Anyone Into Feng Shui (Thread 20)

[akotobakit]

someone posted here about her hardships in life. pagka ganoon, total inner change ang dapat gawin.
forgiveness, meditation, change of character and the building of good character. purification of the bodies (physical and non physical). give give and give....but intelligently (like planting seeds intelligently else you will have a messy garden)

Tinamaan din ako dito.

A lot of things have been thrown at me in my life din, at muntik-muntikan na rin talaga kong bumigay (thanks failed suicide attempts). That's a lot of work to do on my part, those you mentioned, but I want to take things easy, one at a time to not overwhelm myself. Makakabangon din ako. Wait lang.

Anyway, thank you so much Sir CityHunter and Sir Akthung for generously sharing your insights here with us.

I'm completely letting go of that lost money na. Forgiveness - done. Kayo na po bahala saken Lord.

As for the spirit baby, a few times I tried to talk to her (baby girl eh) and asked her to visit me again, pero wala na talaga. I apologized rin for I/we/the circumstance was/were not ready to welcome her yet that time she showed up.

Again, thank you mga Sir!

[akthung]

My teacher once told me, he too didnt believe in tithing, but one time he was so deep in s**t that he had nothing left to do but tithe. Soon after tithing his fortunes changed.

ako din ganun. Nagmemeditate na ako etc but wala, i had to try

The lesson here is to be generous + right attitude. Wag hintayin yung point na walang wala ka na tsaka ka palang magbabago.

[cldy_1981]

I can personally testify to the blessings brought about by tithing, before I used to think how can letting go of money/resources bring you more but when I started to tithe and give to charity, iba lang yung balik.

For example the promotion that I have been trying to get for 3 years finally happened and with it came a 40% bump up in salary.

Then when I read about Akthung and CH's suggestions before that you need to diagnose our situation and we focus on that area to be addressed and give more - whether its service or money dapat atuned sya doon sa thing or situation mo. Like for me I was so worried about my son's speech delay, and when I gave to charities sending kids to school biglang nagging mas ok yung son ko and his development came faster pa when I started giving to a child who is deaf/mute and needed SPED classes. When I think about all these things I realize na ang galing lang na nakakatulong ka na, umaayos pa yung personal situation/circumstances. Of course giving needs to be done freely and without expectations pero nung nakita ko lang yung nagging blessings, all the more that nakakatuwa magbigay pa lalo.


Sir CH - ano po kaya ang ibig sabihin, kasi parang unti unti pong nag-wi-wither yung rose cactus na nasa akin. As in yung petals po sa baba nag-ye-yellow chaka parang di sya nag-thrive? I brought it nalang po sa office and put it in the center table/common area of our team. Ibig po ba sabihin nun its absorbing negative vibes? or baka likas lang po akong plant killer? Hehe.

[cldy_1981]

Sir CH - another question pa po pala? Can praying for others be considered an act of service?

[honeybunny]

where can i donate or do tithing if my problem is with relationships?

[akthung]

For relationships, i opine, u should give to institutions that deal with resolving family issues, or enhancing good family dynamics,

orgs that handle womens/mens health, battered women, etc

so sa Hospicio de San Jose, because they deal with everything, from babies to old people.

I encourage meditation so you can fine tune these techniques to your karmic need. Minsan creativity lang yan + evaluate (after 3 months do u see a change? ) ganyan ako noon i evaluate if the llaces ive been giving to are the right ones.

kung business relationships and to aquire more luck in business you tithe to those who help peoplle finance micro or nano businesses...

Then u should also evaluate yourself as a business. May processes ba dapat ma improve or change.

constant evaluation din yan kasi yan.

of course you have to pray and decree where u want the good karma to go and that it may materialize properly.

Dont forget ang tao may free will. So sometimes we have to ask na maliwanagan ang isang tao and maging humble.

you can also tithe for the future.

remember tithing is just one aspect,

kailangan pa ng purification, correct character (and the building of character).

again, good spirituality + Good FS should put you on a jet plane.

