More nervous than excited on the wedding day

[sensi]

I can relate to this, I hate the limelight at feeling ko ang pangit ko pa maglakad kaya big No No na yung heels for wedding shoes kasi baka matampilok ako, tapos naisip ko paano kung mapatid ako or mag wobble. Then lately nagiging mahihiluhin ako so baka stress lang ng kasal. Kailangan talaga well rested the day before the wedding pero paano makakatulog kung kinakabahan? naisip ko pa baka pag vows na manginig ang boses ko parang ang awkward. gusto ko pa naman ng personal vow.

sis sensi dahil 5 days, siguro wala na yung kaba mo sa 3rd to 5th day hehe  naubos na yung kaba sa tagal ng kasal? 

same tayo ng worries sis, kasi my sis inlaws to be sent him pictures of my wedding high heels...ang tataas! dyos ko...hindi pa naman ako sanay sa matataas..sabi niya medyo kailangan daw para sa pictures during the ceremony...and okay lang daw yun para panay hawak lang daw akp sakanya to assist me...toinks naman!

[tiffany24]

Tama sis sensi ako may heels for picture taking purposes pero flat shoes gagamitin ko sa pag walk sa aisle and sa reception. haha hindi naman kasi siya kita sa gown eh

[sensi]

sa white gown natin sis okay lang na magflats tayo...kaso pagdating sa indian ceremony ko, eh diba sari na suotin ko non, bumili sila ng matataas na heels for me para makita parin pagsuot ko sari ko...and para tumangkad naman ako tignan pagdating sa picture kasi maliit lang ako sis, 5"3 lang....si bf 6"2:(

[tiffany24]

sa white gown natin sis okay lang na magflats tayo...kaso pagdating sa indian ceremony ko, eh diba sari na suotin ko non, bumili sila ng matataas na heels for me para makita parin pagsuot ko sari ko...and para tumangkad naman ako tignan pagdating sa picture kasi maliit lang ako sis, 5"3 lang....si bf 6"2:(

ay oo nga pala sis indian ceremony kita nga, ang tangkad ni fiance mo sis so need nga mag heels ng kaunti, i guess just trust na aalayan ka naman ni H2B or practice wearing it, break in the shoes nga daw sabi ng iba or if possible kahit mga 3 inches lang or yung comfortable ka na taas ng heels, ako ata 2 inches lang ang kaya ko haha 

[sensi]

ay oo nga pala sis indian ceremony kita nga, ang tangkad ni fiance mo sis so need nga mag heels ng kaunti, i guess just trust na aalayan ka naman ni H2B or practice wearing it, break in the shoes nga daw sabi ng iba or if possible kahit mga 3 inches lang or kung [textspeak!] yung comfortable ka na taas ng heels, ako ata 2 inches lang ang kaya ko haha 

oo nga sis eh...comfortable pa naman ako sa 3 inches heels sis, kaso mga binili nila for me more than 3 inches ata:( huhuhu...alalay nalang talaga..palaging naka angklay kay h2b while welcoming guests...hahaha

[tiffany24]

more than 3 inches pala sis sensi , ako I admire those who can really use 3 inches above na heels, ang hirap pero break in the shoes na sis, who knows bago ang kasal comfortable ka na wearing it

[sensi]

yes sis, more than 3:( kung pwede lang kasing putulin legs ni h2b para lumiit naman siya onti and that i wont have to sacrifice wearing these heels:( huhuhu

[corpse_bride]

I find myself very anxious nowadays. Especially when we had to change our wedding plans to almost 360. Sobrang di ako makatulog even if I'm so tired. My brain won't stop.  Cycles messed up as well.  Buti nalang we've booked a competent (otd) coordinator, so far I'm not worrying about the day itself. I'm still anxious with other things along the way though. Budgeting, booking suppliers, guests etc.

Btw, I'm taking supplements to help alleviate my emotions. Take triple strength fish oil & st. John's wort. It's time released so you wont feel better after a month pa or so. There are also over the counter anti-depressants na same time released. If you feel that you can't bare it & you think you'd need to seek professional help, do so. I've been meaning to go back to my doctor, just been very busy.

[tiffany24]

Sis sensi, wag naman putulin hahaha, kaya yan sis don't worry, your H2B is beside you naman 

Sis corpse_bride hoping na mabawasan ang anxiety as days go by, everything will fall in the right place lalu at ok yung coordinator mo 

As for me, I am more stressed than anxious. Twice na ko nadala sa hospital since we started the wedding planning, target ko tapos na lahat by december so January talagang pahinga na lang dapat.

