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Re: Ang Loser ko ba?
« Reply #20 on: January 02, 2016, 10:11:42 pm »
i can totally relate with TS. hindi ka nagiisa. so im super loser pala hahaha. im almost 40 and single again. came from a 12 year relationship. was about to get married but discovered that the guy's keeping a 2 yr old relationship with another girl. never dated after the break up. there were days na malungkot, days na self pity. there are times na naiingit sa mga nakikita sa social media na friends with happy families. pero ayoko na lang magdwell don. i always try to be happy, i find ways to be happy. im still praying that my mr right will come in gods perfect time.

bata ka pa, you're only 28. madami pa pwede mangyari sa buhay mo. enjoy life. mas madami pa matanda sayo na still single

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Re: Ang Loser ko ba?
« Reply #21 on: February 16, 2016, 08:40:38 pm »
I soo feel you TS, hugs to you. I hope okay kana ngayon may bf or wala, madalas ko din nafifeel to, last night lang nag eemote ako paano na ako pag tanda ko, sa ngayon kasi I still live with mom and brother's fam, so masaya pa, what if iwanan na nila ako sa bahay?Anyway kung kelangan mo ng friend message ka lang, andito naman kaming mga sisses mo  ;D
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Re: Ang Loser ko ba?
« Reply #22 on: May 08, 2016, 06:48:11 pm »
nagka bf or nagka asawa na kaya si TS? curious lang.  ::)
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Re: Ang Loser ko ba?
« Reply #23 on: June 10, 2016, 12:23:07 pm »
I think I went through the same feeling in the past few times, talaga atang pumapasok sa isip bigla of worrying about being alone in the future. The feeling comes and goes, but what I realised ay as long as you keep yourself busy and/or meeting people through starting a new hobby or networking, you wouldnt feel depressed about being alone. Its an advantage pa nga minsan kasi you can plan for your self.

To eliminate the feeling of your dependency sa iba, come up with plan that doesnt involve the need of a bf or husband. Buy a dog/cat, buy a property/real estate, something you can call your own. Para when the time comes that you find your self alone, you have your investments with you. I know its not a person, however its better than having nothing at all.  ;D

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Re: Ang Loser ko ba?
« Reply #24 on: June 11, 2016, 06:44:10 am »
^ tama! Invest in yourself and on your future.

At the end of the day, with or without partner, you should be a whole person.
Kahit naman sa mga may bf o  asawa, puede sila umalis at naghanap ng iba or simply die. In any case, you have to have your own savings and be independent financially. Kahit sa pag retire, you need to plan for yourself.

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Re: Ang Loser ko ba?
« Reply #25 on: November 20, 2016, 09:53:50 pm »
maraming beses ko ito naramdaman na loser ako pero i keep on fighting it...
lalo na sa love ilan beses ako nag-failed.
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Re: Ang Loser ko ba?
« Reply #26 on: November 26, 2016, 10:15:27 pm »
hi mga sis! kamusta na? anyway, ganito pa rin ako. single, walang fb for a year, i only keep my instagram to update lang. pero ganun pa rin, madalang lang naman ako magpost. i think right now is the best time of my life. reading my post with regards to my ex e natatawa na lang ako ngayon. LOL napakacrazy lang at natatawa ako. bakit ko nga ba pinost yun? right now, im working pa rin. so far, ok naman. and im really happy because this year, ang dami kong travel. naghongkong, dubai, boracay, palawan, davao, at iloilo ako. haha sabi ng mga officemates ko, ako na talaga ang jetsetter. for the past few years, ive been traveling naman but not so much. basta ang goal ko lang naman ever since i graduated from college is to travel every year na yung hindi ko pa napupuntahan. Im still single, mas madaming ipon, less utang (because of grad school. nagpile up kasi dahil credit card yung ginamit ko noon), at mas naging minimalist ako, tao man o bagay. haha so far, mas masaya ako now. dahil single ako., ive never felt this carefree. =) go with the flow lang ako. next year, mag hongkong ulit kami ng family. this time, kasama naman yung tita ko na first time, so ako ang tour guide nila. haha hopefully bago ako mag 30, matuloy ang travel ko sa australia. or if not, mag europe sana. if hindi talaga matuloy, ipupursue ko na yung pagwork abroad ko next year :) by all means, yan na ang plan ko. mag abroad next year, or tuloy lang ang travel. wala sa plano ko ang magboyfriend na muna at magpamilya, nakakalungkot din minsan kasi mag isa, pero pag iniisip ko na im not emotionally ready, mas okay na yung ganito and i look forward sa pagwork sa abroad or magtravel sa lugar na di ko pa napupuntahan. :)

In short, ang gusto ko lang sabihin ngayon, HINDI KO MAFEEL NA LOSER AKO. I feel really really really blessed sa lahat ng mga nangyayari sa buhay ko. Lalo na i have with my family with me. and its really great that i spend my time with them kasi alam ko na darating yung araw na mag-aabroad talaga ako for work. :)

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Re: Ang Loser ko ba?
« Reply #27 on: November 28, 2016, 05:17:34 pm »
^ I'm happy for you sis. We're at the same age and guess what... I'm not yet married and I'm not even planning to in the near future. Yes, may boyfriend ako but we prioritize our independence and career right now. :)

We women don't live just to have partners or bear children. We are much, much more than that. You go, girl! :)
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Re: Ang Loser ko ba?
« Reply #28 on: November 28, 2016, 11:34:32 pm »
Iba naman ang definition ng loser. I have been there. I know how it feels.  I got married in my 30s. I am now in my mid 40's and divorcing after separating from my husband in 2011. I am trying to date but pero wala pa ring seryosong relationship since then. So I have been in a relationship and have been single. Trust me, not everyone in relationship are happy. Magbasa ka na lang dito sa GT, ang daming nasasaktan at umiiyak. Chill lang and enjoy life.
"Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own" ---Matthew 6:34

 


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