Why do women cheat? (why, what's your insight? are you one of em? why?)

[littlekinselle]

here's my reasons my do woman cheat?.

1. Not satisfied sa sexlife.
2. Na fall-out love, yun nga sa malaim na dahilan ng isang babae para manloko.
(pera, di pag kakasundo lagi, gumaganti dahil nanloko si husband and etc..)
3. Taken for granted.( kung mag bf gf pa lang kayo) maghahanap talag ng iba yan.
4. Ikaw na ang kumakarga lahat lahat, kasi si husband mo walang work may bisyo pa, samahan mo pa ng di magandang pag uugali.
5. Wlang time sa pamilya si husband.
6. Hndi sinusuportahan ang bawat isa sa anumang bagay.


vice versa lang.

[ms_jazzy]

...dahil napagod na 

[yannuh]

kapag iresponsible ang husband nyo at kapag nagcheat. Pero never ko to gagawin kasi ayaw ko ding gawin nya e.

[junetwentythree]

I'm detecting a bit of double standard here.

How about the possibility that they cheat cuz they can be assholes, just like men can be? It's possible that they cheat because they can. It's possible that they cheat because they want to. Let's not make excuses for these type of women.

All cheaters are assholes.

[Ireneeeeee]

^agree. I have a friend before na inunfriend na namin dahil sa kakacheat nya for no reason. Hindi na healthy kasi pati kaming friends nya gusto nya magsinungaling and gumawa ng kwento for her para mapagtakpan ang mga cheating ways nya.

Masyado kasi sya sigurista parang mauubusan ng lalaki and nun gusto na nya mag- asawa she chose the rich guy kaysa dun sa matagal na nya kalive- in na simultaneous kacheat with the rich guy...and other guys pa! How horrible! We realized she's a compulsive liar pati kaming friends nya na pinagsisinungalingan na nya. Parang may mental sickness lang.

[FayeP]

I have this long time friend (kasama sa choir) na married to another choirmate, but one day (this happened last year) nakita ko siya sa MRT North station na sweet with this guy na di ko kilala. Nagtago ako kasi natakot ako na baka makita niya ako, diba ako pa ang natakot..

Days later, I confronted her, ito ang mga reason nya: 1) di na siya masaya sa kanila nun asawa niya. 2) pagod na siya magbigay at magparaya sa mga gusto at pangarap ni guy. 3) gusto niya sumaya

ang ending, di siya kuntento kasi sa kun ano meron siya - family kasi may 3 anak sila, stable at mabait na asawa...so I guess that's one main reason sa mga girls or kahit sa mga lalaki na nagchicheat, di kasi makuntento

[imprincessfiona]

^sis FayeP baka na-fall out of love na sa asawa nya. siguro may malalim na dahilan kung bakit nagagawa ng babae na mag-cheat mas nasa nature kasi ng mga lalaki yun pero siguro dahil sa equality na din ng mga lalaki sa babae kaya nagiging talamak na din sa part ng mga babae. Kasi kung iisipin mo may mabait naman pala syang asawa bakit need pa maghanap ng iba. siguro yung pagkukulang ng asawa nya sa ibang lalaki nya nahanap kaya ganun nagkaron ng affair sa iba.

[TomHansen]

I'm detecting a bit of double standard here.

How about the possibility that they cheat cuz they can be assholes, just like men can be? It's possible that they cheat because they can. It's possible that they cheat because they want to. Let's not make excuses for these type of women.

All cheaters are assholes.

Malaking tsek gamit ang pulang ballpen!

Some women hindi lang talaga kuntento sa simpleng buhay, they prefer partners na magbibigay ng lifestyle at financial status na pwede nilang ipagyabang.

[mysterioza_me]

I don't think that there is an acceptable excuse or reason to justify cheating. If you think that your partner is this or that or you just simply fell out love then just let them go instead of doing something behind their back. I agree with one of our sis here that girls cheat simply because they want to and because they can. They just make excuses (or blame everything to their partners) to be guilt-free.