[twinxz]

^sis yan din plan namin. na at least a month eh makapag relax kami kaso malabo haha! dami pa ring inaayos na minor details.

this morning, just had anxiety attack. grabe pala. 1st time nangyari yun sakin. my stomach & heart is aching and i have difficulty in breathing prior to leaving for work. I forgot to drink water pa. huhu. While commuting, I prayed and was able to sleep naman. Thank God.

Nakakatakot! feeling ko na-stroke na ako sa sakit ng heart ko. Dami ko kasi iniisip na mga minor details na lang naman.

[corpse_bride]

^ that used to happen to me too years ago. When that occurs, breathe normally into a brown paper bag. If walang paper bag, just think about your breathing. Normal lang dapat.

[twinxz]

thanks sis! will try to do it next time.

mas nawawala kasi yung sakit ng heart ko if di ako mag-breathe. then just now, nung nagising ako from my afternoon break/nap naisip ko nanaman yung minor details na kulang, ayun sumakit nanaman agad yung heart ko. i drank water and diverted my attention to this forum. huhu nawala naman din kaso nakakatakot na. should i seek medical advise na?

[imprincessfiona]

^Sis twinx it might be a heartburn more prone ang mga acidic. Yung friend ko inatake nyan and she said it felt like heart attack/ stroke daw. Pero much better to consult a doctor.

[twinxz]

^sige sis, thanks! will try to visit the nearest clinic later sa Megamall. Ayoko lang sa mga checkup is may gamot agad na irereseta then trial and error pa. kawawa naman liver ko

hope this is not serious naman.. to our sisses who had anxiety attacks, what are the symptoms sa inyo?

[stylus]

3 kembot na lang before our wedding! we're really excited! gabi gabi namin pinag uusapan ang details! at kahit pagod kami sa work, parang haba ng gabi sa paggawa ng diy's!

we're also targeting december dapat tapos na yung majority ng kailangan asikasuhin at gawin. para fresh new start sa january. at less stress na para sa feb!

pag nakasubmit na kami ng church requirements at maging okay na ang church, mababawasan na ang nervous level ko. medyo worried lang dahil sa experiences ng mga sis who needed to change ceremony venue etc. kaya for now, fingers crossed muna. we'll submit church requirements on nov 15

[corpse_bride]

hope this is not serious naman.. to our sisses who had anxiety attacks, what are the symptoms sa inyo?

Re-read your prior post. Not sure though if parehas tayo. What happened to me was I was crying hard so irregular yung breathing until my hands & legs started to get numb/nanigas. There was also heaviness middle of my chest. I was able to walk pa to the car coz they had to bring me to the ER. But my hands were totally numb talaga. They gave me a make shift breathing apparatus, similar effect daw with breathing into a brown paper bag. I wasn't given medicine naman.

Next time you'll feel like that sis better to be safe than sorry. We all want to be healthy for our wedding. Siguro if there's a need for meds, so be it kesa magbreakdown tayo physically from the stress. Hugs

[tiffany24]

this morning, just had anxiety attack. grabe pala. 1st time nangyari yun sakin. my stomach & heart is aching and i have difficulty in breathing prior to leaving for work. I forgot to drink water pa. huhu. While commuting, I prayed and was able to sleep naman. Thank God.

Nakakatakot! feeling ko na-stroke na ako sa sakit ng heart ko. Dami ko kasi iniisip na mga minor details na lang naman.

parang pareho tayo sis twinxz! Hindi ako makahinga pero ako nahilo talaga to the point na hindi ako makatayo and i threw up so syempre the gossip that i'm pregnant spread like wild fire sa mga kapitbahay haha pero true as per sis imprincessfiona Heartburn din ang diagnosis sa akin sis, baka dala na din nga ng stress

[charmed30]

Halos ganyan din sa kin. Diagnosed ako with panic disorder so can you imagine how terrified i would be on my wedding day. x3 and nervousness! I will take Xanax pero papaconsult muna ulit ako kung anong dosage. Ayoko naman na groggy ako sa wedding day.

[sensi]

haha natatawa nako sa mga posts niyo sis regarding nervousness;) tayo kasi mga b2b, we wanted it to be perfect kaya konting kulang lang, hala big deal na satin...mga g2b kaya natin anong feeling nila nho? baka chill chill lang;)

[yannuh]

^HAHA ganyan din sila sis, hindi lang halata. nakakatawa kasi nung wedding day ko, nakapaglunch pa ko kahit papaano. Si hubby di daw pala naglunch sabi ni OTD coord ko sa sobrang kaba. As in gusto na daw subuan ng food ni coord si hubby pero ayaw nya. after ng wedding at pagkarating sa hotel, dun lang nya sinabing nagugutom sya hahaha.