Boyfriend chose officemates over me

[ninsyninsyspider]

Sissies and brothas, kindly enlighten me, baka hormones lang umiiral kasi.

Today is APEC day and everyone knows how horrible the traffic is, may schedule na dinner si boyfriend before pa and hindi pa alam na ganito yung magiging situation.

Come weekend and the traffic that happened, I asked him na if tuloy parin. Oo daw. Kung ako naman yung celebrant, iccancel ko na para wag hassle sa mga friends ko.

What pissed me off, is pinili ng boyfriend ko sumama sa kanila. Bale wala na sinabi ko mahihirapan ako mag commute pauwi na mag isa!!

Hormones or nasa lugar naman ang galit ko?

[Girltalker2]

^ this incident lang naman di ba?

Minsan kasi kung may lakad na sila, mahirap na i-cancel. Siguro isip nya you can go home naman on your own and not a life and death situation.

[chicafabulosa]

Well sis yung dinner na yun was planned way before and you knew about it. So i dont think you have the right to get mad to begin with. The fact it was set way before, you should have an alternative plan how to go home alone. Sa akin lang sis ha, di naman babysitter bf mo para di ka makauwi mag isa. For sure nung di pa kayo umuuwi ka naman mag isa di ba. So i dont see any big deal about this one. You can still go home alone. Youre a big girl na. You said if you were the celebrant, kaso hindi ikaw. So you need to also understand baka di na pwede cancel yung reservation nila di ba. So just relax. Calm yourself. Sorry if i was a bit harsh to you but its how i see it.

[Shadow Angel]

Tama hindi naman sa mas pinili nya mga ka officemates nya kasi diba from the start alam mo ng may lakad sila at hindi need na pumili diba. I agree hindi mo kaya umuwi mag isa? Kung traffic man may magagawa ba si bf na hindi ka matraffic if ihahatid ka?

[khaleesiCersei]

Im sure sis yun mga ibang kasama sa dinner eh pareho rin ng problema mo kung pano sila uuwi coz of the traffic but they all chose to go ahead sa dinner party kasi nga nakaplan na. Baka wala na din ibang dates na available silang lahat kaya hindi na pinostponed.

[quennna]

sis small things lang yan.. wag na palakihin..
nakapunta ka nga ng office mag isa, im sure, marami kang makakasabay pag uwi..
challenging umuwi ngayon ng bahay..
kamustahin mo na lang bf mo kung musta yung gmik nya na walang hinihimutok..
wag na dagdagan apecto ng apec.... hehe

[rasee16]

Agree with the comments here. Bat ka nagagalit TS eh hindi nya naman tinago sayo na may lakad sya with his officemates.. Alam mo naman yun from the start diba? Wag mo masyado sakalin bf mo na dapat ikaw lagi kasama nya. He needs some time with his friends too. Na-set na nila yun dati pa eh. What if nabayaran na nung celebrant yung resto/venue diba, hindi naman pwedeng icancel basta basta. Yung paguwi mo ng mag-isa, I'm sure kayang kaya mo naman diskartehan yan. Don't blame him na nahirapan ka umuwi kasi di ka nya hinatid sa bahay. Enjoy your time alone nalang muna while he's out with his officemates.

[ninsyninsyspider]

I forgot to mention na we go to work together and I don't usually commute

Anyway, all is good. He saw din my point na he let me go home alone and hindi ko naman siya sinasakal kasi I usually allow him naman to go out. This time lang I asked kasi nga it'll be hard for me. And no reservations, hole in the wall lang heehee

[rasee16]

Ahh.. Eh nung hindi pa kayo, how do you go around the metro? You drive your own car o dapat may taga hatid-sundo parin? Try mo magcommute sis may Uber and grab na naman ngayon. It's not so bad. Para if hindi pwede bf mo, kaya mo pa rin mag-isa. Try mo lang maging independent and not so much clingy kasi hindi naman laging nandyan si bf. Para next time na may lakad sya, hindi na maulit tong scenario mo na feeling mo pinagpalit ka sa officemates.

[ohcmon]

Frankly sis, I think your inis was a little selfish. Gusto mo 'wag siya tumuloy sa dinner kasi mahihirapan ka mag commute, regardless of the fact that this dinner has been planned in advance and syempre your BF wants to go out with his friends din naman. I think it's a matter of me-before-you attitude which is never healthy.

I agree with ^ rasee16. Mauulit itong scenario na ito if you think mahirapan ka going home/wherever without BF.

[lovemeagain30]

yes mauulit ulit pa ang mga ganitong scenario and i swear next time aawayin mo na siya! 
been there, done that.

kaya mong umuwi mag isa sis kahit wala si bf. small things lang eto na pede palampasin. it's not like he prioritize you over his friends. your still not in a life and death situation. don't feel that way. kahit naman kasama mo si bf sa panahon ngayon na apec, pareho lang kayo mahihirapan. actually mas maiisip mo pa nga na "pano kaya siya makakauwi nun?" more than sa  'mahihirapan ako'.

chill and let it go.
 

[chicafabulosa]

Oo nga how do you go around the metro? May driver ka or you drive yourself? Kasi sis ako even I have my own driver I dont rely on him. i even choose taking a cab lalo na pag nasa school driver ko pag sinusundo anak ko. And mind you sis, like you i dont commute. People who knows me well here knows that but i dont become bratty kay husband na wala akong driver sunduin mo ako. I think its too selfish pag ganun.

[ninsyninsyspider]

I usually have a driver pero terrible traffic nga yesterday so no one's going to fetch me. There was no uber and grab din yesterday so really had a hard time :/

Parang I wanted to feel lang din siguro that he was worried on how will I get home with the situation. We're not clingy naman, he gets to go to his lakads and the other way around but yesterday was terrible lang talaga.

[blushberry]

Just let it go this time, baka hindi lang makapag back out