Problems you encounter while preparing for your wedding (Part 7)

[bonzaigirl]

Hi mga sis eto na po yung new thread   Dito po tayo galing:

http://www.femalenetwork.com/girltalk/index.php/topic,288602.580.html

[Maxim04]

Thanks for this sis! hehe. Part 7 na tayo! 
Good morning everyone!

[juwie]

Marami ba tayong problems at mabilis na-lock yung part 6? Hehe.. sana di na ko mag contribute ng topic for part 7 :p hahaha

[bzbee]

wow Part 7 na! i guess we have that much problem talaga but its nice because we can all talk about it here

i have a little rant: one of our flower girls has a spoiled little sister who is not a flower girl. their stage mother asked if we can also provide a gown for the younger sister din para daw hindi mainggit. edi wow. lol i know its just a small thing pero nakakafrustrate lang. we're trying our best na nga to save on cost tapos may mga ganito pa. hindi na nga nakakatulong, dumadagdag pa sa stress. i just told her we'll try but we can't promise anything. gusto ko na tuloy tanggalin sa entourage pati the older sister.

[bonzaigirl]

Hahahaha...   or pwedi rin sis eh kaya umaabot ng Part 7 eh ibig sabihin grabe talaga ang stress ng wedding preparations hehe.

Naku sis bzbee, nakaasar nga yung ganyan.  Pwedi mo din sabihin na if they really want their other daughter to have a gown, ask them na lang, if they are willing to pay for it.  Para hindi na yun dagdag sa gastos nyo.  Just tell them in  a joking manner na budget kayo yada yada.

[edna_mode]

ako naman update lang with the bratinella tita-in-laws... wala pa din silang tigil sa kaka comment about our wedding

- Pinagdadamot daw namin yung wedding - hindi kase sila maka imbita ng mga gusto nilang imbitahin

- Bakit daw kase sa tagaytay pa ang napiling venue, samantalang ang daming venues daw sa maynila na "patag" naman ang daan. -- ayaw kase nila ng may dadaanang mga cliffs at high roads.

- Ayaw nilang pasukatan yung isang pamangkin nila na Jr. bridesmaid ko. Gusto nila 1 month before the wedding gawin. Finally nagawa naming pasukatan despite their protests. Ngayon naman dine-delay nila yung fittings. Pina rush nila gawin yung sa jr. bridesmaid after masukatan, tapos nung malapit na date ng fitting (which was arranged based on their available dates) nag cancel nanaman. Hindi pa daw alam kung kelan ang next available date nila. Reason for cancelling: May training daw na a-attenan yung mother ng jr. bridesmaid...yeah on a Sunday.

- Tinatanong sila ng future MIL ko kung kelan sila papagawa ng damit kase sasabay dapat ang MIL ko sa kanila.  Hindi pa daw nila alam kase hindi pa daw sila naghahanap ng modista. MIL ended up asking us to help her with her gown.


wooohooo saya! tinatawanan na lang namin ni fiance 

[edna_mode]

sis bzbee tama lang yang sinabi mo "We'll try but we can't promise anything" line almost always works I have friends naman who are volunteering their little girls as flower girls. I politely decline na lang din and tell them that we already have flower girls

[bzbee]

you're right sis bonzaigirl! the next time i see them sabihin ko sila na lang magbayad both gowns para manahimik. hahaha

sis edna_mode, nakakainis yung ganyan na maraming comment pero wala namang tinutulong. may masabi lang. lol. bakit naman ayaw nila magpasukat? nagpapayat pa ba?

[juwie]

edna_mode, bigyan ng engagement rings ang mga Tita na yan! Talo pa ang bridezilla kung maka attitude. Hahaha buti wala akong Tita na ganyan

[ig0rota]

ako naman update lang with the bratinella tita-in-laws... wala pa din silang tigil sa kaka comment about our wedding

- Pinagdadamot daw namin yung wedding - hindi kase sila maka imbita ng mga gusto nilang imbitahin

- Bakit daw kase sa tagaytay pa ang napiling venue, samantalang ang daming venues daw sa maynila na "patag" naman ang daan. -- ayaw kase nila ng may dadaanang mga cliffs at high roads.

