[need help] wanted to break up but BF asks for a chance

[artificialstar]

hi sissies, I'm in a delimma right niw. I explicitly told my BF na gusto ko na mag break kami. Alam nya madami syang hindi ginawa para saken, para sa relationship namin. So he asked for a chance na maprove nya daw worth nya, na if ever in the future, I still want to break up, wala na daw syang regrets. The way I see it, kahit magawa man niya yung mga bagay2x, for me, hindi na kasi mag.wowork yung relationship. Meron akong hinahanap na traits in a lifetime partner na wala sya. I dont want him to change just because of me, alam ko hindi sya maging masaya pag nangyari yun.  It will be cruel if i give him a chance pero at the end of the day, break lang din naman yung ending.

Thoughts please? Should I give him a chance kr break nalang talaga?

[akosimaiatot]

The way I see it, kahit magawa man niya yung mga bagay2x, for me, hindi na kasi mag.wowork yung relationship. Meron akong hinahanap na traits in a lifetime partner na wala sya.

sis its very clear na he is not the one you need and by the looks of it wala ng love tama ba? you are just prolonging your agony , why waste time for something that is not even working anymore? you are just giving your self and your guy a much bigger heartbreak kung ipagpapatuloy mo pa yan.

[csj]

It seems you already made up your mind sis. If wala na yung feeling na 'in-love', don't give him second chance na. Mahirap kasi yung bibigyan mo sya ng chance pero out of pity lang. 

[honeybunny]

if wala sa kanya hinahanap mo, i guess just break up with him. why waste time diba..

[lenzyfrancisco]

Wala naman mawawala kung bibigyan mo sya ng chance, baka sa last chance na yun maging ok na.

[fastlove]

Miss

Iwan mo ..  very clear naman  sayo eh. bakit mo pa ipipilit.. parang  food rin yan
ayaw  mo  ng  amplaya  bakit  mo kakainin..

[Carly]

I have the same dilemma too. We're together for 2 years now and the relationship is on and off. Now, I'm trying to like someone else but it seems I'm stuck in this relationship. I am not happy anymore.

Sis, if you are not happy anymore and you feel you are sacrificing too much, it's time for you to get out while you can.

[TomHansen]

^ Breakup with your bf first Carly.

[Carly]

Easy for you to say TomHansen but yes I already came to my senses. My friends got tired hearing the same story.

[TomHansen]

^ i know, i just dont want you to be unfair to him. If you already like someone else your bf has the right to know Carly.

[Serena.]

Please give him a chance. he deserves it. and dont worry coz he wants to change without you forcing him to..

[sensi]

its a shame to continue a relationship cause of pity...magiging unfair lang sa partner mo..so better to break his heart now than later.

[deiz]

Break up with him, mahirap ma-stuck sa isang taong hindi mo naman mahal. Paano kung mabuntis ka bigla tapos siya ang ama(knock on wood?). Due to our society, most likely mapipilitan kang mag-asawa kayo. Get out now while you still can.

[alice_alice]

Leave him. Kung di ka na masaya mas mabuti pang itigil niyo na yan. Mas mabilis kayong makakamove on kung didiretsuhin mo na siya sis.

[im fine!]

Closure is important for me. Dont keep someone hanging. If you no longer love the person then by all means let go and move on. Whether you break up or keep him masasaktan pa rin sya kung ramdam naman nyang napipilitan ka lang.

[redhead69]

Break up with him, kesa patagalin mo pa na di rin pala siya pipiliin mo. I guess nafefeel mo lang is pity. Break up with him and tell him everything why ayaw mo na para may peace of mind siya. And that's it.