Is it true na pag matagal kaung hinde nag sex ng hubby mo it means may babae sya

[pasaway08]

Hi New lang ako here. Curious lang ako or paranoid??? Kaze parang matagal tagal ng [textspeak!] kmi ng sex ni hubby pero parang ok lang naman sa kanya. Medyo ok lang din sakin kaso bigla lang ako napaisip na baka may iba sya kaya ganun?

[quinone]

for me, hindi. minsan kapag busy ang isip, like with work, malayo rin ang isip nila sa sex. pwede rin naman kasi na may iba silang outlet like sports or a hobby.

[chicafabulosa]

Not really sis. Sometimes kasi pagod na sila from work or they are busy doing other things like ipad, playing computer, sports etc. magtaka ka kung wala ng sex and wee hours na sya uuwi. But if nasa oras naman uwi nya, weekends and holidays magkasama kayo nothing to worry sis. Baka pagod lang sya.

[Girltalker2]

How long is long? Months? Years?

Other reasons - he is gay or he has just lost interest in you or in sex altogether.

[lovely_carrot]

I have a few questions sis, no need to answer it here..

Gano na ba katagal na 'wala'? Subjective kasi yung matagal. You should also consider yung pattern ng s3x life nyo like for me before, in a week 3-4 times depende sa schedule namin ng partner ko. Pero mababa na yung 2 times. So if in one week wala kaming jekjek matagal na sa akin yun.
Anong age bracket nyo magasawa? Factor din yung age. Syempre if younger asahan mo na mas madalas at walang tanggi tanggi. Minsan nga kahit red tide di ba.
Does he have new hobbies/sports? Its true na pag sobrang pagod, waley talagang loving loving.
May recent promotion ba sya that he needs to put in longer hours at work?
Did you notice any drastic changes sa behavior ng asawa mo?
Naexp mo na bang yayain sya and yet umayaw?
Baka naman may nararamdamang sakit or experiencing dysfunction?

Honestly sis ikaw lang naman talaga ang makakaalam kung meron bang babae o wala yung husband mo. You can and you will sense it naman if meron nga.

you should talk to him about it. Marami kang makukuhang opinyon dito but at the end of the day, only you can decide/determine.

Good luck sis

[princessrio]

hindi naman. dami factors kung bakit hindi madalas magsex ang mag-asawa. age, schedule, strength, hormone. lots of things to consider. saka hindi lang naman sex ang sign ng pambababae. minsan nga, kahit nagsesex ang mag asawa, may on the side pa ang lalake e or ang babae (kung sino man ang philanderer). hehe..

[alpha29delta]

@TS, hindi naman laging ganun. Pwede din factor yung stress, illness etc. Kausapin mo muna baka kasi mamaya may problema lang pala siya na mabigat kaya ganun.

[maiandra]

For me, yes. Tried and tested. I even thought meron something medically wrong with him and asked him to go to the doctor, pero b******t lang pala yun. If he's rejecting your advances, most likely yes.

[Pink_Sugar]

sa 12 years naming dipa naman nagkusa o mag hinde ang husband ko, kahit may lagnat, go pa rin. LOL

[mikaelavhan]

depende kung gaano katagal .months ba or years?
kami kasi minsan 1 week wala due to stress /workload ni hubby.

[aquacharly]

Most probably, yes.

Any noticeable change not favorable to you is usually a signal a husband is effing around.
Like, extra effort sa grooming, styling or pananamit.   
Change in schedules, or blocks of time he can't explain. Or biglang OT ng OT or out-of-town trips for work
Yung kulang na lang  kabitan ng security guard his cellphone para hindi mo mahawakan
Change in spending habits -- hindi na ganon kalaki ang give to you/save
Yung itago sa yo ang credit card statements
Yang iba ang amoy nya pag uwi
Change in appetite or eating habits
And, yang less sex with you -- unless he developed HBPressure or just had a stroke


Eto share ko sa inyo, OT medj
As told to me first hand by a male philandering BFF:
   The hard part when he has a kab1tch is:  he eats dinner twice.
   Kain with kab1tch tapos kelangan eat what his wife preps for him
   Bundat na bund at daw sya, but he ate a 2nd dinner always

Tama sya.  When my husband had a kab1tch -- there were days he would come home early but say hindi sya gutom
When I found out later and the pieces fit together -- ayon, kasi early dinner sila ni *censored*. 
That was a change I chose to ignore & deny for some time. 

[joycefler]

Ikaw kase maginitiate. Minsan they like that. Get yourself ready for him. Do it on a day na hindi sya masyadong pagod. Give him the best performance... kung may babae man sya, nothing beats the familiar with a little added spice. Pay attention din.

[prettydefined]

Case to case basis siguro sis. Sakin hindi naman. Kase minsan pagod sa mag-hapon na trabaho.
Pwede kayo mag-usap sis and tell him what you feel. Para gumaan pakiramdam mo. 

[jsoberano]

HINDI.

isa lang yun sa mga signs pero hindi ibig sabihin ay may babae na sila.  like hubby magaling siya magcontrol. kapag pagod or hindi siya focus ayaw niya.  sabi nga niya lagi there's a time for everything.

[sildusoleil]

Walang basehan ito. There are lots of reasons why you and your hubby have not done it for a long time.

Could be that:

1. He doesn't find you attractive anymore. Reality hurts. Or ikaw yung hindi na attracted sa kanya.
2. He is REALLY BUSY with work. Or baka ikaw yung busy.
3. You have ZERO EFFORT of making your sex life active. Maybe just feels you're a blow-up doll doing nothing, just lying there and be a piece of meat whenever he do it with you. He don't find it satisfying anymore. Kahit ako yung lalaki hindi ako gaganahan sa ganyan. Haha.

[harley18]

100% sure ako na walang kabit ang asawa ko. Pero ang sex life namin average of 2x a month. Pinagawayan na namin to a lot of times kasi minsan ako na nagiinitiate tinatanggihan pa ko. Masakit to para sakin kasi I feel unwanted and deprived sa ganun. So inamin nya na mababa talaga sex drive nya, siguro dahil sa stress.. Haay. Pano kaya dapat kong gawin?

[harley18]

^ Nagvacation na kami.. all out performance na ko! Magiging ok sya in 2 weeks then back to zero. Ang mahal naman ng out of town lagi.. Actually out of the country pa nga kami. I'm thinking ibili na sya ng mga vitamins like yun sa commercial na Revicon Maxvit.. Umubra kaya ito? Haay.

[j.adore]

Ganun ba husband mo from the start?

How about magsuot ng sexy? Maghubad kung kayo lang 2? Do the things he wants to get him in the mood? Ayaw pa din ba?

[harley18]

Nun BF/GF days lagi pa ngang round 2. I miss those days.

Sometimes sina-suggest nya na mag lingerie ako.. pero hindi ba excuse lang to para ma-delay? Kasi alam nyang I'm not the type na nagsusuot ng ganto.. Sometimes sasabihin nya gusto nya sa umaga.. another lame excuse kasi wala naman time sa umaga at gising na mga tao samin. Sometimes as in nakapatong na ako ha.. he can still manage to turn me down. It hurts. Aminado naman sya na may problema sya sa libido nya, how can I help?

BTW, I am confident that I still look attractive.

Mejo OT, pero survey lang din.. gano kadalas kayo in a week?

[j.adore]

Dati weekends but lately almost daily sometimes twice a day (morning and night)

Try mo na din lingerie Kayo lang naman at nakakasexy feeling din.
Yung sa morning, pwede ba gising kayo mas maaga sa iba?

BTW, ano reason ng lower libido?