[BS]

Good day po Sir CH, may tanong po ako. Masama po ba pasukin ang lending business? Yung iba kasi sinasabi na masama daw yun, kakarmahin, etc. Ang hindi ko lang po maintindihan, bakit? Ang pinagkaiba lang naman ng business na ito eh mismong pera ang product niya. Kapag nagsari-sari store ka o nagbenta ng ibang produkto, usually ang mark up ay 10% pataas. Samantalang pag lending business, masyado ng mataas ang 10%

Isa pa po Sir CH, yung kapatid ko po kasi napagtapos na namin sa maganda at mamahaling kolehiyo ng Engineering, may sarili ng trabaho, at income na sinasarili niya (di man lang mag-give back). Hindi nagshe-share sa bahay, kahit man lang sa KAHIT NA ANONG GAWAIN SA BAHAY. Ipagluluto mo pa, ipaglalaba, ni minsan sa tanang buhay niya ni hindi niya nagawang humawak ng walis, at laging buhay prinsipe sa bahay, pagsisilbihan mo pa. Hindi ko na po matiis to. Balak ko na pong humiwalay ng bahay (we're renting lang po) sa pamilya ko para makapagsimula para sa sarili ko, at mabawasan ang stress ko sa kapatid ko. Gusto ko ng matuto ang kapatid ko maging responsable para sa sarili niya at matapos na pagiging abusado niya. Kaso po ang parents namin kinokonsensya ako. Kesyo kawawa naman daw ang kapatid ko (parang baby lang, nakakainis. Kasalanan nilang naging selfish at immature ang kapatid kong yun). Okay lang po bang panindigan ko yung desisyon kong bumukod na? I'm 30 na, single, at hanggang ngayon driven by guilt at conscience dahil sa mga paawa effect ng mga magulang namin. My parents have their own business naman at bahay pero malayo sa workplace ng brother ko na maarte kaya kami nag-rent sa Manila para sa kanya. Hindi ko maasikaso ang sarili ko dahil sa pangongonsensya nila lagi in favor of their baby (brother ko na Engineer na, may maayos na trabaho at income). Nakakapagod at nakakasama na ng loob maging mabuting anak at kapatid.

Any advice Sir CH?

[akthung]

Example

You're with your BF, u plan to get married, you want your future children to have good entitlement in schooling, so may want to tithe early or in advance to schools or orgs that enhance learning, and constantly pray/decree that it may return to your future children

[liveandlove]

Sir CH wala naman po akong napansin na kakaiba sa neighborhood namin kahit may cactus kami so ok lang po siguro na hindi na alisin. Yung balete sundin ko na lang yung sinabi ninyo to simply clean, trim and care for it.

Nag back read pala ako nabasa ko yung sinabi ninyo na nag aabsorb nang chi ang water sa bedside table pag naka open ang container kaya kailangan idilig sa plants sa umaga. Ako kasi madalas makatulog na may katabing water na nasa lalagyan nang mineral water o tumbler na may takip. Kailangan ko pa bang idilig sa plants? ang pagkakaintindi ko kasi kailangan lang idilig sa plants pag nakabukas ang container.

[itt]

Hello po Sir CH kaka burn ko lang po nung red paper ko po. siguro mga 2-3 weeks po sya nakakabit.
Okay naman po pag burn nya, wala naman kakaiba or hindi naman po matagal maburn. nilagay ko nalang po sa plastic kasama nung salt soln na nilagay ko din.
asa plastic na po sila sa basurahan namin. tom ko na po i ccleanse with salt soln after po mabilad sa araw nung garapon.
Bukas ko na din po papalitan yung red paper kasi po after ko iburn sa labas nung pumasok na po ako, iniisip ko na gawin sana yung red paper kaso po muntikan na ako sumubsob.
pag apak ko po sa mini stairs namin hindi pala buong paa ko yung nakaapak ( less than 1/4 lang halos ) buti po nakabalanse ako agad kung hindi baka natuluyan ako. hehe
so far, okay pa naman po yung tulsi and cactus ko so masaya naman po ako. Sir pag po bakante na po kayo sana makameet po tayo uli para po sa consultation ko po
salamat po uli.

Sir akthung hindi ko pa po talaga na ttry mag meditate ( hindi ko po alam ano pa pumipigil sa akin ) suguro po kailangan ko muna iready sarili ko (?) ayun po salamat po uli sa mga inpput at payo nyo po.

