Intense, crazy feeling

[baliwsayo]

Mga sis, aside from diverting your mind to do other things, how do you psyche yourself not to become so crazy in love with the guy you're dating? It's not healthy kasi di ba? I think it's just so wrong even if the feeling is mutual naman.

Share your thoughts please. 😊☺

[simang]

How do you define crazy in love ba? I think as long as you both have your respective me-times, you're good. Yung legit me-time ha, hindi yung pamiss at pabebe lang. Kahit kasi nung nagdedate na kami ng partner ko, walang nagbago sa lifestyle ko, even now na engaged na, same pa din, lumalabas ako mag isa, i do things without him, i still meet people, as in kung pano ako nung single ako ganun pa din.

Having intense crazy feeling is fine i guess, but then sabi mo nga too much of it may be unhealthy already. The healthier thing to do I think is to not cut ties with the other things/people/hobbies that you love. Gawin at mahalin mo lahat ng nagpapasaya sayo, and try not to focus all your positive energy to just this one person.

[KrabbyPatty!]

Yeah having Me-Time is really important so as not to lose yourself in a relationship. Kailangan alagaan din ang sarili. Always have time for your friends and not only sa partner. Kami ng mga friends ko lumalabas pa rin madalas all girls lang without our bfs to have some girl time. And also spend time with your family to keep you grounded na hindi lang sa bf mo umiikot mundo mo. 😊😊

[baliwsayo]

Ahm define intense, crazy feeling.. yun tipong kahit may ginagawa ka, magfaflash siya sa mind mo at mapapangiti ka. Kahit you're with friends, nagfaflash din siya sa isip mo and minsan kahit kausap mo bff mo at masaya siyang nagchichicka sa yo eh lumilipad isip mo sa kanya at di mo talaga naririnig yun sinasabi ng bff mo, tango ka na lang tango para di naman siya ma-offend. Haha! Badtrip. I think I'm going crazy na. Of course he doesn't know this. I don't make paramdam as much even though feel ko mababaliw na ako at times cause I badly want to hear his voice na.

Good thing he texted me the other day that he's always missing me and he's goin nuts na. Sabi ko na lang sa sarili ko, mabuti naman di lang pala ako. Haha!

It's a good feeling but I don't wanna get addicted to it. Is that being paranoid? We're not only dating pala.. bf ko nga pala siya. Haha!

Thank you for your thoughts mga sis. More thoughts please.  ;-)

[Girltalker2]

Just try to balance your thoughts and be realistic on the future of the relationship.

I look at the pros and cons, what he has and doesn't have. Whether it can really work out or not. I guess these thoughts will come after kapag nag sink in na yung reality.

But whatever it is sis, I'm happy for you! Enjoy muna the moments

[purple.strawberry]

Why are you worried sis? Gusto mo ba maensure na hinay-hinay lang and you're not falling too fast?

Basahin mo sis yung Why men love bitches it's a good reminder na even if with a guy we should still have our own time, keep doing our hobbies and not just drop everything for the guy. In short even if you do feel crazy about him make sure that he's not entirely your world and you should be fine.

[simang]

Ganun lang naman pala eh, i dont see anything wrong with how you feel, i'd say i also experience the same kahit na medyo matabal na kami, just enjoy the feeling! as long as you're not hurting anyone, go lang. Don't overthink it

[j.adore]

It's not wrong if you're both living your lives naman (working, going out with friends, sports etc) and if not destructive relationship.

Just enjoy ☺️

[budzwhiz]

Haha, enjoy the feeling sis. Nothing wrong with that. IMO, yan ang isa sa pinakamasarap na feeling, and ang sarap balik-balikan lalo na kapag nagtagal na kayo.

[baliwsayo]

Natatakot lang ienjoy mga sis kasi baka masanay ako tapos biglang magbago na siya. Haha! Ang cynical ba sobra?

May lalake pa pala na sobrang sweet and all tapos okey lang na walang sex? And he's worried daw baka maghanap na ako ng iba kasi wala ng sex. Lol! Kasi we did it a few times na eh and it was so intense, he said nga nakakaadik daw ako pero kasalanan daw kasi yun so request niya wag na daw kami magsex. Grabe. Mababaliw talaga ako sa lalakeng to. Lol!

Okey ba kayo sa ganun set up mga sis?

[ishopnowfeelguiltylater]

gano na kayo katagal sis? parang ganyan din kasi kami.... nung una. hehe