- Ayaw nilang pasukatan yung isang pamangkin nila na Jr. bridesmaid ko. Gusto nila 1 month before the wedding gawin. Finally nagawa naming pasukatan despite their protests. Ngayon naman dine-delay nila yung fittings. Pina rush nila gawin yung sa jr. bridesmaid after masukatan, tapos nung malapit na date ng fitting (which was arranged based on their available dates) nag cancel nanaman. Hindi pa daw alam kung kelan ang next available date nila. Reason for cancelling: May training daw na a-attenan yung mother ng jr. bridesmaid...yeah on a Sunday.

- Tinatanong sila ng future MIL ko kung kelan sila papagawa ng damit kase sasabay dapat ang MIL ko sa kanila.  Hindi pa daw nila alam kase hindi pa daw sila naghahanap ng modista. MIL ended up asking us to help her with her gown.


wooohooo saya! tinatawanan na lang namin ni fiance 

naman ang stress level na binibigay nila. buti you can handle them sis. ako feeling ko yung mga tita ko mismo ang magiging brats. haha. goodluck to me...

[blackgreen]

Yang mga tita na yan sila talaga ang numero unang sulsol. Hahahaha

[khalee]

good attitude sis edna_mode. Sarap dedmahin na lang ng mga ganyan. Kasal nila??? Haha. Buti na lang you and fiance were able to laugh at it na lang. Don't mind them sis. as The only thing matters is that you and fiance is happy with your decisions.

Regarding the dress, dagdag stress sila ha! But if everything fails dahil sa mga kaartehan nila, sila naman ang pangit ang isusuot hindi naman ikaw.  Try not to include them nalang sa mga pictures pag nagkaganun. hahaha   

[120515]

i wonder why there are people who comment like it's THEIR wedding...i hope i don't have to face comments like these from my aunts 

although i had one aunt who told me to send an invitation to my grand-aunt, which i was really going to do out of formality (i know my grand-aunt won't be able to come home for our wedding because she's based in the u.s.). this grand-aunt is the matriarch of my father's mother's side of the family. but i was really hurt when my aunt said that i should send an invite to my grand-aunt because my grand-aunt will send us a wedding gift  i told her we aren't asking for gifts from our guests because we already know they'll spend a lot just travelling for the wedding but that i will be sending the invitation to my grand-aunt nonetheless.

my aunt means well and she probably didn't mean to insult us by basically saying that we're only inviting guests for the gifts so i've brushed this aside.

[Maxim04]

i have a little rant: one of our flower girls has a spoiled little sister who is not a flower girl. their stage mother asked if we can also provide a gown for the younger sister din para daw hindi mainggit. edi wow.

^ I did this sis. I omitted one of my flower girls dahil 'paimportante'. actually supposedly i have 5 FG  and those 2 nga are giving me stress. i told them to submit their sukat and after a month na wala pa rin, i just proceed with the making of the 3 girls. nung magsubmit ng sukat yung isa, i told the mum in a nice way na, matagal ng nasa modista yung sukat and ayaw na namin kunin FG yung anak nila. sinabi ko nalang na nakahanap ako ng kapalit  . she said naman pasensya dahil busy daw kaya delayed. (oh well sila lang ang busy.) hahaha! Yung isa naman tinaggal ko rin talaga kasi the MOH was a stress too! pareho silang ayaw magbigay ng sukat. in the end eh sila nalang raw papagawa sabihin ko lang daw yung shade ng tela. eh hello, baka naman stand out yung design nila at iba ang kulay sa iba? Kaloka ano sarili lang inisip, hindi nila kinonsider na kaya nga magpapatahi ang BUONG entourage dahil gusto namin ng "unifromity." rant! hahah

^sis edna_mode, antayin ng mga tita mo na ikasal anak nila. and saka nila sabihin na 'pwde mag imbita ang mga tita. ahaha. ika nga eh, hindi naman mainly reunion ng family ang weddings. immediate will do, not all the 1st degree cousins. if that's the case they want, they should shoulder the cost. One or two representative from one family is enough. the kids dont need to be there naman dba.nyahaha! kala nila kasalang bayan lang na pwde magdala ng bangko. 
couples choose their venue. they can suggest but nasa atin ang final say. anyway, tayo rin naman ang gagastos ng major major, hahaha. nakakabrat nga ang mga ganyang relatives! hehe.

isa pang ayoong sagot mga sis, yung pag ininvite mo eh ang sagot, "TRY KO".  .
straight YES or NO is much appreciated dba!

