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niru_iiv

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Best Wedding You Have Attended, Seen, or Heard
« on: July 12, 2015, 03:39:08 am »
Hello mga sis I'm one of the december brides this year and I have learned so much from girltalk. I have read a thread regarding the worst wedding and I am just wondering about the best wedding that you have attended, seen or heard so far and tell us why.

I don't intend my wedding to be the best but I certainly do hope that it's not one of the worst that our guests will be attending  :D

Chili1113

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Re: Best Wedding You Have Attended, Seen, or Heard
« Reply #1 on: July 12, 2015, 05:01:34 am »
Best wedding Ive attended is a destination wedding in Rome =) but attended by Manila based guests who all flew in to attend the wedding. They had 200 guests, and had buses to shuttle everyone around over a 3 day series of activities including a despedida de soltera hosted by bride's family, and a vineyard tour and party hosted by groom's family, then the actual wedding in a villa just with a gorgeous view of entire skyline of Rome =)

No one ate and ran, because they had to wait for the buses to bring them back to their respective hotels hehe. No one could leave so it was fun haha But the program was short and sweet. Food was excellent. Had the funnest after party where all the younger ones moved to a room with a Dj, while the older guests remained at the main ballroom.

After the wedding there was an optional 1 week private Eurpoean tour (but at the guest's own expense already hehe) wherein the families further got to know each other.

It was a once in a lifetime experience to be in Europe and party almost every night in Rome surrounded by your family and entire clan, as well as and make many new friends. You get to really know each other as everyone was staying at the same hotel in Rome.

120515

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Re: Best Wedding You Have Attended, Seen, or Heard
« Reply #2 on: July 12, 2015, 08:26:51 am »
chili1113, that was one fabulous wedding you attended! :)

for me, it was my best friend's wedding. it felt almost like an elopement, except it was with close family and friends. she didn't have all the trappings weddings today have but it was filled with love and laughter. her ceremony took place at the judge's office and the reception was at a small spanish-style house events place with only 50 guests.

we started the day off, just my best friend and myself, at a salon to get our hair and makeup done. my best friend bought fresh roses from the market that day and the hair stylist used some of them to decorate her hair. i was the P/V so i took photos of her getting ready. we had a laugh because the hair stylist literally filled her hair with roses and not in bunches but dotted roses on her head. when my bestfriend's dad picked us up, he had a big laugh about my bestfriend's hair looking like a vase. we were laughing, tears-in-our-eyes laughing, all the way to the judge's office.

we used the rest of the roses to make my bestfriend's bouquet and we did it in the car. we also joked about how our other friend would whip us for doing such a clumsy job ;D

they didn't have a program for the reception so we decided to surprise my bestfriend by preparing one on the fly. we had an introduction where we related their love story and they came in to the tune of "runaway" :) our friend's husband, who is a choir-member, sang a capella as background music for my best friend and her husband's first dance.

as you can tell, it was a very simple affair but the love of the couple really shined that day. they're still thinking about doing a church wedding :)

sparklingjewel

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Re: Best Wedding You Have Attended, Seen, or Heard
« Reply #3 on: July 12, 2015, 03:32:30 pm »
Best wedding Ive attended is a destination wedding in Rome =)

I've seen the pictures and of course they were very beautiful :) But it must have been a really costly wedding too hehe. I like my friend's beach wedding in Laiya. Relatively simple styling but all that makes a nice wedding was there.

FOURever

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Re: Best Wedding You Have Attended, Seen, or Heard
« Reply #4 on: July 12, 2015, 05:22:58 pm »
Subscribing here because i wanna be inspired. :) the outcome is not dependent on how much nga no? :)

niru_iiv

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Re: Best Wedding You Have Attended, Seen, or Heard
« Reply #5 on: July 13, 2015, 11:11:11 pm »
Best wedding Ive attended is a destination wedding in Rome =) but attended by Manila based guests who all flew in to attend the wedding. They had 200 guests, and had buses to shuttle everyone around over a 3 day series of activities including a despedida de soltera hosted by bride's family, and a vineyard tour and party hosted by groom's family, then the actual wedding in a villa just with a gorgeous view of entire skyline of Rome =)

No one ate and ran, because they had to wait for the buses to bring them back to their respective hotels hehe. No one could leave so it was fun haha But the program was short and sweet. Food was excellent. Had the funnest after party where all the younger ones moved to a room with a Dj, while the older guests remained at the main ballroom.