*OT
namalik mata na ako kanin nung muntikan ako madapa. akala ko may bata na nakaupo sa bed na tinutuligan ko yun pala yung bag ko lang ( pero akala ko talaga meron hehe color white/cream kasi lol )

[akthung]

Good day po Sir CH, may tanong po ako. Masama po ba pasukin ang lending business? Yung iba kasi sinasabi na masama daw yun, kakarmahin, etc. Ang hindi ko lang po maintindihan, bakit? Ang pinagkaiba lang naman ng business na ito eh mismong pera ang product niya. Kapag nagsari-sari store ka o nagbenta ng ibang produkto, usually ang mark up ay 10% pataas. Samantalang pag lending business, masyado ng mataas ang 10%

Isa pa po Sir CH, yung kapatid ko po kasi napagtapos na namin sa maganda at mamahaling kolehiyo ng Engineering, may sarili ng trabaho, at income na sinasarili niya (di man lang mag-give back). Hindi nagshe-share sa bahay, kahit man lang sa KAHIT NA ANONG GAWAIN SA BAHAY. Ipagluluto mo pa, ipaglalaba, ni minsan sa tanang buhay niya ni hindi niya nagawang humawak ng walis, at laging buhay prinsipe sa bahay, pagsisilbihan mo pa. Hindi ko na po matiis to. Balak ko na pong humiwalay ng bahay (we're renting lang po) sa pamilya ko para makapagsimula para sa sarili ko, at mabawasan ang stress ko sa kapatid ko. Gusto ko ng matuto ang kapatid ko maging responsable para sa sarili niya at matapos na pagiging abusado niya. Kaso po ang parents namin kinokonsensya ako. Kesyo kawawa naman daw ang kapatid ko (parang baby lang, nakakainis. Kasalanan nilang naging selfish at immature ang kapatid kong yun). Okay lang po bang panindigan ko yung desisyon kong bumukod na? I'm 30 na, single, at hanggang ngayon driven by guilt at conscience dahil sa mga paawa effect ng mga magulang namin. My parents have their own business naman at bahay pero malayo sa workplace ng brother ko na maarte kaya kami nag-rent sa Manila para sa kanya. Hindi ko maasikaso ang sarili ko dahil sa pangongonsensya nila lagi in favor of their baby (brother ko na Engineer na, may maayos na trabaho at income). Nakakapagod at nakakasama na ng loob maging mabuting anak at kapatid.

Any advice Sir CH?

if i may.... just my POV and my take.

there is karma in everything we do. positive or negative. for vegetarianism, there's karma too when you eat vegetables. however, the karma of eating vegetables is way way smaller than eating meat.

as for finances, have you studied Islamic Finance? sa mga muslim hindi pwede ang interest. then there are certain investment opportunities na hindi sila pwede mag invest. my point here if you wanna be strict...1% interest na is bad enough....but we live in a different world. when it comes to investments, just think of what is fair. i've met people who are doing heavy service in this life  because they were able to determine that somewhere in their past they overcharged people. focus on what's fair or equal. and dont forget to help/tithe/donate.

your brother needs to learn nga. pero baka nag eenjoy pa ng sariling pera, at minamaximize niya but not 'doing/giving his part', but he should learn to live as an adult na soon.

you can stop doing what you are doing for him. slowly huwag mo ipagluto, then huwag mo ipag laba, unti untiin mo. worse comes to worst, no one's stopping you from deciding to move out. keep yourself busy and help your parents in some other way. baka kasi hindi ka nila nakikitaan na busy kaya panay utos at asa.

Sir akthung hindi ko pa po talaga na ttry mag meditate ( hindi ko po alam ano pa pumipigil sa akin ) suguro po kailangan ko muna iready sarili ko (?) ayun po salamat po uli sa mga inpput at payo nyo po.

*OT
namalik mata na ako kanin nung muntikan ako madapa. akala ko may bata na nakaupo sa bed na tinutuligan ko yun pala yung bag ko lang ( pero akala ko talaga meron hehe color white/cream kasi lol )

same thing i felt when i was first invited to meditate. sa pila sa powerbooks makita i was invited to try meditation.

i think that person overheard me talking to my friend about my tremendous problems and was able to read me from afar.

but you know...after a week of thinking, i jumped. because i realized at the time, that i've been losing...so ano pa ba mawawala? and what's the price of ignorance? BIG. hehe

its up to you

[CityHunter]

Hi, mga sis.

