More nervous than excited on the wedding day

[charmed30]

For me, it's only 3 months before the wedding day. At everytime na iniisip ko, i can't help but to feel anxious and nervous. I am not used to being the center of attention and worried na baka kabahan ako ng sobra habang naglalakad sa aisle at dumating sa point na di ko tapusin yung walk! Or sa sobrang kaba, magpass out ako. I maybe overthinking but I really am very nervous. I am planning to take na a very low dose of xanax just to calm my nerves.
For previous brides, how were you able to be calm and composed during your wedding day?

[120515]

^ big hug, sis charmed30! take deep breaths. just like you, i hate being the center of attention and i haven't crossed the bridge yet but i've been telling myself to just enjoy the attention for that day

[twinxz]

^totally feel the same sis 120515! Been having nightmares na recently!

[120515]

those pesky nightmares! i feel you, sis twinxz...i wonder if they will continue even after the wedding - hopefully not!

[yannuh]

Hehe kyut nyu sissies:) suggestion lang, para maiwasan ang wedding nightmares, try lang ilet go ang wedding kahit ilan araw lang, masyado nyo naiisip kasi hihi. try to focus ke hubby lang or watch a movie or date date kayo at wag muna pag usapan ang wedding:)

On the day di talaga maiiwasan ang kaba pero ewan ko ba nung nagstart na ko magbridal march at niletgo ko na lahat, para lang akong nakalutang. Nakakahiya nga kasi di ko masyadong naintindihan homily ni father, yung mismong vow na lang pumasok sa utak ko.

Basta mga sis wag magpakastres, magiging ok lahat yan:)

[miah]

i love this thread haha....


actually ilang months na din ako napapaginipan about sa wedding ko daw lahat daw palpak... kaya napapaisip ako ano kaya kalalabasan ng wedding namin... buti nalang laging pinalalakas ni h2b yung luob ko na maging happy on that day... kahit [textspeak!] weather baka umulan tanggapin na din daw namin yun pero lagi namin pinagpray na sana maging ok ang lahat..... stay positive na lang at good vibes mga sis =)

 

[Megantaur]

my mom plans to give me rivotril on my wedding day, i am having anxiety for months na

[shygirlme]

Hehe kyut nyu sissies:) suggestion lang, para maiwasan ang wedding nightmares, try lang ilet go ang wedding kahit ilan araw lang, masyado nyo naiisip kasi hihi. try to focus ke hubby lang or watch a movie or date date kayo at wag muna pag usapan ang wedding:)

On the day di talaga maiiwasan ang kaba pero ewan ko ba nung nagstart na ko magbridal march at niletgo ko na lahat, para lang akong nakalutang. Nakakahiya nga kasi di ko masyadong naintindihan homily ni father, yung mismong vow na lang pumasok sa utak ko.

Basta mga sis wag magpakastres, magiging ok lahat yan:)

Sa sobrang high ko din di ko maalala homily ni father. Alam ko lang maganda pero yung exact words nakalimutan ko. Nung dumating wedding videos ko pinanood ko buong church rites namin at nasabi ko talaga magaling si father haha!

Wag kayo kabahan mga sis. Promise ang key para maging success ang wedding nyo let go! Wag nyo problemahin lahat. Chill lang. Hindi din ako sanay na nasa akin attention pero ni let go ko. Its my husband and my day. Kaya isa talaga sa dahilan kaya naging successful wedding ko nag let go na ko.

[chingky]

Hahaha! Same here! I chose a small church, so that I'll only walk on a short aisle. I just want to get it over and done with. Hahaha! I don't even want to have any program, like do the couples' dance or have speeches. I just want it to be chill and relaxed, but let's see. Hahaha. 2 months to go.

