Girltalker2, I guess it's just really a matter of balance? Which is very hard to do hehe
Your BF is amazing 
And that girl is so ridiculous! Grabe talaga mga ibang tao walang delicadeza.
Actually the girl with the pulvuron, naka ilan invites pa sa gathering, etc Never sya pumunta. Worse, when he moved jobs, nitrace pa talaga ng girl yung new company nya, googled the trunk line and looked for him! And sabi nya that's the last straw, so sinabi nya sa girl "I will report you to the authorities for harassment if you don't stop following me"
Yung officemate who offered him a ride, she is a relatively new colleague ba? O matagal na sila magkakilala? On the way naman ba? My husband didn't think there's anything wrong with nakikisabay. How did you explain to your BF how this feels wrong for you?
Magka officemate na sila before pa kami magkakilala. The thing is may gusto yung girl sa kanya dati. Dati kasi never naman nag make ng advances yung girl. But one of their officemates (friend ni girl) told him to invite the girl out because the girl likes him. During this time my BF was single and available. Tapos pag gimik or lunch lagi sasama bigla yung girl if he is present tapos kapag di sya sasama kasi alam nya pupunta yung girl, malalaman nya nalang the ff day na di nagpunta yung girl.
Anyway, my BF didn't entertain the idea of dating this girl kasi sabi nya what if di nya magustuhan, nakakahiya naman na huminde at araw araw nagkikita sa office. So nung sinabi nya sa nagrereto sa kanila na he is not interested to date the girl, the girl just didn't pursue narin.
So fast forward, then it came to us nanga dating time, tapos naging kami. We were like 4 months into the relationship, when the girl gave him a ride, from his house to his soccer game kasi he had to bring the goal post or something which is kinda big. Kako sana nag taxi nalang sya. Kaya ako agad nagflare up.
But nagets naman nya agad why I don't like it at walang alinlangan on my side to let him know, no need to explain lengthily from my side at di ko need pa mag argue. Naisip ko it was only once di naman nga regular. And sa office kasi he was looking for someone pupunta sa area ng game nya when other officemates announced in their chat group sino pupunta ng (name ng place) kasi naghahanap si X ng way there. Kaya yung girl mismo nagsabi na puede sya maghatid, sa chat group. So yun. Puedeng coincidence or whatever basta ayaw ko.
I think we have the same values kahit papano. We don't think it is cool mang akbay or magpaakbay unless mom/dad/siblings/kids mo maliban sa asawa or BF/GF. Or getting too close through chatting or making kwento etc. He has an FB pero di active, I only opened my FB account last year (napilitan pa) because I need to have copies of my barkada' photos eh ayaw ako sendan through email haha.
Anyway I read din dito sa GT one time when a girl holds the arm of her officemate pag tatawid ng kalsada for lunch. I find it foul din.
Other examples, traveling. Kung single ka, kahit sino at ilan kasama mo okay lang. But if you're into a relationship, hindi sya puede sumama especially kung 2 lang sila kahit pa hiwalay rooms, maliban nalang kung business trip. One time yung officemates ng BF ko 3 girls inviting him to join them on a trip (di dito kasama yung girl na nakwento ko earlier). He immediately said no, kasi he doesn't like to go talaga. Pero on the phone, he told me he is going (niloloko nyako). My heart sank and I was ready to raise my alert system na naman. Then he came out laughing telling me he got me this time and he would never ever do such a thing.
By the way my BF is not Pinoy, si pulvuron girl is Pinoy, the othe girl officemate who is decent enough not to make bold advances is not Pinoy too.
