I always pay for everything... EVERYTHING!

[Filipinasadhart]

ganda topic basahin ko toh sobra lang sakit ng ulo ko.

[TomHansen]

^ LOL nung nambabae siya nagkaroon ng mga "reasons" no?

[TomHansen]

^baka gaya ng ibang bfs dito ang ex mo na sustentado ng magulang kaya walang urgency na magtrabaho. As long as he have his cars marami pa ring papatol dun.

[Filipinasadhart]

ganyan din ang ex ko sis. ultimo beats pera pang taxi kaya natuto na ko . ayoko ng ganun sis. ako kapag nagkabf ako di ko sya reregaluhan hanggang di kame mag-asawa.

blessing na lang di ganun un date ko and sana di ganun ang maging future bf ko.

[piatos]

^iba na daw ngayon hahaha babae na ang gumagastos sa lalaki lol.  Inuuna kasi nila ang mga bisyo nila like inuman with barkada.  Walang pangdate pero may pambili ng red horse hahaha.  Naging mapagbigay din ako sa ex ko tapos ngayon mayaman na siya iba ang nakinabang haha.  Lesson learned wag masyadong mapagbigay.  Hindi naman nila maalala yun kahit ganu pa kalaki naitulong mo sa kanila. 

[kittehdoll]

I think hes too comfortable na walang work. He needs to lose you naman para ma motivate at magbanat ng buto yan. Try to cool off muna para ma asses niya din buhay niya, 6 years na kayo andtoo young to be locked inside a relationship na di ka manlang nakapag explore tapos may issues pa.

I think lang ha, this relationship shouldve end 3 years ago pa. You should never stay with a guy more than 2-3 years pag bata kapa. You're missing so much in life and reality, too comfortable kaya na-accept mo [textspeak!] mga ganyang level.

[ri-anne]

i remember nagkaroon ng time na matagal walang work si then-bf, after ilang months, kinausap sya ng papa ko. at binigyan ng ultimatum.
kung wala pa rin daw work within 1-2mos, dapat maghiwalay na daw kami. biglang na-pressure at nagka-work agad within a month eh! 😄


Anyway, dapat while in bf-gf stage nagpapakitang gilas pa rin si guy at sya nanlilibre at nag-papamper kay gf, not the other way around.
Remember, kung ano pinapakita ng guy while still a boyfriend, you're already having an idea what he will be like pag mag-asawa na.
So make sure you like what you're seeing.

[triciaaamaldita]

I suddenly remembered yung asawa ng ate ko. He is both an engineer and pilot by profession ha. Pero grabe, dahil tamad sya, wala syang work. As in siguro mag 1 year na. Ang ending, ate ko gumagastos sa lahat. Pediatrician sya, so no problem naman. Kung gastos lang, kayang kaya. Pero gets, yung kahihiyan lang sana as lalake. Mas malala sila kasi mag asawa na eh. Di nya man lang naiisip na need nya buhayin pamilya nya.

Kaya I learned na. I have a bf. 4 years na kami. Mas may kaya kami sa kanila. May mga times na ako rin nagbabayad ng dates namin. Pero he would always make it a point to treat me or kahit maki half ng bill kapag talagang kaya nya naman. And I understand kasi were both interns palang. He's a future chef naman so okay naman salary nun pg may regular job na talaga.

Masasabi ko lang sa nag post ng thread na ito, sis, isipin mo what really matters to you. Be practical rin. Totoo yung sabi ng iba dito, hindi ka mabubuhay talaga ng looks and love nya. Sa pag ffamily need talaga ng finances. Baka masanay na sya in the long run. Malaking problem din yan syempre sa family nyo kasi ikaw lang naghahanap buhay..

[hypergalactix13]

kami ng husband ko, noong mag bf/gf pa lang kami, hati sa gastos since students pa lang kami.
when I got employed, most of the time ako ang gumagastos kasi breadwinner si BF that time. as in kahit gastos ng mga kapatid at pamangkin nya, sagot nya. there were times as well that he had to borrow money from me kasi nasshort sya. it wasn't an issue until it lasted for quite sometime. hehe.
fortunately my husband got a better paying job and ngayon ako pa rin ang gumagastos lahat...
kasi binibigay nya sakin lahat ng sinusweldo nya. hehe.
sakin lang is, our situations can change. I cannot say that he just got lucky kasi we still have ups and downs. if the guy really wants to provide, he will find his way to do that.

[imyourangel]

Kamusta na kaya si sis TS?