Confused.. Advice please :(

[LaRa20]

I had my mens last Aug 16, & havent had it again since. Iv had regular cycles for years, & didnt immediately notice na delayed na. I only started to think i was pregnant after experiencing several symptoms (mejo nasusuka feeling, bloated, mild cramping in lower abdomen & lower back, gassy, minsan nahihilo bgla, mas madalas maihi), which i never experienced before. I took several hpt already & all came back (-). Had an ultrasound last Oct16 & the ob said malinis naman uterus, walang nakita, not even the bad stuff (cyst, etc) But i dont understand if normal lahat bakit delayed parin, the doctor didnt explain. I know i've been stressed din, & it's a factor for delayed mens, but do the symptoms go with it? Im confused.. i still want this baby.. iv been searching the net & read na for some, the baby didnt show (in either tests or ultrasound) until they were 4 or 5 months along. Anyone experience this before? I want to hold on to this little piece of hope..before ako mag take ng pampa regla na nireseta ng ob.. :/ Thanks!

Hi girls, thanks for the replies, sorry idk why di ako mkareply sa inyo (sql error daw :/)
-Idk if its psychological, kasi i felt the symptom first before i suspected i could be preg. Mej narelax nko these past 2wks..got excited & happy actually thinking i was preg..then now mej malungkot nnmn dahil sa turn of events
-The ob was convinced i wasnt preg. Will ask a diff doctor if i can have a blood test pra lang matahimik dn
-The ob didnt say if polycystic. Normal dw lahat & malinis. Then nagreseta ng meds for 10days w/c will make me bleed daw
-I dont think i imagined it all :/ i mean prng nauna ko naramdaman mga bagay before naisip na possible..idk..will read about phantom preg tho, thanks. & im trying to relax more na dn..hopefully AF comes soon if everything really is clear & no baby
Thanks mga sis!

[plumpolka]

^sis, baka masyado ka lang nasstress. minsan yung mga "symptoms" kasi psychological lang e. I've also had this "pregnancy scare" pero irregular naman ako. Took pt din pero negative din. so after nun, I just relaxed and boom. andyan na si mens. relax lang sis.

[chicafabulosa]

Baka stressed ka lang sis. I suggest you relax. If di ka talaga mapakali, have a blood test. My baby was detected through blood test kahit wala pang one month eh.

[jonahh08]

Sis kung ang last mens mo is Aug 16 then nagpa ultrasound ka ng Oct 16, if preggy ka it'll show dapat sa ultrasound kasi kung base sa Lmp mo 2 months pregnant ka na nun medyo malaki na yun para ma miss sa ultrasound. Wala ba sinabi si doctor kung polycystic ka? Yun kasi kadalasang cause ng delayed or no-show na mens. Pero ok na rin magpa blood test para 100% sure, or better yet see another doctor for second opinion.

[OfficeGirl]

There are such cases called phantom/false pregnancy sis. Meron ka ng lahat ng symptoms pero hindi naman talaga pregnant. Tama si sis jonahh08, dapat kita na sa PT and ultrasound if you really are pregnant. Relax ka lang sis.

[cmp]

mga sis...hi,
ask ko lang kung effective ba ang myra e and folic acid (folart) to get pregnant?

[OfficeGirl]

^Why ano ba diagnosis mo sis? PCOS, etc? AFAIK, nakakatulong yun but not entirely on their own.

[preggygielian]

^^ sis cmp, meron ka bang diagnosis na ng doctor? Kasi ako nun, nagkamiscarriage then found out na may [mild] PCOS pala. So to get ready for round 2 of conceiving a baby, ,nagready na ako with folic acid (I took Folart) and my OB game me meds - metformin, clomid and two more...after 4 months of medication ayun buntis na. pero 2x ako nabalik sa OB per month niyan so he could also monitor my ovaries.

It's always best to visit your OB if you want to be pregnant just in case there was something that's preventing you from getting pregnant.