After the wedding there was an optional 1 week private Eurpoean tour (but at the guest's own expense already hehe) wherein the families further got to know each other.

It was a once in a lifetime experience to be in Europe and party almost every night in Rome surrounded by your family and entire clan, as well as and make many new friends. You get to really know each other as everyone was staying at the same hotel in Rome.

whoa such a grand wedding indeed sis :D

niru_iiv

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Re: Best Wedding You Have Attended, Seen, or Heard
« Reply #6 on: July 13, 2015, 11:13:03 pm »
chili1113, that was one fabulous wedding you attended! :)

for me, it was my best friend's wedding. it felt almost like an elopement, except it was with close family and friends. she didn't have all the trappings weddings today have but it was filled with love and laughter. her ceremony took place at the judge's office and the reception was at a small spanish-style house events place with only 50 guests.

we started the day off, just my best friend and myself, at a salon to get our hair and makeup done. my best friend bought fresh roses from the market that day and the hair stylist used some of them to decorate her hair. i was the P/V so i took photos of her getting ready. we had a laugh because the hair stylist literally filled her hair with roses and not in bunches but dotted roses on her head. when my bestfriend's dad picked us up, he had a big laugh about my bestfriend's hair looking like a vase. we were laughing, tears-in-our-eyes laughing, all the way to the judge's office.

we used the rest of the roses to make my bestfriend's bouquet and we did it in the car. we also joked about how our other friend would whip us for doing such a clumsy job ;D

they didn't have a program for the reception so we decided to surprise my bestfriend by preparing one on the fly. we had an introduction where we related their love story and they came in to the tune of "runaway" :) our friend's husband, who is a choir-member, sang a capella as background music for my best friend and her husband's first dance.

as you can tell, it was a very simple affair but the love of the couple really shined that day. they're still thinking about doing a church wedding :)

sis i love the fact that you girls have helped your friend made her wedding a memorable one :

niru_iiv

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Re: Best Wedding You Have Attended, Seen, or Heard
« Reply #7 on: July 13, 2015, 11:14:13 pm »
I've seen the pictures and of course they were very beautiful :) But it must have been a really costly wedding too hehe. I like my friend's beach wedding in Laiya. Relatively simple styling but all that makes a nice wedding was there.

you mean simple but elegant sis? :)

niru_iiv

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Re: Best Wedding You Have Attended, Seen, or Heard
« Reply #8 on: July 13, 2015, 11:18:22 pm »
Subscribing here because i wanna be inspired. :) the outcome is not dependent on how much nga no? :)

ye'y what about you sis? what's the best wedding you have attended so far? :D

ilove090509

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Re: Best Wedding You Have Attended, Seen, or Heard
« Reply #9 on: July 14, 2015, 09:23:34 am »
chili1113, that was one fabulous wedding you attended! :)

for me, it was my best friend's wedding. it felt almost like an elopement, except it was with close family and friends. she didn't have all the trappings weddings today have but it was filled with love and laughter. her ceremony took place at the judge's office and the reception was at a small spanish-style house events place with only 50 guests.

we started the day off, just my best friend and myself, at a salon to get our hair and makeup done. my best friend bought fresh roses from the market that day and the hair stylist used some of them to decorate her hair. i was the P/V so i took photos of her getting ready. we had a laugh because the hair stylist literally filled her hair with roses and not in bunches but dotted roses on her head. when my bestfriend's dad picked us up, he had a big laugh about my bestfriend's hair looking like a vase. we were laughing, tears-in-our-eyes laughing, all the way to the judge's office.

we used the rest of the roses to make my bestfriend's bouquet and we did it in the car. we also joked about how our other friend would whip us for doing such a clumsy job ;D

they didn't have a program for the reception so we decided to surprise my bestfriend by preparing one on the fly. we had an introduction where we related their love story and they came in to the tune of "runaway" :) our friend's husband, who is a choir-member, sang a capella as background music for my best friend and her husband's first dance.

as you can tell, it was a very simple affair but the love of the couple really shined that day. they're still thinking about doing a church wedding :)

