Anyone Into Feng Shui (Thread 20)

[myjourney88]

Uy si sir naka reply agad hehe, anyways po, yup hirap ako, kasi sir, real pains shared? hmmm sa totoo lang wala na ako maalala na bonding namin ng real heart to heart, dati nung time na nag complain ako sabihin na natin about nga salary was last time, but before wala talaga extra story about my personal life na na i share because naramdaman namin yung wall sa kanila and even though na may unti chance hindi na ako share or whatsoever kasi nga hindi naman namin ramdam care bilang employers, I dont know sir, sa totoo lang hindi naman ako ganun ka close sa mga boss ko, dun sa isa sa gay, nakaka usap ko naman sya but not on personal matters.  May harang pakiramdam ko.

My weakness kita mo sa face ko pag inis ako hahaha, I know may times di ko natatago sa kanila yan.  Ang feeling ko talaga na di sila kakampi, na ishare ko na din sa mga iba staff namin. Well lalo na sa girl na boss lahat naman kami aloof, but for me I dont want to reach out na sa kaniya. I dont feel na giving extra effort, in general to this workplace. Andun na nasa isip ko na pinaramdam nila sa akin na hanggang dyan ka lang sa likod nila kasi di ako pasok sa standards nila.

Si girl boss always commenting on the way I dress, na kesyo I am not dressy bilang nasa marketing department ako, which ano ba uunahin ko pumorma ako or family needs ko (bread winner ako!).  They told me that kesyo pano daw ako pagtitiwalaan sa project ng client if hindi ako dress up.  So i tried naman, still sa girl not enough, eh hellow naman wala ako pambili basta basta no and salary ko not enough nga. I dont know some of her partners are happy daw naman sa akin, but then sa kanya, still Im not ready daw. Ok sige na lang, hindi naman nila ako din bigyan ng help / guide in terms sa trabaho ko ito, puro self study.  I remember last time na magka usap kami ni gay boss na mention ni girl boss na what she is looking for is someone like them na extra ordinary daw. Ok fine, I dont know what kind of extra ordinariness they have.
Mention pa ni gay boss na sila naman din nabigyan ng chance and support ng mga dati nila boss kaya unlad. sa isip ko alam nyo naman pala pero bakit wala ako promotion, sa isip ko na lang sige na nga standards nya yon sorry na lang ako sya boss ko. even though marami naman nakaka appreciate sa kakayahan ko. hahaha haba na pasensya na sir venting. I dont know talaga what to do.

Kung hirap ka how to achieve that ay ito muna sagutin mo: was there a time na nagkaroon kayo ng team dinner (or such) wherein real personal pains were shared?  There is a reason why this is so often seen sa mga Koreanovelas.  Be reminded lang na if one drinks ay make sure ay someone who did not ang magmaneho o have a taxi bring the subject(s) home.

FYI.  Sa mga weirded out ay this is still along the lines that I mentioned na pag-aralan mo yun opposing signs ng animal sign mo.

[CityHunter]

Hi, mga sis.

Let's go back lang about the spiritual spouse - dahil malapit na ang Ghost Month.  Whatever negative supernatural experience it may be it still has to obey basic laws.  Hindi iyan madadaan sa agimat o charm.  What is important is that it has nothing to use to take root in you.

Why did I have you folks read Psalm 23 (or its equivalent)?  That is the answer that you seek for such a question.  I learned that the hard way so I have shared it here so that you folks won't need to undergo the same experiences just to realize that.  Kahit pa wala kang suot na pangontra you can survive the darkness.

What is that something that it can use to take root sa atin?  Negative energy.  Ano ang negative energy?  Any negative emotion that you have not gotten rid of.  Iyong wanting to get revenge.  Iyong envy o lust.  Pwede rin sadness. 

And when you think you are better that you can best the minions of the dark ay better think again.  These are older than man so they know more tricks than you.  If you think making deals with them is a good thing ay that would appear so sa simula but you will realize it soon enough that its just like a politico corrupto's promises - madaya. 


Hi, myjourney88.

Leadership.  Iyan yun lacking sa mga boss mo.  Something our nation has sought for many years and hopefully with the new leadership ay it has been found.