[imprincessfiona]

Nice thread mga sis. I can relate to this hihi. A week before my wedding day may jitters talaga ako but not to the point na mag-pass out. Di din kasi ako sanay na maging center of attention na-de-destruct ako. A night before the wedding hindi na ako nakatulog gising na gising ang diwa ko pero yung katawan ko gustong gusto mag-beauty rest talaga. Nung simula na akong ayusan, I let go of everything - fear, nervousness, lahat ng negative thoughts ni-let go ko na at nung naglakad na ako ng aisle ok na ako pero halo halo yung feeling ng lutang at ovewhelmed. hay grabe i cannot really describe the feeling. nag-sink in na lang sa akin lahat the day after actually a week after hindi pa din ako makapaniwala na married na ako hahaha. normal lang yan mga sis. siguro nga 3 days before the wedding day need nyo magrelax ni h2b (go to the spa, watch movie, unwind, etc at wag muna pagusapan ang wedding) para hindi nerbyusin.

[charmed30]

My gosh panic attack galore everytime i think about the wedding day. Wala naman nightmares about the wedding buti na lang. Kakatakot baka maging jelly ang legs ko habang hindi pa binubuksan ang main door ng church for my walk. Nakakalungkot lang isipin na baka di ko maenjoy yung wedding because of my nerves kaya i think i need to do something about it.

[hermione28]

Buti nalang I love being the center of attention! haha.
pero let's see kung kakabahan or hindi pag malapit na.
Though na stress na ko now kakaisip.

Dati di ko naman kasal, kasal ng sis ko yun, ako kasi nag prepare lahat, parang full time coordinator.
Nagkaka nightmares ako nun. haha. di naman ako yung ikakasal.

[sensi]

hehe i dont think im gonna have a problem with my christian wedding since one day lang siya diba? so thatam not worried about.i think i can handle it just fine.

what am worried about is my other wedding...my fiance is an ismaili kasi...so sakanila, its 5 days wedding.
haaay, i have no idea about it...but sabi ng inlaws ko, ill just leave it to them nalang daw.sila ng bahala sakin....haaay ok.

[hermione28]

^5 days wedding?? Whoa 
nakakakaba nga yan! haha. tapos di mo pa alam mga tradition nila.

[sensi]

yup...but am sure they'll inform me naman what to hehe...pero nakakakaba nga kasi parang ang tagal matapos? haha

[twinxz]

5 days? Sounds dreading sis. For sure whole day din yun?

[sensi]

yes sis 5 days...but i dont know if whole day...haha..baka half day lang naman...hehe..hindi ko sure talaga.but illlet you know pag alam ko na..haha..abang mode mga sissies..
pero bumibili na inlaws ko ng tela for my dress para sa 5 days na yun...oh my, just thinking of the styles ng dresses nila, high heels! hehe...jewelries...

[tiffany24]

I can relate to this, I hate the limelight at feeling ko ang pangit ko pa maglakad kaya big No No na yung heels for wedding shoes kasi baka matampilok ako, tapos naisip ko paano kung mapatid ako or mag wobble. Then lately nagiging mahihiluhin ako so baka stress lang ng kasal. Kailangan talaga well rested the day before the wedding pero paano makakatulog kung kinakabahan? naisip ko pa baka pag vows na manginig ang boses ko parang ang awkward. gusto ko pa naman ng personal vow.

sis sensi dahil 5 days, siguro wala na yung kaba mo sa 3rd to 5th day hehe  naubos na yung kaba sa tagal ng kasal? 

[sparklingjewel]

This is sooo me.... Hay

People are like, Uyy 2 months nalang!! Excited ka na?!
And i go, Uhh, no... haha. More of anxious to see if we can pull through everything.

My friends say i should just let go and leave it all up to my coordinator. But im not confident yet since we've only had 1 meeting so far.. parang feel ko ako parin may alam sa lahat.

[mrs.abc]

hahaha.. 8 months to go pa kami at nagkaron na ko ng bad dream na ang dami daw palpak sa wedding day namin. I don't want to entertain the anxiety and fear, kaya nag-relax na lang ako at rest ng konti sa planning. Bridechilla mode ON, sana ma-maintain till the wedding day.