SO nice sis, this is the kind of wedding that i want to have. Spontaneous! truly a celebration of love, walang arte =)

120515

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Re: Best Wedding You Have Attended, Seen, or Heard
« Reply #10 on: July 14, 2015, 09:47:23 am »
^ thanks! the judge's message was also very heartfelt and the vows he had my best friend and her husband recite were beautiful. ^

bonzaigirl

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Re: Best Wedding You Have Attended, Seen, or Heard
« Reply #11 on: July 14, 2015, 02:34:23 pm »
It was December of last year, and it was one of my best friend's wedding :). It was held in Lakeshore, Pampanga.  Most of her suppliers were Pampanga-based.  It was actually a simple and yet chic Christian wedding.  The pastor gave a message on two hearts becoming one and being there for one another despite being against all odds :).   What made the wedding wonderful, was despite them having low-mid range suppliers, everything went smoothly. The suppliers came on time.  Everything worke like clockwork. The night before we texted the coordinator that we can't find a sewing kit in SM pampanga, and we can't get hold of the mananahi who did the bridesmaid's dress as the zipper was stuck. They replied to not worry they have it in their emergency kit and this was 12midnight. Morning time, they helped us sew the dress with the bridesmaid in it :)  :)  As in ang galing nung coordination, we didn't have to think.  Their, caterer had so much food we were more than full. Plus as they were doing their dance, nagkaron ng fireworks display. And this was across the lake.  We thought that this was theirs as ang galing n timing, only for the bride to admit that they dod not get any fireworks. hehe.  The reception even felt bitin. As in 3  hours lang nga ata. We felt that the time went by so fast. :)  and most important of all, kita mo talaga that everybody was having a good time.

Chili1113

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Re: Best Wedding You Have Attended, Seen, or Heard
« Reply #12 on: July 14, 2015, 04:12:45 pm »
^wow bonzaigirl!! Thanks for sharing that. I guess it only shows that having a good coordinator is really important noh? Because a wedding will be nice if things run smoothly and is organized. I guess guests will also enjoy more when the couple is relaxed and not stressed, and that happens when you have a good coordinator.

I was watching this show called "Four Weddings" on youtube wherein they have four different brides who attend and score each other's weddings. They have different themes. venues, and budgets. But I really noticed that some wedding super laki ng budget but di naman enjoy the guests, and some very low budget but beautifully done and very lively and crowd. I noticed that the one who usually wins the contest on the show isn't the most expensive wedding, but the most organized wedding with good food!

bonzaigirl

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« Reply #13 on: July 14, 2015, 11:12:44 pm »
Oh sis Chili1113, we've watched that show in netflix :)  When we first started watching it, we got nervous because we were thinking some brides really has big and I mean a big budget for their wedding.  Then we realized as we started our wedding preps, sometimes if you can afford it, you do need to splurge on some things in life but not to the point of bankruptcy. :)  If you've got a job that pays well, you can afford some few luxuries in life, not too much, otherwise it will be crass.   hehe. 

And yes, coordinating teams should not be just good, but great. I think it helps if the bride has got a good team who will not only coordinate with the bride and groom but with the rest of the team like photo/video, caterer, l/s.  That way everything will run like clockwork. :)  In saying this, I've just learned even those who had been in the field for quite some time does get complacent, and it can lead to disaster. So brides should also ante up and make sure to keep their suppliers on their feet. hehe.

edna_mode

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Re: Best Wedding You Have Attended, Seen, or Heard
« Reply #14 on: July 14, 2015, 11:46:20 pm »
Best wedding for me and yung talagang tumatak sa memory ko was the one we attended in australia naman.  It's not a big wedding pero what struck me the most were the guests (and pati nadin yung emcee) ! everyone was soo game and they were really out to celebrate the couple. Nakakatuwa lang :) By the end of the couple's dance, everybody was on the dance floor dancing. Tapos magkakaron lang ng breaks for the traditional cake cutting, speeches and stuff. But everytime, the emcee will tell the guests  to get on the dance floor (even midway palang sa reception) the guests would literally jumped up and dance, even the lolas and the oldies are strutting their stuff on the dancefloor :D When it came to the tossing of the bouquet, all the single girls literally lined up, some even took off their shoes.  Pag throw ng bouquet, nag agawan pa talaga with matching rolling on the dance floor! lol :D That's my dream wedding actually, simple but with everybody having a good time. Even in family gatherings, yun ang naaalala, how fun that wedding was :)

papemelroti

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Re: Best Wedding You Have Attended, Seen, or Heard
« Reply #15 on: July 15, 2015, 02:25:52 pm »
sis chilli, was the wedding you attended had Pat Dy as the photog?

the best wedding I have ever attended is in Rome too but it was a super simple one. Only 5 people, literally elopement style wedding. The vow exchange happened at the temple of Diana, Borghese Garden.