Leadership is far different from being a boss.  It is something that has to be practiced while the latter is simply about appointment to a position.  You have to love the people you lead before you can be a leader.  Yes, you can be a boss without leadership but it would be filled with negative experiences.  And this is what is happening sa case mo - lack of leadership from your superiors.

I opine its the culture rin here.  Marami tend to forget that its people they are with.  Na kapag naka-pwesto na nawawala na yun pagiging tao.  Its simply Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde in a whole new level.

Nabigyan ng chance ng previous boss.  Notice how they failed to realize how this was made to happen simply because they chose to be blind to it. 

Now, as trying to make these realize their errors is beyond your capabilities ay what is it that you can do - obviously out ang mga negative actions like paying mga tambay to teach them a lesson outside ng office, etc.  Yes, I know of folks who did that approach but it hasn't really changed pa rin the person.

One example.  Masasabi mo ba sa akin na you have that walk of confidence?

[myjourney88]

Hi Sir,

natawa ako dun sa paying tambay anyways ang ganda ng sinabi mo about leadership ewan ba sir ganun nga talaga iba bosses.

Anyways what do you mean by this? 

One example.  Masasabi mo ba sa akin na you have that walk of confidence?

Thanks

[itt]

sir ch? worried po ako kasi GM yung surgery ko:(

[CityHunter]

Hi, itt.

Why not have mass said for yourself set for that day na magpa-surgery ka?  Or better yet once a week until your surgery and do a charity work for someone who is also facing health issues like what you require surgery for.  Simply go sa charity ward section and ask the nurses.  State na you want to help someone suffering such a health problem, etc.


Hi, myjourney88.

Ha ha.  But its a true story iyon - oy, hindi ako ang may sala ha.  Back in school may isang dean na ubod ng ewan.  So this gang of ewan na students inabangan siya and dumped him sa mabahong creek near our school.  The threat was ilog o buhay - so you know na what choice he made.  Pero despite that lesson he still did not change.  Maybe to whom he feel may be with that gang pero personal experience ko parang wala naman nagbago.  He's the sort of school official who would make a buck or two from you and bingi na sa mga complaints o suggestions mo. 

Walk of confidence.  This is something you either have or not.  Its a way to highlight your aura ika nga. 

You feel that you deserve that break.  And that these bosses of yours are not just unappreciative but also fail to give you the chance that was given to them.  Anong sabi ko - study about yourself and them.  Why is it that they fail to listen to you or if they do ay bakit hindi nila ma-absorb yun essence ng statements mo? 

IF you feel that that aspect is something that will take time to reflect on then focus on the other aspects of luck that you can work on now.  Observe and take notes.  Ano ba ang ambiance ng work place ninyo?  Hindi ba kahit gaano kasarap yun food kung its to be served in a place na masabi mo off ang ambiance ay you will not enjoy it.  Same here with work. 

This is why hindi madali to really solve a problem.  Pero once you identified the cause and anong options you have ay it gets easy.

With regards to having that time to talk as equals ay hindi ba iba ang feeling if you learn that someone listens to you.  As in really listens. 

[liveandlove]

Salamat Sir CH! Nasabihan ko na po sya na mag confess. Na delete po pala nang moderators yung mahabang post ko may warning ako na bawal daw mag qoute nang mahabang post. Post ko na lang po uli yung article sa spiritual husband for information.

http://www.marriagerecipe.com/2014/02/spiritual-spouses-are-dangerous-and.html

Sir CH tanong ko rin po pala yung sa water madalas kasi ako matulog na may katabing water either mineral  water o water na nakalagay sa tumbler na may takip naman. madalas kasi akong mauhaw. Kailangan ko pa po bang idilig yung water sa plants pagkagising ko? Parang ang pagkakaintindi ko po kasi kailangan lang idilig sa plants pag walang takip yung lalagyan.

[itt]

^^ hi sis isa ata ako sa nag ask din about that sabi sa akin ni sir ch idilig daw sa plants. Kung may tulsi ka na plant, better daw.

[CityHunter]

Hi, itt and liveandlove.