Will read and post my replies as soon as I could.  Had to focus on a supernatural problem kasi which was causing problems para matuloy yun project namin.

For now what I can share (muli) ay kapag may situation sa family ninyo wherein sa gut feel ay linked sa unrest soul(s) ng mga kapamilya (o kapuso) kasama na ang mga ancestors ay ipamisa ninyo.  I asked our priest na friend (director na old school ko) as long as you specify the intention kahit walang name.  This is something that can help a lot to ease the pains, problems, sadness, etc.

And yun DIY na Cleansing of the Family Tree is okay but having someone guide you through it is better.  Obviously important rin you cleanse yourself.

[baby_charm]

Hi Sir CH!

I wanted to seek advice kasi po ilan beses nang may nakikita na shadows na dumadaan sa labas ng house, kita po kasi yun sa window ng room namin. Pag sisilipin naman po namin, walang tao na dumaan. Sabi nila, meron daw po talagang supernaturals sa neighbor namin. Sakto nman po kasi na yun windows ng mga rooms sa bahay is nakatapat sa side ng neighbor namin. What could I do po to ward off that supernatural and to stop it from entering the house if it wants to. Thanks Sir CH!

[Arielle_Luoise]

Good day po sir Ch and Akthung

May question po ako ano po gagawin kapag yung septic tank ay nasa ilalim ng hagdan? East side po.

Aantayin ko po ang sagot nyo Maraming salamat po

[BS]

Thank you Sir Akthung for sharing your POV. Helped a lot. I know now what I can do. Pwede kaya ako maglagay ng salt solution sa room ng brother ko? Would it help kaya baka maging mature and responsible anh thinking niya kahit papano? I need to pray naman for a specific di ba when I do it?

Sisses question, hindi ko kasi makita yung post kung pano gawin yung rice pouch. Baka may nakakaalam sa inyo. Share naman please. Simply any cloth lang ba yun na lalagyan ko ng kahit ano ring klase ng bigas tapos iha-hang sa windows/doors? That simple?

And dun sa salt solution for house cleaning/cleansing.. Simply mix any type of salt ba sa bucket of water then yun ang i-mop ko sa house? May iba pa bang rules dun?

Sorry sisses, I know Sir CH is busy kasi and talagang hindi ko siya makita, at least the detailed instruction sa Thread 16. Baka po may nakakaalam or those who have done it na, please share po.

SALAMAT PO NANG MARAMI!

[itt]

^^

Hi BS

Yung rice pouch naalala ko ( ito din ginawaga ko ) red cloth lang sya saka bigas then tie it up if you want pwede mo sya tahiin tas may opening
or if you want pwede din yung lagay mo lang sa middle tas tie the ends together


Yung salt solution, rock salt dapat if I remember correctly. Hindi yung iodized daw. Pwede din yung exorcised salt if meron ka.
Yung salt pwede mo sya pa bless pala sa san beda ginawa ko na kasi yun. pinabless ko yung kosher salt ko doon.
If magagawi ka sa SM north or trinoma, I can give you some if you want kasi meron pa ako dito hehe



PS

If may mali po sa nasulat ko, pa correct nalang po ako Salamaaaat


I called our lady of mercy this afternoon. May schedule daw ng healing of family tree on saturday 8:00 - 2:00 pm

[BS]

Sis itt, thank you! Ang generous mo naman. Salamat!

1) For salt solution, kung may epsom salt ako, pwede na rin kaya yun
2) May iba pa bang rule kung pano ang mopping or paglilinis na gagawin? O wala naman?

Yung sa rice pouch, thank you sis ah. Bumili ako ng red cloth based sa instruction mo. Tatahiin ko siya.
1) Lahat ba ng doors at windows sasabitan or yung magkakatapat lang?
2) Kung magkatapat, sa loob ba nila or sa labas ng doors/windows isasabit?
3) Kailangan pa ba ipabless yung rice o no need?
4) Lastly, tuwing kelan papalitan ang content?