Chili1113

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Re: Best Wedding You Have Attended, Seen, or Heard
« Reply #16 on: July 15, 2015, 05:51:10 pm »
papemelroti: Yes the wedding I attended in Rome had Pat Dy and Jason M. =)

That wedding in Borghese sounds so lovely!! That place is picture perfect.
« Last Edit: July 15, 2015, 08:31:55 pm by Chili1113 »

niru_iiv

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Re: Best Wedding You Have Attended, Seen, or Heard
« Reply #17 on: July 16, 2015, 12:52:12 am »
It was December of last year, and it was one of my best friend's wedding :). It was held in Lakeshore, Pampanga.  Most of her suppliers were Pampanga-based.  It was actually a simple and yet chic Christian wedding.  The pastor gave a message on two hearts becoming one and being there for one another despite being against all odds :).   What made the wedding wonderful, was despite them having low-mid range suppliers, everything went smoothly. The suppliers came on time.  Everything worke like clockwork. The night before we texted the coordinator that we can't find a sewing kit in SM pampanga, and we can't get hold of the mananahi who did the bridesmaid's dress as the zipper was stuck. They replied to not worry they have it in their emergency kit and this was 12midnight. Morning time, they helped us sew the dress with the bridesmaid in it :)  :)  As in ang galing nung coordination, we didn't have to think.  Their, caterer had so much food we were more than full. Plus as they were doing their dance, nagkaron ng fireworks display. And this was across the lake.  We thought that this was theirs as ang galing n timing, only for the bride to admit that they dod not get any fireworks. hehe.  The reception even felt bitin. As in 3  hours lang nga ata. We felt that the time went by so fast. :)  and most important of all, kita mo talaga that everybody was having a good time.

wow their lucky to have a professional coordinator sis :)

niru_iiv

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Re: Best Wedding You Have Attended, Seen, or Heard
« Reply #18 on: July 16, 2015, 12:53:40 am »
^wow bonzaigirl!! Thanks for sharing that. I guess it only shows that having a good coordinator is really important noh? Because a wedding will be nice if things run smoothly and is organized. I guess guests will also enjoy more when the couple is relaxed and not stressed, and that happens when you have a good coordinator.

I was watching this show called "Four Weddings" on youtube wherein they have four different brides who attend and score each other's weddings. They have different themes. venues, and budgets. But I really noticed that some wedding super laki ng budget but di naman enjoy the guests, and some very low budget but beautifully done and very lively and crowd. I noticed that the one who usually wins the contest on the show isn't the most expensive wedding, but the most organized wedding with good food!

exactly sis it's all about taking care of your guests and make sure that everything falls into place :)

niru_iiv

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Re: Best Wedding You Have Attended, Seen, or Heard
« Reply #19 on: July 16, 2015, 12:56:30 am »
Oh sis Chili1113, we've watched that show in netflix :)  When we first started watching it, we got nervous because we were thinking some brides really has big and I mean a big budget for their wedding.  Then we realized as we started our wedding preps, sometimes if you can afford it, you do need to splurge on some things in life but not to the point of bankruptcy. :)  If you've got a job that pays well, you can afford some few luxuries in life, not too much, otherwise it will be crass.   hehe. 

And yes, coordinating teams should not be just good, but great. I think it helps if the bride has got a good team who will not only coordinate with the bride and groom but with the rest of the team like photo/video, caterer, l/s.  That way everything will run like clockwork. :)  In saying this, I've just learned even those who had been in the field for quite some time does get complacent, and it can lead to disaster. So brides should also ante up and make sure to keep their suppliers on their feet. hehe.

i agree with you sis i hope i wont be one of the bridezillas though lolz

 

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