This is quite long but I'm really so confused (and I do not want to open this to my real-life friends yet), please bear with me po, sisses and bros.
Guy best friend (let's call him J) and I have been friends since our college days. As in he's my go-to guy kapag may problems ako and he knows EVERYTHING about me -- including my sex life. That's how close we are. I see him more of a sibling, and I've never looked at him romantically because he's bisexual. Sa looks, manners, at way of talking, lalaki talaga siya. He had a long-term girlfriend in HS up to our soph year in college, then they broke up because he got into a relationship with a gay (itong si gay parang si J lang din, lalaking-lalaki ang dating, pero kumbaga siya ang mas gay sa kanilang dalawa).
Wala na rin sila ni gay ex, and itong si J has always been vocal that he wants a family of his own blah blah, wala nga lang daw siyang mahanap na suitable girlfriend. I always bully him na kaya siya walang mahanap kasi lalaki pa rin talaga ang gusto niya, though he denies this.
Ako naman had a couple of boyfriends na ginag0 lang ako lahat, and J knows every bit about all these. The last boyfriend that I had was the biggest of the blow, as in sobrang miserable ko so itong si J syempre shoulder to cry on. Never ko inisip that he liked me kasi nga that's not how we roll, kung bullyhin namin ang isa't-isa maiiyak ang pikon, kumbaga sa'kin the things that he does for me ay normal na lang.
Mommy ko has always been vocal that she wants the two of us together at talagang sinasabi niya ito kay J. Ngiti-ngiti lang siya and his default reply is "Huwag mo naman masyadong pinapahalata na gustong-gusto mo akong maging anak, tita".
Nagkaboyfriend na ako ulit nang hindi niya alam. BF and I are on our 2nd month now, and this incident happened about 3 weeks ago. Note that my parents know about the BF, though LDR kami kasi nasa abroad siya (andun na siya nung naging kami). He's never met my family at never ko pa rin na-meet ang family niya, though we've been talking consistently on Facebook and Skype.
Eto na. The last time that J went sa house, dumaan lang siya after office, nainis ako sa kanila ng mommy ko. I was in my room talking to the BF tapos mom was like "Andito si J, 'yung boyfriend mo, aakyat daw ng ligaw" - nang-aasar na naman without knowing na kausap ko si BF. Mej nainis syempre si BF so nainis din ako, hindi kami masyado nakapag-usap ni J kasi badtrip na nga ako. Nun niya lang nalaman na may BF na ako kasi hindi ko sinabi sa kanya.
Ngayon, anniversary ng parents ko. Binati niya on Facebook, sabi ng mom ko sama siya sa'min tonight sa labas for dinner. Deadma lang ako tapos my mom texted me to open her Facebook account and read convo nila ni J sa PM.
The convo goes like:
(kwentuhan chorva muna, though nasasali ako sa usapan kasi tinatawag niya akong "in a relationship na QueenCersei" dahil in a relationship na nga kami ni BF sa Facebook)
J: Sige po, basta happy anniversary po sa inyo ni tito. Sana po masabi ko na rin 'yan sa in a relationship niyong anak at sana makahanap na din siya ng tatapat sa pagkatao niya.
Mom: 'Yun ang 'di ko masasagot diyan, ikaw kasi maarte ka eh.
J: If we're meant to be, then it will happen hehe
Mom: I know pero syempre dapat may move din para maging meant to be.
J: In a relationship na nga po siya 'di ba? Malay po natin, baka si BF niya na ang destiny niya.
Mom: Ikaw kasi babagal-bagal ka eh.
J: Ang laki kasi ng tiyan ko kaya mabagal ako.
Mom: Kung gusto niyo talaga edi pwede naman.
J: Si tita masyadong obvious na botong-boto sa'kin.
And I was like ano daw???
'Di ako dapat maconfuse at 'di ko dapat bigyan meaning what he said 'di ba? Please tell me feelingera lang ako. Nakakalito lang. Hahahaha.