[sensi]

iba iba naman ata reasons of each women who cheats.
yung iba, never naman talaga na inlove sa partner nila.
yung iba, unsatisfied and not feeling loved or cared by their partner.
yung iba naman, gusto lang makipaglaro. tikim tikim lang ng ibang putahe.

[mysterioza_me]

iba iba naman ata reasons of each women who cheats.
yung iba, never naman talaga na inlove sa partner nila.
yung iba, unsatisfied and not feeling loved or cared by their partner.
yung iba naman, gusto lang makipaglaro. tikim tikim lang ng ibang putahe.

Yes, women do have different reasons as to why they cheat but whatever the reasons are, cheating is still cheating. If she fell out of love then let her partner go. If she don't feel loved nor cared for then get out of the relationship. And if she wants to play around then don't get into a relationship.

[sensi]

yeah am not arguing about it, cheating will always be cheating thats true. so if they re not satisfied, then go out of the relationship.easy as that.
but sadly some men and women just cant seem to let go of their partner even if theyr not happy because maybe of the kids. i dont know lang ha, but well sila yun eh. that's the problem of cheaters.

[mysterioza_me]

^Maraming factors if bakit di makahiwalay pagmarried na. Tulad ng sabi mo sis una na diyan ang kids and 2nd matagal at magastos ang annullment process pero kung tutuusin if married ka na kasi di ka naman na talaga dapat magcheat in the first place. Yun nga lang iba na kasi ang panahon na to, instead na i-workout ang relationship, ayawan na agad or hahanapin kakulangan ng partner nila sa iba as if naman perfect sila. Sorry sis if na-offend kita sa comment ko. Peace

[sensi]

^gaya rin ng sabi mo, iba ng panahon ngayon.parang it became "uso" na ang hiwalayan because of hehe...kesa ganon, kesa ganito, etc... but marriage is holy and should be kept holy for the couple alone. maybe sa iba, marriage is just a thing,forgetting the most important value of it..which is very sad to think about.

and nope sis, wasnt offended at all.. was just stating my point of view as well;)

[imprincessfiona]

I think men and women cheat because of their choice not because may pagkukulang si husband o si wife kasi bakit naman yung iba nagtitiis for the sake of their children its because they choose to be a complete family. Life is a choice kaya hindi natin pwede isisi sa ibang tao ang dahilan kung bakit nag-che-cheat. Just my opinion mga sis.

[mysterioza_me]

but marriage is holy and should be kept holy for the couple alone. maybe sa iba, marriage is just a thing,forgetting the most important value of it

Totoo ito sis but some says piece of paper lang ang kasal, baluktot na katwiran talaga mailusot lang ang kamunduhan. Hindi nila naiisip kung ano ang value ng piece of paper na yun.

Yung mga reklamo about husband like being mabisyo and iresponsible for sure magbf/gf pa lang nakita na ni girl yang mga ugali na yan but she chose to ignore it kasi mahal niya at baka magbago pagmarried na sila. Kaso di nagbago, pagganyan tao kasama mo forever talagang magsasawa ka at hahanap ng iba. Pero kasalanan pa din ni girl, may signs na or alam at nakita niya na ganun nagpursige at pinakasalan pa niya.

[sensi]

haha tapos yung iba sabay sabi pa na "d ko sinsasadya" " ikaw naman talaga mahal ko", "i was just tempted" "ayaw ko naman talagang gawin yun" are just mere excuses but the truth is cheating is a choice. always a choice.

[FayeP]

sis sensi, totoo yan, choice talaga yan, kasi ang temptation lagi na yan andyan, given na yan, so nasa tao na yan kun papatulan nya un mga temptation...

[sensi]

@ sis fayeP , yup it really depends na talaga sa tao... if gusto talaga nilang patulan yun, then papatulan nila thinking makakalusot lang sila ng ganon ganon lang...

[mysterioza_me]

Sa true lang, hindi tukso ang dapat na lumayo sa tao. Ang tao ang dapat na lumayo sa tukso.