the man who can't be moved

[tomatostellar]

musta na kaya friend ni TS

[rheinfall18]

hello guys, i'm back! sorry now ko lang ulit nabisita tong thread.

naloka ako dun sa mga naunang comments! haha! hindi ko po sya like romantically, i'm a concerned friend.

anyways, just to update you all. i think he's moved on as this point of his life, maybe around 50% hahaha! kasi he's still talking about her. hindi lang naman ako ang confidant nya. we seldom see each other na kaming dalawa lang. we go out as a group. kaya marami kaming nakakaalam and i think marami sya sinasabihan ng 'story' nya or nilang dalawa. (hindi ko na elaborate to, basta yun).

he's on his early 30s kaya feeling ko rin kaya ganun sya sa girls, i mean he's on marrying age right so may tendency nagmamadali sa relationship? yun kasi ang sabi ng karamihan.

salamat sa lahat ng nag-post ng mga opinions!

[rheinfall18]

on a humorous side, ginawa namin yung nasa movie ng 'that thing called tadhana' yung magbibigay ng 100 pesos kapag magbabanggit ng tungkol sa ex. at first it worked pero eventually, he's willing to pay more para lang magkwento. ano bah! hahaha!

ps. salamat din pala dun sa nagsabi na ingat ako baka maging rebound.

[IamMarieLove]

I just remember my friend in college. Hindi siya maka move sa ex GF niya noong HS. The girl's family was against my friend kasi his not rich and the girl's family wants her to marry someone else who is rich (actually kinasal talaga sila 7 years ago)

So my friend until now hindi pa rin maka move on. May mga GF siya pero I think rebound lang and he told me na he will only love once and never na daw ulit. I really wonder if possible ba talaga na di sya maka move to think na sobrang tagal na noon.

[yonamarie]

I also just remembered a friend of mine na minsan din naging super heartbroken.
Well, what happened was he was courting this girl for almost 4 years. But the girl wants him to be just her friend. They were in the same barkada so I guess it was really painful at that time. Till the girl had a bf and then he also did. Kaso, parang halos same yung gf ni guy pati nung nililigawan niya (maputi, matangkad, mahaba hair and parehong nurse pa) Our barkada was thinking if nakamove na ba talaga siya or what. Kasi there are times na parang pinagaawayan pa nila si 'first love' or si girl na niligawan for almost 4 years.

But anyhow, Yes it's normal for people to go or the feel that way. I guess coping mechanism na din ng iba yun. In time, all wounds heal ika nga nila. Also, ingat sa mga concerned friends.. Kasi mostly pag may ganyan, magiging rebound. 

[IamMarieLove]

Aie grabeh sis. Kung ako siguro ang gf ng friend mo magseselos din ako sa first love ni bf especially if I'm aware sa  katangian ni first love na same ng sa akin. Siguro walang intentions na gawing rebound pero usually pag same qualities ang interpretation natin eh rebound tayo.

Until now ba sila pa din sis?

Tama, actually muntikan din akong maging rebound. Sabi ng friend ko we look the same daw morena, long hair only I'm chinita then si girl hindi and sobrang close namin. Mabuti nalang na realize namin na hindi namin kaya ang relationship na may pumapagitnang issue. I'm very territorial kasi and sa simula pa lang alam kong sobrang mahal niya yong ex niya.

[rheinfall18]

^ may kilala din akong ganyan, yung naging wife ng guy friend ko parang twin sister ng highschool love nya. pero ok naman sila ni wifey, hindi namin ginawang malaking issue yun sa barkada. o baka ako lang ang nakapansin. hehe

[IamMarieLove]

^that's good to hear sis. It depends din sa tao on how they handle situations like that and maybe your friend made his wife feel secure sa relationship and sa love niya kaya wala silang issues.

[gc.garcia]

Wala yan sa tagal. When you fall in love, you fall in love. Simple as that. It wont matter kahit kasama mo yung tao in a month or less. Best thing to do is just be there for your friend. I have guy barkadas throughout college who I still hang out till now. Pag may pinagdadaanan sila, you just be there for them, you dont need to give them advices all the time. Just be a listener. That's more than enought for them

[rheinfall18]

^kung babalik tayo sa main topic, yes agree ako na mukhang need nya lang ng listener. or maybe he is really the typical sentimental guy. i mean until now nababanggit pa rin nya si ex, too bad for him. pero di ko/namin pinapatulan para di na humaba ang pagiging sentimental nya. hehe

[maku a]

nakakalungkot naman.