Why do women cheat? (why, what's your insight? are you one of em? why?)

[pikapika2501]

Good day Mga Ka-Sis and ladies na rin

I have a question for all of us. If we have been cheated, for instance bakit naman tong mga girls:
1. na may asawa chinicheat tayo?
2. na walang asawa, bat pumatol sa mister natin na may asawa (lalo pag may anak na ang pamilyang sisirain nila)?
3. kahit mag bf and gf pa lang. bakit tong si girl, hindi na lang maghanap ng iba?

Exception dito ang bayarang girl because the answer is simple, its money.

Kung kayo ay nakapangloko na. or nagloko minsan. bakit? please share your answer please. else, bakit nga ba, ano analysis nyo?

[Pink_Sugar]

If kiri si girl tapos may physical attraction sa iba then willing naman si other guy na maka-score, eh di go na sila pag chi-cheat tapos pag sawa na balik na ulit sa legal bf.

[j.adore]

1. Nainlove na sila bago pa malaman na may iba na pala yung guy. Tapos masyado daw matindi yung feelings ok lang sa kanila maging other woman. Tipong, kahit mali kahit hindi buong kanila yung lalaki, ok lang kesa wala.

2. Feeding their insecurity pwedeng iniisip na wala nang ibang magmamahal sa kanila like the guy who's taken (at dahil marunong na magmahal ang taken na lalaki)

3. Excitement and thrill, curiosity and lust - need to scratch an itch and found someone who does it well

4. Nakita nila ang ideal man nila. Mahirap kasi mahanap yun so gora na kahit may GF/asawa/pamilya.

5. Money, gifts, expensive dates?

6. Envy - I think this usually happens pag partner ng kaibigan yung gusto kasi close na din sila at aware sila na ok magmahal. There's so much stories na ang third party ay best friend pa nung isa.

[ohcmon]

Because, like men, some women are just born assh0les.

[aquacharly]

^ true, very.

Other reasons:

1.  Power trip:  type kumabit sa may power/high position in a corporation, govt or ano man

2.  Mal1bog si gaaaga

3.  May Pera si married man to spoil her with gifts, cash, trips, etc

4.  For the reason Connie Reyes ex-Mumar stole her BFF Dina Bonnevie's husband away from her (this was duly documented in newspapers & magazines thru Dina's interviews per my tita.  Connie was 1 of her BFFs too, until sumabog yung interview ni Dina -- naging ex friend si Connie. Hahaha).  Ano yon? Inggit?  Or dark challenge?

5.  Tamad, bobita --  won't make her own way in this world. So parasitic ang approach

6.  Low self esteem --  so Kahit may sabit, go kasi Sino ba se-seryoso sa kanya?

Still,
Bottom-line, if a husband cheats -- it's his fault, it's his choice. 

[joycefler]

#1. Selfishness. If you think about it... makakakita ka ng lalakeng sobrang bagay kayo... kaso may asawa. Attractive ang lalakeng mabuting asawa. So kung may mabuti kang asawa, naaamoy yan ng mga babae, haha! Gusto ka rin nya. Kung selfish ka, you will pursue that. you will not think about the family of the guy... you will only think about your own desires and needs. You won't care what will happen to the family or even what will happen to the GUY. Pagnagsama kayo, ang laki ng pagdadaanang problema ng lalakeng yun. Wala kang pakielam don basta makuha mo yung gusto mo.

#2. You are not happy with your own situation. human nature... lalo na sa babae to want to be happy at all cost. Kung hindi ka nagiisip na tao, talagang you will go for it kahit may asawa sya o asawa ka.

#3. You think what they don't know won't hurt them. Eto naman para sa mga babaeng walang asawa pero pumapatol sa may asawa at ok lang na sex lang. O kahit may asawa pero sexual relationship lang. UNTIL it happens to you. Pagnagkasawa ka tapos ginawa sayo yung dati mong ginagawa... eh sorry. Justice ang tawag don.

[baby_chichay]

most women cheat, whether kasal or hindi, because of loneliness. they are mostly unhappy in their present relationships, kaya naghahanap or di sinasadyang makatagpo ng ibang guy na somehow magpupuno ng kung anong missing or kulang sa relationship nila sa bf or asawa nila.

madalas women cheat dahil they feel alone and disconnected or taken for granted in their relationships, or nawala na yung spark, could be either physical or emotional or both. attention, affection, romance, gifts.. things na madalas nawawala unti-unti sa mga long-term relationships. pag nakatagpo ng lalakeng willing magbigay ng mga yan, despite the odds, go na lang nang go.

madaming motivations actually why women cheat pero i think lahat ng babaeng taksil, or kabit, yan ang numero unong dahilan, na may lalaking ready mag-fill ng emotional void meron sila

next na lang siguro yung revenge, mga ibang babae nanlalake dahil babaero ang asawa or bf nila kaya naiisip gumanti, a taste of his own medicine. yung iba naman out of boredom naghahanap ng emotional or even sexual thrill kumbaga masubukan lang. and for a few siguro talagang sex addict na hindi mapakali pag isa lang.

