suffer as a person - ay mga gamit instead.  Ito iyong sinasabi ko noon na don't worry you lost something materially expensive o such as kaya naman mabalik iyon sa future. 

Ano ba ang reason behind Ghost Month?  Hindi ba iyang mga damned are here to make us notice so we won't end up like them.  Plus, to help us help them or those who may end up like them.

[snowberry]

Oh, ganoon po pala.  Well, not to brag hindi naman po ako nakakalimot tumulong sa iba. Pero sabi nyo nga maybe I need to give more. Ayoko po kasing isipin na I will give just so I can get a good karma. So ,pag tumulong po ako yung kaya ko at bukal sa kalooban ko, which is the way it should be.

Thanks a lot Akhtung and Sir CH. This is really enlightening. I will ponder on this and kahit paano nawala yung disappontment ko sa mga pangyayari.

[akthung]

Oh, ganoon po pala.  Well, not to brag hindi naman po ako nakakalimot tumulong sa iba. Pero sabi nyo nga maybe I need to give more. Ayoko po kasing isipin na I will give just so I can get a good karma. So ,pag tumulong po ako yung kaya ko at bukal sa kalooban ko, which is the way it should be.

to me, what matters most is I had suggested a potential solution, out of the many available in this universe. i've been down the same line loong long time ago...i was asked to do tithing...to be more generous....at that time i thought we were already generous *enough* dahil nag eemploy kami ng tao, nagpapaaral ng empleyado at bata, nagdodonate but it wasnt enough pala for my situation. giving should transcend the emotions and even the mental processes. giving and receiving is like yin and yang. many of us are like always in the receive receive and receive mode.....its like we keep on inhaling...but we do need to exhale...or we exhale a little and inhale again.   we dont think of inhalation and exhalation...its is what is is...just like yin and yang. there must balance. give to balance. there is also receiving to balance....  so when someone says, "ang ganda ganda mo ngayon!!" its better to say "thank you!"  kesa "hindi naman, sobra ka naman".

well, at least nandyan na ang idea....you will remember the idea when you need it...

[CityHunter]

Hi, snowberry (and mga sis.)

Let me try to explain things a bit better with regards to why we encourage you to do good deeds.  It is not just about saving ourselves.  We do have to admit that is part of doing such an act else we are lying to ourselves.  However, we do it too in God's name - I do hope you folks are! - and to TRULY help those who need deserving help.  Paano kung hindi naman pala deserving of help pero natulungan mo?  Such was the question posed to me yesterday.

If the circumstances were that you did go your way out to help someone yet realized later you were simply tricked ay that is part of your life lessons.  Pero hindi in a negative way as long as you learned from it.  Minsan all the signs are there but we choose to ignore it.  Gut feel mo parang Spiderman's warning sense ringing madly, etc.  Dahil that situation was meant for you to happen and it was the option that you can survive from.

This is because hindi naman tayo fated to live na always maswerte.  Minsan malas arrives to balance karma and to help us understand ourselves and others better.  Ito rin ang way to mitigate or even avert certain unpleasant experiences.

Tulad ng sabi ni akthung minsan akala natin enough na.  Dahil ba may pinag-aaral ka na katulong?  Dahil ba mayroon ka na old couple living sa streets na you often give food to?  Or iyong mga askal and pusakal whom you feed with your table scraps at night?  Umpisa pa lang iyan.  Kung sa kotse ay you just turned the key sa ignition (sa mga sosi cars ay push button na) and have fed gas to turn on the engine.  Minsan hindi mag-start agad di ba kahit brand new car.  But should you stop attempting? 

Yun next level ay transcend those initial limitations.  Remember about that bit on ego?  About doing away with it?  Arrogance and self-interest.  Iyan ang mga what brings about enemies.  Hindi ba contributors iyan to ego?  These are all parts of what we must learn.  Sometimes the lessons may be hard pero parang bitter pill iyan na we need to swallow.  Just like how we need a strong hand to fix this country and rid of it of the cancer.

[Yvet]

Hi Sir CH,

Ginagawa po ngayon repairs sa bahay na tinitirhan namin. Akala namin magiging tahimik lang ang repair - lalagyan lang ng sealant yung bubong kasi sabi ng administrator ng bahay pinalitan nil a yung bubong bago kami lumipat. Di ko akalain mag iingay sila - ingay ng martilyo, drill at welding

May magagawa po ba kami para mabawasan ang puwedeng dumating na malas dahil sa ingay ng repairs?

Thank you po

[cldy_1981]

I'll have to be honest.

*when reading the following words, think of the most neutral tone *

If your concern is how good you feel, then hindi ka uubra
Think about it, if you're protecting how you feel and think...what is it really that you are protecting?

Hi Akthung - when I saw your post, I had to re-read it mga 3x to get the what you were trying to say.

Then today lang I realized something while I was washing dishes ditto sa office (yes sobrang random and I also noticed I get "light bulb" moments while doing random things, but I digress) I was thinking to myself na sometimes people think that what they are doing is because of "prinsipyo" or because hindi ka fake na tao pero in fact its the ego and not the prinsipyo per se. It was something I connected to what you said - what are you protecting. Thanks for sharing this.

But I have a question for you and Sir CH - when does one draw a line between testing vs being kind to teach someone?

Naiisip ko lang that like the previous examples you shared and also Sir CH, a diamond is not formed unless it goes through fire & its valid - like sa pagpapalaki ng anak di naman parating mabait. On the flipside naman, how do you (or a person in general) come to a decision what is the appropriate action? Kasi again I liken it to parenting, although a parent has to be strict and gets angry I would like to think its still never intentionally hurtful? Just curious. Not even sure if nag-me-make sense yung question ko.

