Problems you encounter while preparing for your wedding (Part 7)

[120515]

^ my husband's older brothers will carry them ^

[fluffyfluff]

Ask ko lang mga sis, meron na kaming flower girls, yung 2 pamangkin ko na babae pero wala kaming kilala na pwede mag bearer since wala kaming kilala na bata na lalake. Pwede ba friends ko nalang mag bearer? haha mga asa mid 20s na sila? or pag ganun dapat ang flower girls ko matanda din para consistent?
Alam ko medyo weird question sya, pero I'm really concerned about it.

[j.adore]

Usually either the common entourage na bata FG and bearers or adult entourage. Haven't seen halo pero kung yun talaga close niyo why not? Separate naman sila mag march di ba.

[juwie]

^ agree with j.adore. it's really no big deal if you get kids or adults to be bearers or even FGs. Best to check though, with the Priest and Parish if ok sa kanila what you have in mind. ☺

[imprincessfiona]

Ask ko lang mga sis, meron na kaming flower girls, yung 2 pamangkin ko na babae pero wala kaming kilala na pwede mag bearer since wala kaming kilala na bata na lalake. Pwede ba friends ko nalang mag bearer? haha mga asa mid 20s na sila? or pag ganun dapat ang flower girls ko matanda din para consistent?
Alam ko medyo weird question sya, pero I'm really concerned about it.

^yung ibang sis natin dito yung groomsmen ang ginawang bearers sis.

[f878]

wow! just a few more days, f878! don't worry! everything will fall into place

thanks sis 120515! i hope and pray talaga that it will.

nakabili na si mother ng gown sa baclaran last week kaso di ko masyado bet so i bought her another one nung nag-divi kame this weekend (pagoda haggardo versoza mag-divi!) and she liked it better naman. in fairness marami din talagang ok sa divi na pang-ento gown ha. tyaga-tyaga lang sa paghahanap.

this weekend na ang wedding! i've been plagued by migraines since last week so medyo mahirap mag-isip at maghanda for preps (maybe it wasn't a good idea to donate blood 2 weeks before the wedding. lol) so for all the other sisses here, don't forget to eat healthy and take supplements as needed. mahirap magkasakit during preps and lalo na kung sa wedding!

also, please help me pray sisses for good weather this saturday. i'd really really appreciate it.
happy preps to everyone!

[kisses1417]

I know malayo pa ang december, pero pag nakikita ko ang posts ng suppliers ko online, usually magaganda naman, lagi ako nagninightmare. Na si stylist, sobrang wala ginawa sa decorations sobrang bare daw. Sinabi ko kay host, tapos ang host, naka tsinelas daw while i specifically instructed to wear formal. Omg. Actually im super relax and no bridezill here, but i am completely the opposite when im asleep. What to do, what to do? Anxiety ba to? Im about to buy the cloth na for my bridemaids and surely i cant please everybody. Ang daming comments, hindi kasi traditional color ang gusto ko, not dark, not light, more on muted color. Ang lungkot daw ng color na gusto ko. Wahhhhh

[juwie]

Sis f878, ang kulit nakapag donate ka pa ng blood! Haha! Bilib din ako sayo sis parang andami mong energy, haha 😊 let's claim the good weather on Sat! ☺ will pray sis.

Sis yannuh yan ang medyo mahirap. Hindi mo ba sya pwede mapag bigyan? Or did you and this friend sort of fell apart kaya you're uncomfy to have him there?

Sis kisses why not try going thru your wedding list/wedding plans/wedding files again? Baka it will help with the nightmares to have some sort of confirmation that everything is still on track ☺

[belle_v2g]

Natuwa ako sa blood donation sis f878! What a noble act before the wedding ha! saturday will have a lovely weather don't worry

[120515]

f878, we will all pray for a sunshiny day on saturday! it's so near! how exciting! 

[bonzaigirl]

Naku dapat relax ka na sis f878. hope done na lahat sa checklist mo. We'll pray you'll have good weather all throughout the day this weekend for your wedding then Post pics ah hehe

[mamey]

Hi sis kisses1417 ako din parang may time na 3 times a week ako nag kaka wedding nightmare. I think kapag mashado ko iniisip yung wedding ko dun ako nag kaka nightmare. haha

[belle_v2g]

Maybe stressed lang kayo sis. Take plenty of rests.

Hubby ko nagka nightmare after na ng wedding. What happened: 12nn daw ang wedding, 7pm na dipa ako dumadating. Naguwian na daw mga bisita at yung iba kino console nalang sya haha. Weird no. Twice na nga kami kinasal pati sya nagka nightmare pa. Maybe isa yun sa fears nya subconsciously.

[rightback]

sis f878 i think its pamper time na for you since you have a few days to go. and eat healthy na rin sis para makarecover dun blood donation. praying for excellent happy weather for you this weekend!

[ece]

sis f878, kain ka balot.  and take a lot of sleep. pag may chance, sleep agad! hehe..

[kisses1417]

Thanks mga sis! Malamang nga subconscious ko to na gusto maging maayos lahat. Iaayos ko na nga din mga nadown ko na suppliers at icheck ang checklist, medyo disorganized kasi ako minsan ☺️

[f878]

thanks sisses juwie, belle_v2g, 120515, bonzaigirl and rightback!
nakakataba ng puso at nakakagaan ng loob ang support nyo.
thanks so much for sending good vibes my way!

gusto ko kase talaga mag-donate ng blood. halos 2 years na kong dine-deny kase mababa ang bp ko eh nakapasa ako sa screening nung 18 kaya tinuloy ko na kahit alam ko medyo risky. may katigasan lang talaga ang ulo ko. hehe

naku sis ece. sabaw lang ang gusto ko sa balot! pwede na ba yun? haha! thanks sis ha? i really try to get a lot of sleep pero di talaga maalis sa isip ko yung wedding checklist kaya napupuyat tuloy. 

sis kisses1417 it's common for brides (and even grooms!) na magka-wedding nightmares kaya di nag-iisa. there was a time na nanaginip ako na kulang-kulang yun suppliers na dumating at paggising ko sobrang sikip ng dibdib ko sa galit! haha! run through your checklist regularly na lang para mapanatag ang isip mo.

and don't worry about people who make comments about your motif. kung ikakasaya mo yung kulay na yun, then go for it! ilang beses na ko nasabihan ng mga matanda na "pang-patay" ang motif namin (b&w kase) pero dedmakels na lang kase yun talaga gusto ko eh. hehe

[kisses1417]

Hahaha @f878, thanks sis. Oo nga e dedma na ako. Mine naman is blue grey. So ang dilim daw. Kulay ewan like that. E sympre cloth pa lang yung nakikita, medyo may iba kasi ako bridesmaids na chubby so gusto ko medyo mahide ang flabs. And i think ang elegant ng kulay, for me ha. So ayun comment nonstop sila.

Goodluck on your wedding sis for sure you will be beautiful this weekend 😍

[rightback]

sis kisses1417 we have the same color motiff! and yes deadma lang ako sa kanila bakit dark daw and then pastel yung iba etc etc...e gusto ko yun e hihi and for us naman secondary sponsors yung may ka chubbyhan, natuwa kaya yung isa sa color para di daw masyado pressure mag diet.

can't wait to see yung posts ni roxy f878 with you in your dress!

[kateguerzon08]

ako din naka-2 wedding nightmare na, yun una mismong wedding event namen, then sunod kanina lang about naman sa prenup, nakakaloka hehe..

sis f878, beauty rest ka na dapat for your big day, we'll pray for a good weather