Things you get tired of hearing/annoyances

[mikky21]

^sis simang i read nga about that dito sa GT, na if you are married sa church, you have to be annuled twice. Pero i dont want to offend her kasi or irritate her like what's doing to me kaya i never said anything about that. Pero naiirita na kasi ako kasi she's my workmate and i get to see her every single day and whenever we talk about weddings at work, always niyang binabanggit yan. Gusto ko na nga sabihin tinanong ko yung friend ko na naglolaw at sabi niya hindi totoong mas matibay sa batas ang civil wedding. Lol.

^sis rowan i dont want to think about that na she's just insecure but she seems like it kasi when h2b proposed parang nainggit siya. All of my workmates were asking about the weddinv ganyan, pero siya dedma. Hahaha. I want to get back to her nga about her opinion about being married civiling or sa church without sounding annoyed. Maybe by saying "yes you and your hubby maybe richer than h2b and I but he wants to give me the best wedding he could possibly give" or "hindi naman ibubuhos lahat ni h2b ang pera niya sa wedding lang"

Bat may mga ganitong tao, hindi na lang manahimik sa gusto ng ibang tao kahit na opposite sa nangyari sa kanila.

[stylus]

Natawa naman ako sa mas matibay. Parehas lang naman yan. Kung sabay kayo magpapakasal, ang isa sa civil ang isa sa church.. mamayang gabi both of you couples ang married na.

Kanya kanyang preference lang. Kung uulitin na naman nya yan sis. Sabihin mo na lang happy ka for her kasi mas matibay ang civil marriage nila.

Pero kamo excited ka for your wedding na "less matibay" kasi pipili ka pa ng gown mo. May food tasting ka with caterer. Magschedule ka ng pre nup nyo. Samahan mo magfit ang entourage. Magppractice pa kayo ng first dance. At may meeting pa kayo ng emcee mo at coordinator. Haist. Kainis yung friend mo na yan. Hahaha

[grrrlscout]

Sabihan mo @mikky21. "Sabi ng lawyer na na friend ko parehas lang daw yan" with smile ought to shut her up haha.

[toria]

Grabe naman yan sis ang dami pa nyang side comment. Bakit di na lang maging masaya for the couple?

Anyway, sa isang homily nabanggit ng priest dito sa SG na nireremind nya ang mga couples na civil married that the church doesn't recognize this (lalo na if nagsasama na kayo). Dapat padin daw kumuha ng sacrament of matrimony tayong mga Katoliko. Hindi kailangang bongga as long as may basbas ng simbahan.

Di ko na naresearch further kung hindi nga talaga nirerecognize ng Church ang Civil marriages. Maybe other sissies can comment about this.

[120515]

^ hi sis toria, i heard opposing views - my husband's older brother, who was a seminarian, said that the Catholic church does recognize civil marriages but he's american; then i heard from other people that being only civilly married is not accepted by the church, mainly from filipinos. so i'm not really sure. however, when we were interviewed by the parish priest for our church wedding, we admitted that we were living together because we were already civilly married for a year and they didn't have any comments.

^^ sis mikky21, i guess the best thing to do is "in one ear, out the other" and just avoid talking about anything wedding-related with your friend.

[simang]

^^sa pagkaintindi ko, the Catholic Church has a separate 'registry' of marriages. So kung wala talagang ceremony sa church, then the wedding is not listed sa church, kaya hindi sya 'recognized'. Parang ganun lang yun, i'm not sure though. Pero as far as i know, if civilly married ang couple, iba din ang requirements ng church.

[corpse_bride]

^^ yung sister ko nag Ninang sa civil wedding last week. They got married civily muna para maayos na yung papers nung wife to follow sa Australia. Ang cute lang kasi yung parents ng girl ayaw pang payagang magsama as husband & wife yung girl until mag church wedding sila next year. Maski overnight after nung ceremony wala daw.

Anyways, dagdag lang.. I had this convo with 1 person so it's not something I kept on hearing but it was annoying nonetheless.

She greeted me on my birthday (few weeks ago) & was asking about my Despedida de Soltera. I was like you're not even invited to my wedding in my head but instead I told her I don't know what are the plans of my family & malayo pa my wedding. She was like no dapat your last single birthday is your Despedida de Soltera & kept on insisting that I make my day special daw. I was again (in my head) my family always makes my birthdays special, sorry if yours doesn't. She then went on to say that she's throwing herself her own Despedida de Soltera on her birthday to claim that it will be her last single birthday. Ugh. Annoying. More like Desperada de Soltera. 

[mikky21]

Hahaha. Natawa ako sa mga comments niyo. Dinededma ko na lang siya. Hindi ko na din sinasabihan ng wedding details. Minsan lang nakakairita na at gusto kong sabihin na lang "manahimik ka na lang mahirap na nga magprepare for a church wedding, isa ka pang nagpapastress sakin. Pero kung sabagay hindi mo nga naman naranasan pala."hahaha. Pero i never did. Nagssmile na lang ako at sinasabing "gustuhin ko man hindi papayag si h2b at lahat ng pamilya namin"

[fidelity88]

December 2016 bride here!

I'm tired of hearing these:

- Ang tagal pa pala, maghihiwalay pa kayo.

- Yung ganito na lang kasi mas ok. (Which is booked na kami)

- Iinvite mo yung pinsan mo, matagal mo nang hindi nakikita.