With regards sa water near your bedside ay iba iyong for pandilig sa iinumin mo when you are thirsty.  The one left uncovered ay yun ang ididilig mo sa plant when you wake up - as soon as you wake up and have done your morning prayers. 

[RicaVar]

Is there a belief about beds?

[akotobakit]

Hi Sir CityHunter,

I have a friend who's 1-month pregnant. Last night she dreamt of mga aswang sa kwarto ng mother niya. Tapos sila ng mga kapatid niya ang nagtataboy sa mga aswang. Pinapalo nila ng stick. The disturbing part lang saken is this isn't the first time na napanaginipan niya 'to. Three times na, although yung 1st and 2nd hindi pa siya preggy nun pero lahat happened this year. Tapos always this very same scenario. By the way, she's staying in a different house now, sa mother-in-law niya na.

Is there any meaning to this dream, Sir CH?

Thank you po.

[CityHunter]

Hi, akotobakit (and mga sis).

This is going to sound weird but be open.  Feng Shui was originally meant to be used to help the dead.  As in give them peace.  For it is believed na kapag hindi happy ang dead ay the luck ng mga buhay would be mamalasin.  When it was adapted for the living ay it, feng shui, was meant to also give balance.  Na maging happy both the living and the dead. 

Now, what does this have to do with the problem of aswang, etc.?  Dahil those are of the realm of the unknown.  It sounds weird and so fiction but then again why do we have exorcists in every part of the world.

First.  She needs to recall as best as she could ang details.  Second, narrow down ang time frame.  Third, dahil she has moved to a different place - to my understanding ay iba na ang lugar niya now as  where the first 2 happened - then what it is that she has brought with her that resonates strongly linking to those previous places.

IF she woke up and narrated it was so like real then its not a simple dream.  Na-twilight zone siya.

What she can do if this is indeed a psychic attack?  Consecrate herself and her child to the Virgin Mary (or the approved equivalent kung ibang religion o belief).

FYI.  Critical iyong details.  No matter how silly have her write it down.  Have her draw it if she finds it hard to write it in detail. 

[Girltalker2]

@myjourney88 and CH, parang pareho situation ko with myjourney. I've shared din somewhere in this thread about my work dilemma.

I've always believed before, if you're not happy na with your work, just look for another one. Easier said than done, especially at 40+.

Minsan iniisip ko nalang na these things are temporary. And eventually in time, everything will fall into place.

With my current work, minsan nakakawala ng confidence kasi the boss (not all) treat you badly. But people know he is generally mean. Pag nag one on one feedback session naman kami, he would say positive things naman. So in this aspect, minsan napapaisip ako. Maybe something wrong with how I view his words, actions etc?

Second, lagi nya pinapaboran yung isang mas bata na staff. eh Yung mas bata na staff nauna sakin sa company. But when I joined, I took over what she and the boss is doing. 2 heads sila, ako Isa Lang at baguhan pa. Pa petiks petiks lang sila. And I shoulder everything, kasi sabi ng boss I need to do to learn etc etc. Fine. But there are some instances (madalas) na I work like hell 70 hours then makikita mo nag s surf lang yung boss mo. Nakakainis di ba? Tapos if may tanong yung mas bata na staff, the boss would take lengths in explaining. Pag ako, since senior daw ako, I figure it out daw. To think ang dami ko need gawin and on top of that need to ask around or take the longer route to learn on my own, which adds on to my hours. Bullies? It took me some time to realize. Minsan iniisip ko, now lang... Then babait ulit boss ko. Then ganun ulit. Cycle... Pero knowing how forgiving I am, at wala naman akong choice kasi I need the job, sige lang.
So I thought to myself, maybe I have to learn how to understand my boss the way this younger staff does. Maybe kulang ako sumipsip or something. It's been a year, pareho pa din. I just keep on trying kasi wala din naman akong pupuntahan or lilipatan.