[izabelle]

sarado isip ko sa ganitong bagay, so isa lang sagot ko, Makapal ang mukha kaya sila ganon  haha!

Regardless of the reason, the fact na alam mong in a relationship ang isang tao lalo na at married pa, pero papatulan mo pa din, hay nako, babae ka man or lalaki, sadyang marmol ang face! lol


Pero i truly believe in Karma. I know girls na naging 3rd party sila in spite of the fact na they know na committed na yung guy, grabe balik ng karma sa kanila.

[imprincessfiona]

This is the story of my friend. Na in-love na si girl ng bongga bago nya nalaman na may pamilya na ang guy pero nung una sinabi ng guy sa girl na may asawa na sya pero HIWALAY. Because the girl was blinded by love, she continue the relationship with him. Hindi lang financial security ang naibigay ni guy sa girl kungdi pati emotional and sexual. It lasted for almost 4 years at nag-hope talaga si girl na maibibigay ni guy yung hinihiling nya na kasal but it never did. Napagod na si girl kahihintay sa so called promise ni guy. Nagkaron ng realization si girl na maybe that their relationship is not meant to be until the time comes the girl met her future husband. Now, the girl is happily married but no kids yet. My friend confesses to me and said that her ex-bf was her one great love. Talagang sa guy na yun nya naramdaman yung totoong pagmamahal. Mas pinili na lang nya na lumayo sa guy kasi yun ang tama and she really wanted na mabuo ulit yung family nung guy.If she were to live again, she will still love the ex bf sabi nya. What is your take on this story mga sis?

[Obachan]

^im happy for your friend 
brave girl.
kahit mahal nya un ex, ginawa pa rin nya ang dapat at tama.

[Girltalker2]

^ and ^^ ya, good na humiwalay ang friend mo sa may asawa.

But I feel sorry for her current hubby. Di dapat sya nagpakasal if she thinks that her ex is that one great love. Bakit nya kelangan ng love life if she is not yet over her ex. Nandamay pa.

[Janelc]

Some women love to compete, you want what you can't have.

[mooncake and leaves]

Sex. You like the stability of a real relationship but you still want to sleep with other people. Or you're just not sexually satisfied with your partner.

[supermom18]

for my own POV ladies...

a man cheats because it's their nature, madali sila matukso (swerte mo if you have one na endangered species na  ) they can cheat anytime!! Mahal nila si wife, it's true pero kaya nila mag cheat na ikaw lang ang mahal, mainly for s3x lang.
but if a woman cheats, ibang level na yan.. matagal pinag isipan, matagal na pinaglabanan, matagal na nagtimpi.. maybe may nakapag trigger lang kaya nagawa.. ang mga babae kasi natural na stick to one, we value marriage.. maybe merong malalim na dahilan, nasaktan ng paulit ulit, hindi pinahalagahan, hindi ni respeto, ganun..

[josebeth]

sometimes they're not really contented on how things going on. one of the reason also is lack of communications. mostly the long distance relationship hindi natin maiiwasan na yung partner natin mag hanap din ng pansamantalang aliw or what so called.

[mylene628]

mostly na nag cheat na married women is na inlove na sa other men. Hinde na lang siguro maiwan ang husband nila for some reasons. Although mali pa rin na mag cheat sila kaya lang minsan pag love na pumasok satin nawawala na tayo sa sarili natin minsan hinde na ginagamit ang utak

[ramamads]

nagsawa na kasi ako sa kakatrabaho ng ako lang. ikaw ba naman sa 9 years nyong pagsasama hindi manlang sya nagtrabaho. may gana pa magbisyo. kahit pa sabihin na mabait sya at never ako nakatikim ng pananakit. pero happily married na ako ngayon (di pala kami kasal ng ex ko kasi di manlang ako inaya).

[sarah012]

they are not contented on what they have. minsan naman tayong mga girls ang may pag kukulang kaya hinahanap nila sa iba.

[ms_jazzy]

Cheating is never a black and white issue, regardless kung boy or gurl yung nagcheat.  It could always happen, you meet someone unexpectedly, hindi sinasadya, you feel so right for each other, but the timing is not right, you're both committed na.  How do you give up on something that feels so right and makes you feel so happy. Selfish thought pero it's not everyday that you meet one great love, how do you let it just pass you by. #EmotionalCheater

[sassy.girl]

but if a woman cheats, ibang level na yan.. matagal pinag isipan, matagal na pinaglabanan, matagal na nagtimpi.. maybe may nakapag trigger lang kaya nagawa.. ang mga babae kasi natural na stick to one, we value marriage.. maybe merong malalim na dahilan, nasaktan ng paulit ulit, hindi pinahalagahan, hindi ni respeto, ganun..

Tama supermom18. These are exactly the reasons why I'm likely to cheat.