[akthung]

Depende sa master and student yan.

but usually when you have a real master... Kung responsible sya sa iyo... Hanggang mamatay ang master... Because the ego is slippery.  Babantayan ka nyan. Wala kang lusot.

kaya nga malupet ang iba kasi binabasag nila yung ego. Its always like that. Teacher ko nga pinapahid ng tae yung mukha nya ng Guru niya lol.
Pina meditate pa sya na nakaupo sa "sh*t".  My teach hesitated pa, sabi ng guru niya "i thought you said God is everywhere?"

maski naman ako ganun din noon, subconsciously reaction kasi is to protect the ego.

yung isang master ko patay na. Noon hate na hate ko pag pinagagalitan. Pinarusahan din ako nun dahil mali mudra nagawa ko. I told my self tagal ko nanh graduate ng high school and im going thru this again?? Kulang pa! Sinama pa niya buong class sa parusa ko, kaya galit na galit sila sa akin.

Pero ngayon, kinaiinggitan ako ng mga tao, sana sila din daw naparusahan LoL

kelan bukas ang isip para mabasag yung mga nag crystalize na energy, attitude, mental thinking, energy yan.

Si buddha nangbabanish yan. Iba kasi conditioning ng christianity. Love is not the only energy out there... May Will, Creative Intelligence, and so on

dati ko ngag driver isa na sa mga teacher ko ngayon. Beterano pala sa Latin LoL Para akong pinagagalitan, halo halo na din kasi, tapos anak niya super clairvoyant, as in super, in the end sino yung gusto matuto? Kaya tuloy lang ako. Kahit baligtad na posisyun namin. Walang balat sibuyas

[rarity]

Question po sir Akthung,
 
as a mom po kase I can relate since
I have to be the bad guy minsan to discipline and even to other people who may take advantage sometimes we have to tell them when they cross a line. Although teachings all over tell us to be compassionate to be forgiving. Say it is not a master-guru relationship is it ok to tell off people specially if we are close friends or family.
 
Minsan you cant help it as a parent to get mad sometimes talaga naalala ko si Jesus in the bible nagalit siya at nagwala dahil yung mga tao ginawang market ang house of God. And as you said si Buddha nang babanish which may mean it was a desperate situation to have him give up on someone.


I guess my question is being enlightened or awakaned just like Saints and Masters doesnt mean they are in an always Zen mindset nagagalit din sila?   And if so Isnt that negative action going to ensue negative karma sa atin down the line?
 

[akthung]

Question po sir Akthung,
 
as a mom po kase I can relate since
I have to be the bad guy minsan to discipline and even to other people who may take advantage sometimes we have to tell them when they cross a line. Although teachings all over tell us to be compassionate to be forgiving. Say it is not a master-guru relationship is it ok to tell off people specially if we are close friends or family.
 
Minsan you cant help it as a parent to get mad sometimes talaga naalala ko si Jesus in the bible nagalit siya at nagwala dahil yung mga tao ginawang market ang house of God. And as you said si Buddha nang babanish which may mean it was a desperate situation to have him give up on someone.


I guess my question is being enlightened or awakaned just like Saints and Masters doesnt mean they are in an always Zen mindset nagagalit din sila?   And if so Isnt that negative action going to ensue negative karma sa atin down the line?
 

we need to be tough sometimes.

Minsan you cant help it as a parent to get mad sometimes talaga naalala ko si Jesus in the bible nagalit siya at nagwala dahil yung mga tao ginawang market ang house of God. And as you said si Buddha nang babanish which may mean it was a desperate situation to have him give up on someone.

toughness and compassion depends on your level of development. we are all growing. kaya for me, i opine parents should be actively doing character building, not just for themselves but for their children. kaya ikaw lang makakasagot. and sa ibang tao ganun din.

I remember one time galit na galit nanay ko noon sa akin as a kid, kasi ang bagal ko daw maglakad. hinihila pa niya kamay ko, and i would always spend the night with a sore lats (latissimus dorsi) and arm. but even amongst her friends (in hingsight) lakad kabayo nga daw ang ermats ko.
pero hindi niya inisip yun. to her i was slow. so one day, internally i had enough, maybe my spirit guide saw it, nung kinaladkad niya ako, may narinig akong message, and inulit ko yung message sa nanay ko, and she stopped doing it. i guess the message was worded to bestrong enough to reach her inside. (kaya yung iba din dito nagtataka, i get PMs telling me what i wrote was true and spot on.)
i show the comments here to my contemporaries, iisa lang ang reply nila. siguro later maiintindihan mo kung bakit.  *by the way, alam ko bakit tinanong tong topic na to.* hahaha
so mom ko, even though many see her as intelligent and wise, hindi niya naisipan na bata ang dinedemand niyang mag lakad ng mabilis. i was 5 or 6 ata nun.

yes for a master to banish someone, malupet yun. on a lower level, usually kinaasaran ng teachers yung mahilig mag emote. yung emotional based. kasi inaangat na nga but the person gives in to the slightest disturbance. tapos nakakahawa pa ang ganun.

many teachers use tough love kasi yun ang makakabreak nang na crystalized ugali (glamor illusion and maya) part na yun.  lalo na kung umusbong yung student, some masters nakamit na nila yung karma less state.

also teachers ay tao, may mga ugali din ang bawat teacher hahaha some will drive you nuts.