What compounds my problem is this younger staff. Call her Z.  Nung lumipat Si Z ng department (recently Lang), parang nabunutan ako ng tinik kasi my boss often compares me to her how great she is blah blah blah. Eh natural, protégée nya, he explains to her everything. Tapos pagdating sakin, walang time boss ko or ipa explain /turnover ng boss ko kay Z Yung trabaho. Worse, walang documentation. Bara Bara lang Pag turnover ni Z at wala daw sya time, never helpful at laging sasabihin sayo, basta tingnan mo lang ang code sa Kabila but she will never tell you why, the logic etc. I would just figure it out later on my own. Now that Z moved to another role, I heard nag c complain yung ka department nya na lahat na good projects daw kay Z binibigay at feel nya na etsa puera ibang tao in their group. Same thing as I felt when I worked with her. So I just realised today, maybe it's not me. Maybe it's her. But at the same time, something in me to develop din - how to strengthen my alliance to my boss (whoever he/she will be).

Sir CH, I remember some things youve said, to look at the situation and analyse it. Of course I barely had the time to do this kasi nga lagi subsob ako sa deadlines. But lately nga napaisip ako. Wala din naman akong mapapala by gossiping, whining and complaining, mag simangot etc in the past, I've always kept my cool but you see it on my face talaga my mood. But because of these discussions (a few pages back), I try to bring more positive things muna. @myjourney, not sure if it helps you, but for me, I just rise up again and again. I go home down, then I pray at night and mornings. Try to keep a positive attitude as much as I could. I also started talking to people and giving them my attention instead of facing the computer while talking to them haha (Super busy nga kasi as in walang time to eat lunch or even retouch makeup or even going to the toilet itself!) but I realize having a positive aura makes life a lot easier for me. Ignore the negativities (mahirap gawin), sometimes andyan na for the day but I try to start my day fresh and renewed again each time. This is how I do it for now. Habang naghahanap pa ng ibang work.

Sorry napahaba. Just need to air this out. Kaya nga at some point, I was looking for a jade eh, coz I really felt the heaviness and burden on this job.

[CityHunter]

Hi, Girltalker2 and myjourney88 (plus mga sis).

Yes, isa sa major issues now is the restrictions placed for new hires.  Ito rin ang reason why I am sharing what I could here.  To help make a difference.  Maaring we can't make it happen agad - dahil even the president couldn't - but by moving things bit by bit ay we are slowly realizing it.

I am not an expert on this ha but per observation ay due to our school system.  Malaki talaga ang difference na yun education helps build good character.  Notice the words you used - boss.  Hindi leader. 

Maganda iyong what you shared - let problems sa office na hindi isama sa bahay and vice-versa. 

I sent a book for myjourney88 to read muna.  Iba rin kasi ang experience ng girl sa boy so I can't say what I experienced would work for girls.  And dependent rin sa karma plus aura you emit.

Maganda iyong people skill mo to face the subject when talking.  That is a very important factor.  Our mind actually absorbs more that way than simply what just one sense absorbs.  Notice how we react sa lessons ng teacher or even what the actor/actress delivers.  Isang magandang example on this ay yun feedback ng mga radio listeners vs TV viewers when Nixon debated with Kennedy. 

Sa employee part limited nga options mo to influence changes.  However hindi rin naman wala.  Its just that its limited.  The first thing to keep in mind ay just as how Girltalker2 clued - dapat may place where one can recharge.  O a place where you feel positive.  Kung ang workstation mo is a place you hate then you are sorely limited as to where you can cleanse and recharge.

For those who work sa field ay even more so may area kayo where you can make this happen.  It can be a spot sa airport kung madalas via airport ang biyahe mo as field work. 

Next, observe and analyze.  Bakit ba ganun yun gay boss mo towards you? (Used the boss of one for this example.)  Is it because suppressed niya yun desire to ladlad?  Or can it be dahil hindi siya accepted by his family and friends for being so.  Maari rin he is so driven dahil nga sa status niya.  Or simply because dahil sa maling pagpapalaki kaya talagang bad attitude.  Not unless you figured out what makes the person tick ay its not going to be easy how to figure out kung ano ang options to fix the situation.

Let's go to my walk with confidence question.  This is about radiating that aura but each of us have a certain plus (and minus syempre).  You will notice this when you are around people you like (and not).  In events na happy or sad.  You simply need to figure out what gives you that feeling then apply that to situations you feel merited to infuse that to help make things happen.

