I get her need to share her revenge projects. It's educational to some, and entertaining to most who follow her thread.
Easy to empathize: A betrayed woman in that mode is just bouncing back from a low level when she was made to feel worthless -- basta ipina-isang tabi ka na lang.
It feels gooood to be proactive again, instead of crying silently & just hoping things get better.
It feels gooood to be in control of something. Well, Revenge really does feel good. Hahaha
Now, Shaming all these playing-footsies-with-a-married-man women may feel like the right thing to do. Yeah.
BUT it isn't the BEST thing for a woman saddled with a serial philanderer.
That may be the ice that breaks the heartbreaks, or snaps the wife out of helplessness.
But it is only a temporary distraction. Ok, let's say it's The 1st Crucial Small Step to better things, Sige, sure.
As the others astutely pointed out: those women are just symptoms, the disease is the serial philanderer.
And, until a wife can say straight to her serial philanderer's face: Kadirz ka, you make my skin crawl. Go eff around like a dog. I don't give a sh1t. Go, now, so I can have a beautiful life -- something like that, in better words, hahaha ---of course, the wife should say that with full conviction, with no anger. Coz when there is no more anger, it is just a statement of facts, & well, a tired heart that Accepts facts moves on.
So there, The Best thing is to really find your way to Your Beautiful Life.
Pero nga, kung the definition of A Beautiful Life includes a serial philanderer who serves repeat heartbreaks on a silver plate -- na okay Lang monkey business left and right basta inuwian pa kahit pano -- well, who are we to judge??? Wala nga basagan ng trip. Only you can define how much you can pray, suffer & hope. Only you can define what your happiness is.
