Sweet but not caring or Caring but not sweet?

[amazingheart]

Kung kayo ang papipiliin, Alin ang mas pipiliin nyo at mas gusto nyo, sa taong Maalaga pero Hindi  Sweet or Sweet pero Hindi naman  maalaga and why?

[ri-anne]

How can being maalaga and caring not sweet? And how can a person be sweet but not caring?
Unless ang definition mo ng pagiging "sweet" is limited to the physical aspect (pda etc), well siguro possible....
Maybe you can give specific examples ...
Each person probably has his/her own definition of "sweet" and "caring" so it may be subjective

[sweetashoney]

^ditto sis, also sweet and caring, same gestures ang pinapakita/pinaparamdam diba

[aquacharly]

Pipiliin ko yung maalaga, kahit hindi sweet.  Kasi words are cheap; actions say a lot -- o, that's trite, but true.

BUT! Hindi como maalaga eh puede na syang verbally/emotionally abusive.  No, no, no, no, no. 

[piatos]

i'll go sa taong maalaga.  May nakita na akong ganto hindi sila yung tipong pda kahit asawa na den one time naghihiwa ng mangga si wifey den nasugatan siya.  Agad agad to the rescue si hubby kuha ng mga gamot etc hihi tapos sabi ky wifey. "sabi ko naman sayo ako na e, nasugatan ka tuloy. waaa kilig talaga

[simang]

Yung caring but not sweet -- i don't think they exist. For me, a caring partner is a sweet partner.

[sweetgirl]

sabi nga it depends sa definition mo ng caring and sweet. for me caring is the type na naaalalayan ka and aalagaan ka as much as he can. sweet nman is the simple gestures or little surprises. good thing nakuha ko both with my bf. swerte ko.

Sample of caring, dahil grave yard ako, s tanghali ako tulog. kpag nakikita nya na pawis na ako, kuha agad ng pamunas ng pawis. di pa natatapos un dun. kuha ng basa na towel at punas again pra maibsan init at tuyo again pra nman di matuyuan. grabe sa tatlong punasan.

Sample ng sweet, dahil nagising sya ng maaga, nag-gupit ng colored papers, ngsulat ng sweet notes at inihung s ceiling ng room namin. ayun till now nakahung prin fr almost 2 weeks na at wag ko daw alisin. un ang latest lan na kasweetan nya.

sis simang, they still exist for me. hehe.

[Jechmys]

ako I'll go for Caring but not sweet baka naman po kasi langgamin na kami pag parehong sweet kami hehe
But I believe caring din naman ang mga sweet people..... thoughtful pa nga eh.. LOL

basta mga sis I go for "CARING but not Sweet" :-)

[simang]

^^yep, i mean syempre pag caring yung lalaki, natural na sweet din sya diba? Yung example mo ng caring --that's sweet right? That's how i see it. Hindi ko maisip na someone can be caring pero hindi sweet. that's why I said that i find a caring person very sweet. So hindi ko gets yung tanong ni TS -- caring but not sweet. Kasi nga, a caring person is a sweet person.

[stylus]

^agree. But i see it as sweet- as in sweet lang like ma-i love you? Or touchy touchy ganun? Syempre i prefer caring but not so sweet kasi nga his care as it is is sweet already. Deeper form of sweetness kasi ang pagiging caring.

[ri-anne]

i'll go sa taong maalaga.  May nakita na akong ganto hindi sila yung tipong pda kahit asawa na den one time naghihiwa ng mangga si wifey den nasugatan siya.  Agad agad to the rescue si hubby kuha ng mga gamot etc hihi tapos sabi ky wifey. "sabi ko naman sayo ako na e, nasugatan ka tuloy. waaa kilig talaga

This reminds me of the time when my hubby volunteered to cut and slice the kalabasa.
Nasugatan na kasi ako before nung naghiwa nun. So pagka-next time na nagluto ako ulit ng may kalabasa, sya na naghiwa para hindi na daw ako masugatan.  <3
That for me is being sweet. <3

[Shadow Angel]

dahil experience ko na i choose both😜