[sparklingjewel]

- Pinagdadamot daw namin yung wedding - hindi kase sila maka imbita ng mga gusto nilang imbitahin
- Bakit daw kase sa tagaytay pa ang napiling venue, samantalang ang daming venues daw sa maynila na "patag" naman ang daan. -- ayaw kase nila ng may dadaanang mga cliffs at high roads.
- Ayaw nilang pasukatan yung isang pamangkin nila na Jr. bridesmaid ko.

Wow ha. Bratiinellas indeed! These are the kind of people I wouldn't even want at my wedding (wishful thinking!) Sa totoo lang, the wedding is fully the couple's discretion wherever they want to hold it! Yung iba nga kaya destination wedding e para di na pumunta those people who aren't really close to the couple! Personally if these comments happen to me deadma to death. Pag sumobra sila i might not even send them an invite. As for those na pahirapan sukatan, simple, dont print the invites until you have a good comfortable set of entourage---replace the pasaways before you print the invites! Sakin kung ayaw mo wag na! Easy

^ I did this sis. I omitted one of my flower girls dahil 'paimportante'. actually supposedly i have 5 FG  and those 2 nga are giving me stress.

isa pang ayoong sagot mga sis, yung pag ininvite mo eh ang sagot, "TRY KO".  .
straight YES or NO is much appreciated dba!

Goodjob sis! Paimportante people do not deserve free gowns As for guests who will say Try ko, ok lang if malayo pa deadline for RSVP baka hindi palang naaayos sched nila. But after the RSVP deadline i will just send a reminder text or call that no confirmation means no seat so i really need their response. and pag wala padin, im sorry pero i will count that as a NO and replace them with other people to invite.

[imprincessfiona]

Wow part 7 na. Ibig sabihin madami talagang problemang na-eencounter. Hay buti na lang graduate na ako. Happy preps mga sis! Enjoy nyo lang yan kasi yan ang pinaka-nakaka-excite na part before saying I DO!

[Maxim04]

Goodjob sis! Paimportante people do not deserve free gowns As for guests who will say Try ko, ok lang if malayo pa deadline for RSVP baka hindi palang naaayos sched nila. But after the RSVP deadline i will just send a reminder text or call that no confirmation means no seat so i really need their response. and pag wala padin, im sorry pero i will count that as a NO and replace them with other people to invite.

^ correct sis, counted as NO na yun. We wanted to send save the dates lang kasi dun sa talagang pupunta. We know naman na MOST of the invitations na ipapamigay natin eh itatapon lang nila. hehe. But yes, we need to invest DIY-ing them and pa order pa nga minsan diba. Kaso ganun talaga. Some will still be paimportante. Hahaha.

[f878]

my sorta kinda problem is my mother. 2 weeks na lang before the wedding and wala pa syang damit! 
i've asked her so many times to buy na pero lage nyang sinasabi na sya na lang pipili at bibili. di ko rin naman sya masamahan since puro meetings kame pag weekends. feeling ko medyo in-denial pa sya na ikakasal ang panganay nya kase almost every time na pinag-uusapan yung kasal ko tumatahimik sya o kaya ngingiti lang. ang cute lang ng nanay ko pero sana makabili na syang damit! haha!

[yannuh]

^san nyo balak bumili sis? sa mga mall dept store madami:) pero i think pricey din sya. madami din sa Divi na RTW at ok naman basta matyaga ka maghanap:)

[120515]

she'll find one, f878 or maybe she just needs some girl bonding time with you and you can do it while shopping for her dress?