Resting b**** Face Syndrome

[Ma.Jewel_1987]

^sis habit ko din mag roll ng eyes sa mga friends ko parang "duh" sya sakin hahaha.

[lovely_carrot]

I've been called worse I think

Suplada
Antipatika
Masungit
Intimidating

In some cases its true, depende din naman din sa taong kaharap o kausap.

[andreil_19]

Mahiyain ako kaya madalas akong nasasabihan na suplada daw ako. Pero noong nag-aaral ako suplada talaga ako sa guys na makukulit at mayabang.
Kaya now medyo binabawasan ko na rin ang RBF lewk hahaha

[triciaaamaldita]

Guilty of this!! 

[Marin]

Kawawa naman tayong mga madalas ma-judge!

Relate ako kay cinnamonmon. most of my profs thought na may attitude ako - I naturally frown when listening intently

Sa mga bagong kakilala ganun rin- I show interest in conversations but they think I'm annoyed

 

[cinnamonmon]

@marin Nako sis true enough. Ako nga parang tinanggap ko na yun yung first impression sakin PALAGI. Pero masarap sa feeling yung as they know us sasabihin nila na mali first impressionnila satin. Parang sakin okey na yung mataray, suplada, masungit at kung ano-ano pa ang tingin nila satin pero yung totoo "nice naman tayo" kesa yung mukhang goody-goody sa una yun pala yung total opposite ang ugali.

[keejac21]

ako din mga sis..

Im a newbie sa work and yung mga ladies sa office parang di sila mag warm up sakin because I look suplada. I try to smile a lot but walang effect.
I end up eating alone sa pantry. tsk.

[reighnyielle]

Someone messaged me that it took him quite a few attempts before having the guts to message me on facebook kasi I look intimidating daw kasi lol. Mabait naman pala daw ako. RBF pa more! 

[kvandenhaak]

Struggled with this since I can remember. Ironically, mahiyain nga. I also think a lot so minsan kahit me nakakasalubong na ako na kakilala ko, hindi ko napapansin. It's hard to be judged for something na hindi mo naman iniintensyon. So, I don't judge those who looks matataray!

[smoothie]

Count me in. Usually pag may bago akong friend or kausap madalas ang sinasabi sa akin, mabait ka pala. Akala ko kasi suplada/mataray/masungit/etc ka.

Mahiyain din ako kaya madalas tahimik lang din ako.

[airish_2]

Me too maldita tsaka moody daw lagi daw nakakunot noo ko minsan di ko namamalayan ang hirap hehe..

[iam_me]

ako mukha talaga akong mataray, masungit kaya maraming iwas sa kin totoo naman masungit ako pero pag nakasama na nila ko maldita daw ako di nila akalain na ganito ko

[leelou]

problema ko to. mukha daw ako galit or nakasimangot palagi kahit hindi naman. kainis 

[mysterioza_me]

just recently i was given a feedback that i have always been expressive of my thoughts and they appreciate it, however they always misunderstood it as me being imposing. That when I say or suggests something it is already a rule that they should follow . Sorry naman kung strong dating ng personality ko at sinabayan pa ng bitchy facial expression, di ko po sinasadya.

[sexykhuletzky]

Aww, ako rin. To the point na sinabi ko na sa nagtthread ng kilay ko na gawin nyang mukhang mabait ako. Sungit ko daw tingnan.

[karmic07]

Everyone thinks i'm masungit, suplada, mataray and super unapproachable. All of my friends, and i mean EVERYONE, told me at least once:

"Naiinis/natatakot ako sayo dati kasi mukha kang suplada. Kala ko magiging kaaway kita. Dati sure na sure ako na di kita makakasundo kasi mukha kang impakta. Ambaet mo pala."

Iba ibang version lang. Kasalanan ko bang ganito mukha ko? Lol

[mimiku]

Perhaps a very deadly combination will be an introvert with a RBFS. Haha! That's me! Haaay.

[HMisabelle]

^ me too, sis! very deadly indeed.

[drag0nfly]

RBF din ang meron ako.  I used to worry over this and even get hurt when people would tell me mukha akong mataray.  Pero dati yun nung bagets pa ako.  Now when people ask me, "O bat nakasimangot ka na naman?" or "Smile naman dyan!" I tell them pwede ba, there's nothing wrong, this is my normal face.  Di ko na problema kung na-bo-bother sila 

[baby_chichay]

this is one of my biggest problems ever since. coupled with my low and somewhat husky voice, lahat ng tao natatakot at naiintimidate saken lol. but ngayon I learned how to deal na.

consequences ng RBF for me is sobrang bihira na someone would approach me first to strike a conversation. most of my friends ako ang nauuna talaga na magbreak ng silence nung umpisa. hindi talaga approachable ang face ko haha. i try to smile but then mukha pa din daw evil yung smile ko haha. dami ko nakukuhang comments like "nakakatakot sya", "ang taray nya", to "ayoko sya kausapin, baka sigawan lang ako". although sometimes may benefits din naman like I get more personal space sa araw-araw na pamumuhay ko. hehe