- sigurado na ba kayo sa pgpapakasal?

Will try to back read soon. mukhang interesting dito.

[marbleslice]

So far, ito pa lang ang annoying words/bagay na naencounter ko since we got engaged and ngayon na wedding preps:

Future MIL's response to my fiance, when he was trying to come up with the guest list sa side nila, since malaking clan sila: "Bakit pa kailangan may specific number of heads na allocated per family? Imbitahin niyo na lang e.g. Mr. Juan Dela Cruz and family tapos bahala na sila ilan sila pupunta" - hello po, gusto niyo ba magkagulatan tayo at nakatayo ang ibang guests sa reception? Sumakit ulo ni h2b sa pag explain 

good thing ito pa lang. 

[grrrlscout]

Naiinis ako pag sinasabi sakin ng fiancé ko na "hindi naman ako particular diyan" pag may tinatanong ako na detail about our wedding. Minsan nainis ako talaga dahil sinabi niya sakin yan nung tinatanong ko yung preferred na location niya, sabi ko "eh kung di ka naman particular pala edi diyan na lang tayo sa kapilya sa kanto magpakasal." Hahaha. Sabi ko ayaw ko naririnig yun dahil parang ako lang yung may pakialam. Kaya sabi niya di na daw niya ulit yung sasabihin hehe.

[momzkie]

Nag enjoy akong basahin to.
May 2016 bride here.

Share ko lang yung sakin although honestly sa ngayon di pa naman ako napipikon ng bongga since close friends and part sila kung bakit lumakas loob ni Fiance na ligawan ulit ako.
Barkada kasi kami nung Highschool, ang mga nagbibitaw ng lines na to yung mga Guys. Specially yung Guy na nasa Abroad. Pag nag grougroup chat kami sasabihin nya kay Fiance "Tol, sigurado ka na ba dyan? May bahay kami sa Pangasinan. Gusto mo tago ka namin don." Syempre yung ibang Guys sesegundahan yun.
Yung Girls ipagtatanggol naman ako sasabihin sakin "Sigurado ka na ba? Pwede pang magbago isip"
Alam ko namang lokohan at asaran lang yun pero even kasi sa group chat nila na sila-sila lang paulit-ulit si abroad friend sa pagsasabi na may bahay sila sa Pangasinan. Buti na lang pag sumasagot si Fiance lageng "OO sigurado na ko" ang sagot. Kung hindi may kutos sya sakin Hahaha!
And buti na lang kamo alam kong super push talaga si Abroad Friend kay Fiance na balikan ako at agawin kay Ex hahaha! Kung hindi ko alam yun baka naniwala na ko na ayaw nya talagang magkatuluyan kami. Hahaha!!!

[Lemoncee]

Hahaha ang cute nyo siguro nung naguusap kayo. Kami din ni h2b ganyan lagi nya sinasabi binibiro nya ko pinilit ko lang daw sya magpakasal hahaha tas maglalambing

[monopoly19]

"Bakit hindi church wedding? Isa ba sa inyo hindi Catholic?"

Paki mo.

[ninja8]

hahahaha this is the most bentang thread for me now. Tawang tawa ako kay corpse_bride. Exactly what I would reply in my head too. I just have a couple for now

" Gusto ko din pamakeup sa MUA mo?" - (deep inside) Bride kba?
"Bakit kase December kayo papakasal mahal ng pamasahe sa eroplano- Uhmm pwede ka naman lumangoy?
"Di ako kumakain ng beef at pork ha - So!
Alam niyo wag kayo pakasal ng December kase pagod na mga suppliers - This came from a famous stylist. I almost uttered bakit kinukulang kba ng tanim na bulaklak or nahihirapan kang mamitas? Ano jan???

Seriously what is wrong with these people

[simang]

Buti na lang when we were prepping wala akong mga narinig na ganito. Most likely naman these people who say/ask these things, they don't mean to offend you or stir up your preparations, (except maybe mikky's friend lol) pero I understand how stressful can it be for brides to consider everyone's opinions. Kaya the best thing to do is to dedma. Haha!

[Chili1113]

Situation at home: Dad comes with tons of chocolates and says: " Your cousin arrived from the states and sent you all this! Don't forget to say 'Thank you' to her, but don't eat any of it you're gonna get fat and wedding is near."

Mom comes homes and says: " I bought ensaymada and pizza for everyone. Get some!" Then when I start getting food... "Hey, magtira ka sa kapatid mo! Malapait na wedding mo! Tataba ka"

LOL!!!! Nakakainis------ comment ng comment about me going on a diet pero naman our house is full of junk food and bili naman ng bili ng kung ano ano.

And the more they remind me to watch what I eat, the more I want to eat everything kasi nakakainis!!!!!!!

[reese17]

Just this Sunday, my husband and I visited my parents and the first thing my Lolo tells me is, "you've put on weight!"

Fine, I gained 5 lbs since the wedding but it isn't that noticeable compared to how much I lost. Nakakainis nga ang pinoy culture. Talking about weight is such a personal matter!

[unsophisticatedme]

"Bat wala ka pa bf?"
"Kelan ka mag-aasawa?"

[Chili1113]

LOL--- eto pa pala... Even our helper at home nakikialam!!! ...I come down for breakfast and ask "Anong ulam?" --- sagot ni manang "Akala ko ba diet ka?"----- Me deep down: Ano pakialam mo? tamad ka lang magluto.