Pasensya na kayo ang dami kong questions, naleyt ako ng pag-subscribe dito. Ni yung rice donation before CNY di ko inabot sayang. Di bale tuloy na lang ng tithing.

Thank you so much sa mga sasagot! Sis itt, salamat uli!

[super_julz40]

Sir CH,

Ask lang po sana ako kasi nagbackread ako and nabasa ko sa post nyo na "At NO circumstance should one EVER make the elevation of the CR and/or septic tank higher than the rest of the place."

Now ko lang po napansin na ang CR namin ay elevated among sa floorings namin, nasa building apartment po kami.

Ano po ba pwede gawin ditong renovation o kaya naman remedy kung wala pang budget?

Add ko na rin po kasi iyong kitchen and CR namin ay magkatabi and doors ay in line.

Advance thanks po...

[itt]

Hi uli BS

Naku di ako sigurado sa Epsom Salt
Yung pag linis naman, ang alam ko palabas ng house yung motion.. pero wait antayin natin si sir CH kasi di ako sure baka mamali pa. pero ako kasi dati ginawa ko palabas ng house hehe

Yung sa rice pouch naman, ginawa ko kasi sinabit ko sa door knob ng room ko hehe sa loob na side. YUng sa pag palit naman ng content, i ccheck mo if may changes pag mejo yellowish na ata, palitan mo na. Ako kasi kumukuha lang ako sa rice dispenser namin hindi ko na pinapabless hehe. tas naalala ko sabi ni sir ch i cleanse din dapat yung cloth. you can do it by washing it in salt solution tas bilad mo sa araw yung tela

sorry if di complete ah? antayin nalang natin si sir ch para at least sure tayo. Ako kasi yan yung ginagawa ko.

Yung donation naman you can still do it Sinuggest ni sir akthung sa hospicio. Sobrang okay doon. nagpunta kami nung nag dala ng rice hehe

[CityHunter]

Hi, mga sis (and bros).

Let me share muna what I could from the case I am working on.  This way ma-understand ninyo and hopefully find time to re-read stuff and absorb mga lessons shared.  And ma-realize rin ninyo why the buy this, buy that feng shui should never be the first option to remedy a situation.

When a situation is masabi natin na full of problems na hindi mo maisip na paano mabigyan ng solusyon ay take pause.  You may even have to resort to thinking out of the box to figure out the root of the problem.  Here is when helpful people too can be of great help.

On the case I am working on ay may delay sa project.  Many pointed out it is the finances that is delaying things.  But I was clear na hindi iyon even if in the surface it is what appears.  For that delay sa finances for the project was a divine intervention.  For if the project pushes on without the real problem being fixed first ay disaster ang ending. 

So here kung ma-analyze ninyo mga ilang shared posts ay this is reflected.  Na hindi dahil you did not get what you want ay malas ka na.  Even if you feel you deserve it.  Na hindi malayo once you fix things up in yourself and your environment ay you gain blessings you can really be happy with.

The root of the problem is on greed and other negative emotions.  And hindi biro ito.  The soul of a deceased relative has become a dark soul.  And this dark soul has attached itself to a living relative who is now just as bad as the dark soul was when it was alive.  Take note that an elemental na i-categorize natin as a dark lord watches over them.  For once this dark soul has completely made this living relative a dark soul too ay mag-level up na itong leeching dark soul.  And the new dark soul will in turn latch on another living relative to start the cycle again.  All the while feeding the dark master with the energy it likes as well as creating minions for it.

Please take note this is NOT a rare case.  It is more common than you know.  And ito ang major reason why madalas ko sabihin sa inyo reflect and change what needs fixing in ourselves.  Na major help sa atin that akthung has been sharing much with us. 

Confession and penance.  Mabigat iyan to help fix such things.  Yun Cleansing of the Family Tree is pa rin iyan na super helpful.  Pero mas mabigat yun we do not resort to patronizing or even more so using the dark arts to get even or get ahead. 

May DIY version ng Cleansing of the Family Tree.  I think someone shared that before but hindi ko na-save nor ma-recall   I asked a priest rin and he said its okay na DIY version ang gamitin though mas maganda kung someone guides the person(s) through it as hindi nga common ito.

And may I add na yun pamisa rin is very very helpful.  More so if you can combine an act of charity for them too.