Dedma na lang ba pag nag LIKE ng pic ng sexy girl si Mr?

[simple_G]

hello mga Mrs. and Mr.

I just saw na may ni LIKE na sexy bebot asawa ko sa FB. Not sure kung school mate nya dati or san nya nakilala. Harmless ba yun? ok lang ba yun i mean? or paranoid lang ako kasi inseucure ako sa katabaan ko? heheh

ok lang kung mga victoria secret models eh...at least alam ko di sya papatulan ng mga yun. eh yung parang kakilala at pwede nya lapitan eh medyo kabado ako.

what should i do? ayoko naman tanungin sya. sabihin nun ay na like ko lang yung pic accidentally...
hayyy....

[super bratinella]

That is ok lang sis, do not be paranoid na lang like lang naman. Kung ka like like naman talaga ang photo, if your husband nag comment ng may malisya then that is the time to be alarmed or nag chat na sila.. pero with liking someone photo you can not control those things to your partner, ugali ng paranoid yan at ayaw ng mga guys ang ganun.

[yannuh]

^^personally hindi ok sken yun sis. kung celebrities, ok lang. Pero pag normal people lang like us tapos ni-like nya, away na yun. haha! walang fb si hubby, pinag awayan na kasi namin before kaya ngayon nadala na ata.

[tomatostellar]

para sa kin okay lang
parang pag nag like ako ng regular people sa feed ko "I like your photo but does not necessarily mean I like you, like you"

[cosmochick]

Not ok din for me. May asawa Na syang tao... hindi na binata to publicly liking someone elses pic. He can admire , stare at it but never press that like button for all to see.

[khaleesiCersei]

For me its ok. Like lang yan. And men will always be men, pag nakakita ng sexy at maganda nakaka appreciate talaga sila. Hindi naman ibig sabihin nun eh magloloko agad sila. Imo, tayo din naman mga babae pag nakakita ng guapo or hot sa paningin natin naappreciate din natin pero wala din naman masamang ibig sabihin diba? Tsaka may women's instinct naman tayo hehe, ramdam  natin kung may mali ba or what sa kinikilos ng partners natin. So kung harmless like lang naman ok lang sakin, hubby is like that nagla like talaga yan. Mapa celebrities or kakilala niya kahit sa friends namin. Sabihin pa niya sakin minsan nakita daw niya sa ig or fb na ang ganda  daw ni (friends name) ngayon mukhang nagka pera na hehe..

[Girltalker2]

Of course Hindi okay.
But then it doesn't mean need mo awayin hubby mo. What you need is to talk to him calmly, pag ready ka na to explain things from your pov.

Publicly liking a female sexy pic is offensive. Parang sampal sa gf/asawa nya. He has to remain distant/neutral to the opposite gender.

[glamorosa_09]

Ano ba ang FB habits ng husband mo? If you know, is he the type na mahilig mag-like?

Meron ba syang history of cheating that warranted your suspicion? Or talagang malaki ang insecurity mo which caused your paranoia?

If he has no history of cheating or flirting, baka it`s you talaga. If he has history, observe. Or if you feel that your marriage is getting cold and distant, observe.

[sarsingkit]

If he has history, I will mind it or if history is recent. If wala, deadma. If ayaw, mo sya tanungin, then just let it rest this time.

[aquacharly]

Deadma-pretend. As in, don't start an issue with your hubby over that 1 "like"
But be very observant.  Be objective, not paranoid. 

[simang]

The only difference there is that he hit the like button and you saw it. Kasi kung hindi mo naman nakita na ni-like nya, he still probably liked (or lusted over) the girl. So kaya ka lang nagworry is because nakita mo. Whether or not nakita mo, ginawa nya pa din.

[yannuh]

mas ok if hindi mo nakitang me nilike sya or something.  it's really not ok for me.

[chocola]

kung one like lang sa girl, ok pa naman, pero pag medyo nadadalas... siguro ichecheck ko yung activity log nya sa fb, try ko muna iobserve si hubby. mahirap kapag tinatago nya na naglilike sya ng mga sexy pics, selosa na kung selosa, under observation sya nun! lol

[iam_me]

sa kin ok lang no big deal

[amethyst028]

@TS if it affects you or you are bothered by his behavior then you should let him know. out of respect to you. kasi siyempre kung siya din naman may ayaw siyang ginagawa mo you will stop it so he won't get upset.

for me ok lang kasi harmless naman yun. he is just being a normal guy who appreciates beauty and the female form. ang masama kung nag co-comment siya ng ka manyakan o kaya mine-message niya yung girl and flirty flirty siya.

[Itsmai.Shop]

Its a no no, better set the limit from the start pa lang na he should not waste time appreciating other girls. Nasa tolerance mo din if you are not affected but for some girls madalas insecure so its a way to secure your wife/gf, pangit and maling tignan na publicly nga na nagaapreciate ng ibang girls and hubby mo. you'll see once mabreak or hindi masimulan ang habit na ok lang for you tumingin sa iba, mas maaapreciate ka nya and automatic no care na sa iba.

[super bratinella]

For me if your hubby liked it and he knows that you will notice and see that he liked a photo of one of his friend, then maybe there is no intention to hurt you it is just he like the photo, we know guys very well, they  hide  things if there is a malice in it, and they are not careful if it has no malice...

Now, if this like button freak you out, to the point na you will interrogate him and suspect him, baka maging super careful na siya to the point lahat itago niya na sayo...and you will never see him like a photo, and even anything in his facebook activity kasi itatago niya na sayo lahat.

[[-c-h-a-]]

Really not okay... most of the time if the pic liked was set to public visibility, it will show up on people's newsfeed (friends of the person who liked it). Nakakahiya!

[sarsingkit]

^Haha. Nasabihan ko pala si hubby about that. Hindi ako insecure or nagseselos, ang concern ko lang is other people seeing his activities na ganyan sa facebook. Reminds me of a friend. Couples for Christ pa silang mag asawa, ang guy nag like ng page ng isang sexy starlet. It was my husband who pointed that out to me, and he messaged the guy right away to unlike the page. Pa-joke na lang nya minessage ng "Papi, baka mahuli ka ni misis nyan." Hehe.

[Itsmai.Shop]

correct, nakakahiya, pagsisimulan ng chismis.