This is one reason why I have you folks have a hobby - na hindi included ang eating and sleeping as such. 

Going back a bit sa walk of confidence.  I have no skill sa singing but I do go up the stage to do events.  Sanay rin ako to talk with different people - from the ordinary Juan dela Cruz to those in positions of power, etc.  What I can say is this.  You need to adjust yourself so that you can communicate better to people.  In some situations you need to quickly adjust to keep the situation under control.  That is simply taking the walk of confidence to a higher level.

What is my point here?  Its simply this.  Kung may talent ka to karaoke o videoke ay simply develop that in a way you use that confidence in a different situation.  Heck, mga ewan sa kalye kulang na lang tamaan ng kidlat sa lakas ng loob to express their feelings that way.  Mabuti nga na lang they stopped na.


Hi, mga sis.

Please take note na ang Ghost Month for this year is from August 3 to August 31.  Plan well your activities for that period.

Sa mga hirap to absorb by what I meant about the aura you project ay when you have the time ay isalang mo isang episode o movie that you really liked.  Hindi iyong crush lang or what yun bida ha.  Iyong na-inspire ka ba talaga o felt good.  Play it na naka-MUTE.  Just watch it that way and i-absorb mo yun feeling you get.  Take notes if you have to.  Iyong real na tao ang mga characters ha not CG o anime na palabas.

Now, some of you may be wondering why I am not advising anything about gems.  One, I don't sell that stuff but some do - so trabaho nila dapat iyon to lay down the facts.  Two, not unless one is in sync with it ay it can either be useless or cause more headaches sa user.  Three.  Maraming options than just that.  This is why I encourage folks to share mga observations and even questions nila sa remedies shared here. 

One example of an option.  Yes, jade does give strong help but it depends rin on the person and problems niya.  Like mine I have iyong antique looking jade but I can't sync with it sa needs ko.  However, I sync well with the darker jade I got.  Both are not cheap - talagang pinag-ipunan ko pa ang mga iyan just so I can have such.  So ano iyong option ko when I don't want to use itong gems?  Its a simple Buddhist wood bead bracelet.  We had to give one to a friend who badly needs it so yun akin kay wifey na (as I got another from a friend).  Gamit ko na rin lately something made from dried seeds.  However, I tend to often go with less so minsan kahit ang mga iyon hindi ko dala.  I simply prepare for the day as needed lalo na kung intense yun maging events for the day.  Wala pa diyan to recharge sa sun where there are plants nearby. 

Some have forgotten na rin ata that I shared here na use essential oils.  Iyong gawa sa flowers and such.  Sa mga good cooks here for sure you know how herbs and spices can make a difference.  Na veggies and fruits can bring out something different when combined with another ingredient.  Hindi ba masarap ang lemon chicken.  Or how is it iyong Hainanese chicken masarap rin.  Or what about iyong Korean food na meat binalot sa gulay. That using pineapple or honey sa meat ay mapasaap mo ito - now you know bakit iyong baddie sa The Strain was feeding pineapples to his would-be victim.  The thing is ang dami na options to explore so do not restrict yourselves to what is simply presented lang.

Ha ha, was watching kasi something.  What do you think ang lasa ng isang inihaw na pusit dipped in peanut butter?


Hi, RicaVar.

What exactly about beds?  As in of importance ba ang placement, design, etc.?  If so ay yes there is.  Sa strict feng shui may araw when you should prepare it.  Mayroon rin yun pwesto ideal for it - as its where we recharge.  And if you are malas your bed may have a history o something about it that can cause you much problems and even death.

[myjourney88]

Hi Sir CH,

yes got the book pdf file, super thank you, will read this and sana ma absorb ko nga hahaha!! Anyways, yes tama ka sa aura that we emit on, actually, wala na ako gana kasi yon na eemit ko, sorry. I really felt hopeless or sige ok sabi mo. Actually the gay boss is sometimes ok over girl boss (both dont have partners in life)

sis girltalker2, alam  mo hirap minsan tangay ko stress sa boss ko sa bahay lalo na pag tatawag yan weekend na gawin yan ganito at rush, lalo na dati wala ako net sa bahay sagot ba naman sa akin eh di lumabas ka na ng bahay mo at maghanap ng net. Anyways, ang daughter ko alam na kapag kausap ko boss ko or may gagawin ako at home, hindi ako lalapitan or kakausapin.  Im really affected, ewan ba napaka emotional or bilis ko din react like galit or inis. Siguro pagod na din at hopelessness na naramdaman ko.

