Dedma na lang ba pag nag LIKE ng pic ng sexy girl si Mr?

[Girltalker2]

Kunwari, may guy friend ka na hunk, say siguro he works sa gym body builder. Then he posted a sexy pic. Serious at di nag j-joke. Ni-like mo. Di ba nakakahiya? Parang laway na laway ka eh may asawa kang tao?  Ganun din sa guys di ba?

[prettyness]

kung celeb okay lang, pag normal pic okay lang din, pero kung sexypic away yun

[dec212012]

Of course para sakin hindi ko pwedeng deadmahin na lang yun. Not ok for me yung mga ganung eksena. Social media is social media. Maraming nakakita at hindi si hubby ang nakakahiya kundi ang wifey. Usually pa, negative ang impression nakakakita. Syempre, hindi mo naman ilalike yung pic kung hindi mo nagustuhan diba? Minsan nga simpleng selfie pic lang, nakakahinala na. Sexy pic pa kaya? Mahirap maging maluwag nowadays. Dapat ang mga ganyan nacocorrect agad dahil pag lumala pa, baka sa iba na mapunta. 

[yannuh]

^correct.

[skela96c]

Personally, i'd feel disrespected. Hindi nya na ko ginalang at ang relasyon namin by appreciating photos like that publicly. Maliit na bagay at pwede nyang sabihin na wala lang sa kanya yun, but still, i'd call his attention and tell him calmly (never jokingly para alam nyang seryoso ako) how his action made me feel. Para sa susunod alam nya na at alam nya na ano pwedeng consequence nun na attitude ko sa kanya.

As with other things, i don't tell my husband what and what not to do. I tell him how his actions make me feel and he takes his cues from there. Kung alam nya na ngang nainis ako at ginawa nya pa ulet, eh wag nya kong sisihin kung ano susunod kong gagawin

[j.adore]

Agree on deadma pretend then observe

Also consider what's the husband's normal FB activity and the wife's insecurities
2 separate issues need to be addressed to minimize impact to the marriage.

[Girltalker2]

^ the fact of the matter is that Malandi so guy sa FB. Kahit Gawain na nya iyan lagi or itong episode lang, it is still off and nakakabastos.

Yes you should think of how these discussions impact your relationship, Pero inisip ba nya iyan habang nakikipaglike-an sya sa ibang pic?
Dapat mga asawang ganyan eh masabihan at magising na di iyan tama. Moreso, bago ikasal ang mga gustong pakasal, they should not be behaving like this.

[miminibebe]

Eh what if yung picture/s eh sinave pa sa phone niya?  Saw some pics on his phone last week, katrabaho nila dati na malanding girl.  She was just wearing a tank top and panties on the photos, na nakahiga sa bed.  His explanation was, he saw the pics on one of the sites promoted by FB, he saved it on his phone so he could show his officemate (married) na naging ex nitong girl na to.   My issues with that eh bat di niya agad dinelete after mapakita kay officemate.   Prior to that pala, ayaw niya bigay sa kin pin ng phone niya, napilit ko lang kaya ko nakita photos.

[juicebox13]

Nakaka insecure kaya yun...

[SARAHnghae]

di acceptable yun. kung pic ng artista tolerable pa sakin, pero ka-officemate? NO WAY. tapos may pin pa phone nya, ano yan may tinatago sya? di pwede saken yan. lol

[miminibebe]

^di ba? Di ko na lang pinalaki issue dahil ayoko ng away.. hinayaan ko na lang

[lilyscapes]

my husband is shy-type kaya okay lang sakin kasi impossible mangyari ... but IF he's the flirty type, not okay with me. in case sa akin naman nangyari na may 'hunk' friend ako, yes ka-like like man yung picture nya, i would no longer make an 'effort' to like the pic. lalagpasan ko lang sa news feed.

i won't take the usual excuse 'wala lang naman yun'. dahil kung wala lang talaga yun, then you won't make an effort to react or like unless you want to make papansin to the girl. real talk.

[Pink_Sugar]

Di pwede sa akin to.

[Nuriko]

hindi rin sakin pwede to. pero may times na nahuhuli ko si hubby na napapa bagal ang scroll sa screen nya pag may nakitang post na sexy sa fb. pag nahuhuli ko sya, inaasar ko sya na iclick mo na at izoom mo pa. hahaha. well kahit sino naman mapapa scoll ng mabagal sa pic na yun pero masarap lang mang asar ng guilty hehe

[SARAHnghae]

^i do the same. haha.

[Missus O]

@TS- I think that there are 2 issues to be addressed  here.

1. Yung pag-like ng  sexy picture ng husband mo sa kakilala nya. If it's just once, for me, hindi issue yun. Pero kung finofollow nya yung girl and lagi sya naglilike, time to call his attention na

2. Your insecurities regarding your weight - maybe it's also time to re evaluate this. It's true that our husbands should accept us for what we are (physically, emotionally). But shouldn't we also help our situation by being healthy about it? Maybe go to the gym 3x week, go to yoga. I believe exercise is definitely an ego booster, I love the after effect ng workout. Pag nagtanong si Mister bakit ka nagdidiet and exercise. Di pwedi ka magjoke na para i like nya  din yung sexy picture mo na ipopost mo sa FB

[j.adore]

miminibebe, ang daming tanong diyan like what kind of site was promoted by FB to his account? Remember, it will only show you what they get based on browsing activities

Secondly, why not just send the link as message to his officemate? Saving photos kasi that is really for personal viewing eh.

And lastly, ayaw bigay pin ng phone parang may mga tinatago. If guilt-free, wala issue dapat ang ganyan.

Anyway, yes, choose your battles but also be vigilant na lang and make sure ok naman relationship niyo

[spicypeanuts]

mapa picture pa yan ng artista or model or fhm model, magseselos ako. pano pa kaya kung sexy pic ng katulad natin na normal na tao lang.

[super bratinella]

Ako dedma lang talaga sa mga ganito, but it feels weird with my SIL I posted photo of our kids and young people in the camp site nung hinatid namin sila, daming pics na inaupload ko, pero the last photo is my husband's stolen shot, then the post itself hindi niya nilike just my husband photo the last one.. weird naman nya..pero dedma pa rin ako.. kakaiba lang trip niya.. haha

[Pink_Sugar]

^kapatid nya sis husband mo?