Now, im still figuring out if i will stay here and accept the new offer, offer lang na position pero wala pa monetary agreement.

Thank you for all the help sir, wag ka magsasawa

God bless!!

[CityHunter]

Hi, myjourney88.

Yes, maganda iyang book I sent you.  I'm going to use parts of it as planning now pa lang how to take my CNY talk to a whole new level.  I might come up with a mid-year one rin as test bed.  Fire year ngayon so radical ideas and innovations ang key.

True na mahirap to live with such a boss like yours.  For one thing they should realize that you have your own time.  Not unless you're like a commando who is badly needed to solve a situation ay bakit ka uutusan kahit nasa bahay ka na and off-duty?  Such kind of a person points out how lacking he is for his position. 

This is what I am trying to find a way to change.  Iyang mga hindi na grounded to reality yun sarili nila.  Sadly, marami kasi na kinain ng position, success and such   Anyhow, that is just part of the issue here.  You still have to figure out ano ang factors as well as options.  I opine once you read that book you should have a better idea.

Tama rin na be sure sa offers sa iyo before you move out.  Its a Monkey plus Fire year so unexpected things can happen.  Take note we have a president no one expected back then to even run for office.  Then we have yun nangyari sa France and Turkey - both awful surprises.  So far may unexpected good news as China has removed several missile launchers sa isang artificial island nila.  So let's work for the best and prepare for the worst.

Suggestion lang.  Why not listen to classical music.  It should help bring calm as well as positive ideas and thoughts.

FYI.  Here is where I am highlighting na maraming paraan to get your chi balanced and slowly improved.  Just as how gems could as an expensive option ay so too mayroon mga cheap o even free options.

[CityHunter]

Hi, mga sis.

Do include in your prayers the peace of the world.  Remember yin and yang dapat.  So far things have been more of the bad news than good news.  Just recently may shootings reported sa Germany - last week I read na someone went amok and used an axe or something like that on a lot of people aboard a train.

Let's go back sa remedy options I highlighted.  Just like in cooking ay ang remedies sa feng shui marami ka pwedeng options.  You can go for a high end or mag research ka where simple but just as good - there are places wherein a retired chef would still prepare meals for clients.  Parehong makakain ka and mabubusog but there is a difference on how the busog factor was arrived upon.  Ganun rin sa feng shui remedies.  You can opt for the commercial versions or opt for the traditional approach - sacrifice, fasting, charity, etc.  In some situations ma-compare mo rin sa cooking muli.  Ano ang difference ng instant noodles sa hand-made noodles?  Same rin sa feng shui.

Now, hindi ibig sabihin one method is not popular means hindi siya effective.  Or dahil it did not work the first o second o third time ay hindi na suited for you.  Maaring mali ang timpla lang kaya hindi bumagay sa iyo.  Again, here is where doing one's homework pays off. 

One thinks jade may be what can help but sigurado ka ba yun ang needed mo?  Paano kung its simply the need to convey right and absorb right yun conversations, ideas and thoughts?  Hindi jade ang needed mo to address that.  May citrine ka nga but you are not doing well sa sales pa rin.  Bakit kaya?  Peke kaya yun nabili mo - marami niyan - or simply because you need to enhance something in yourself muna so that this gem you have works.

Some kasi see gems as sort of charm o agimat.  It does not work that way.  The same sa mga religious items or such.  Hindi dahil you have this blessed religious item na galing pa ng Vatican ay hindi ka na madadale ng psychic attacks.  Kahit pa taon-taon ka mag-pilgrimage sa Israel to immerse yourself sa Sea of Galilee ay hindi iyan enough.  More so kung deep within you ay darkness dwells.

You improve your luck by balancing the 3 things that makes up luck.  And walang short cut iyan.  In some situations learning and applying this knowledge can make more of a difference than any charm o talisman out there.  It saddens me na ang tao ngayon mas bigyan ng upgrades ang celfone nila through apps but they don't improve themselves.  Malabo pa mangyari na i-download na lang sa utak natin yun knowledge so instant na alam natin agad new skills.  If ever that happens we may end up in a world na tulad sa Matrix.

[itt]

may share lang ako dati kwento nung isa sa tita ko ( cousin ng parent ko ) dati daw hindi sya naniniwala pero nung preggy daw sya may naididnig na sya na parang kampas ng wings sa may bubong pag gabi. tas yung may sound pa ata.
then sabi sa kanya mag lagay daw ng salt and bawang sa windows. ayun nahinto naman. di ko sure if coincidence ba or what.\

[CityHunter]

Hi, itt.

Yup.  This is why mga pregnant (wala pa naman pregnant na man ) ay bawal sa patay o may sakit pumunta.  Same sa mga bagong panganak pati new baby.  Yun chi kasi nag-iiba for a period.  Marami rin ma-notice nila whenever they have a baby ay for a year or so ay unsteady ang luck.  The same applies kapag malapit na o katatapos lang ng birthday.  This is why some have their readings done weeks before their birthday to prepare for how the year can be.

Ang special power ng bawang is actually the oil and scent it has.  However, ito rin ay parang gamot na for a certain problem lang.  Paano kung iba pala and hindi kaya ng powers ng bawang iyon.  This is why do your remedies in combos.  Mabuti na iyong sigurado than siguro ika nga.

When you have period or are sick ay umiwas ka rin sa visiting the sick, lamay, libing, etc. 


Hi, mga sis.

I do hope you still retain what was shared sa CNY powerpoint ko.  Strike not first o last sa mga malas na areas for this year:

Malas na areas for this year are Center, Northeast, North and Northwest.  Do not strike first rin sa East but its okay kung you strike last doon.  Other areas you can start or end there.

Kung maari start and end your day with a prayer.  And yes, do good deeds - isama na yun ikagat ako sa shawarma (or if on a diet kahit na lang sa yogurt ).

[sweetsweet]

Sir CH, what do you mean po Na when someone has a new baby ay unsteady ang luck? I gave birth po Kasi 4 months ago. And I quit my job Na so I can take care of baby full time since walang mag aalaga, mag last day po ako sa August 5. Oh no start pa Naman ng ghost month! I hope Hindi ako malasin huhu

[CityHunter]

Hi, sweetsweet ang mga sis.

First, peke yun pagkabuntis ng isang guy who pretended to be a bride.  Akala ko may bagong himala na.

From what I have observed not just by textbooks ha ay when one is sick, pregnant. may period or recently gave birth ay yun chi niya ay erratic.  As in unsteady.  Here is why (para sa mga buntis and just gave birth) it is STRONGLY ENCOURAGED you CONSECRATE the mother and the child to the divine - I usually tell folks kay Virgin Mary.  May period iyan na parang puro pagsubok.  Some ay one year iba naman 2 years yun span ng time of this pagsubok. 

Anong sabi ni akthung?  Unahan mo na yun mga pagsubok. 

However, may situations rin na hindi maiiwasan.  Example: A friend who had her forecast done ay warned siya ng brother niya - who is a guru - na magpa-opera na siya.  Cosmetic surgery pwede na kasi if not ay dadaan rin siya sa opera for the period between her birthday and next birthday.  So magpa-opera na siya for something she needs rin naman na rather for something she would need to be operated on but for a bad reason.

I suggest ask your mom and/or mom-in-law how was the period after they gave birth sa eldest nila.  Yun span of time before things settled back to normal.  Iyon ang strongest clue mo.  Face the challenge with a positive view than a negative one.  As I've said work for the best but prepare for the worst.

FYI.  If you are in a situation like kay itt wherein need for surgery ay why not do what I suggested to her.  Prior to your surgery ay have mass said for yourself, do a good deed towards someone who is also suffering what you have.  Iyan yun meaning ng unahan mo na yun problema (bago pa ito lumala.)  And again ang sacrifice has to hurt.