Boring personality, how can I improve it. help?

[mikewazowski]

Cause: I became shy and quiet nung naghit ng puberty. Kaya boring kasama. As in, boring topics halos di nagsasalita. Kumonti kaibigan - pilit kasama - lone wolf.


Ang boring ko talaga na tao, medyo on serious side (na ayaw maging serious side). Bland, dull, average, gloomy, b*tch face = yeap, unapproachable


Usual topic of females (fashion, good looking guys, chismis, talk smack about strangers, tumblr, and as such) di ko trip. Di ako ganan. Mas prefer ko kasi genuine talk, yung parang usapang probinsya lang na masaya at simple lang


"Be yourself" pero kung hindi ko na maexpress, anong sense. Hirap mag reach out para saken

[px17]

“It's better to have a few faithful friends than numerous shallow friendships.”

Ano ba ang hinahanap mo sis? maraming friends? magkaiba ang friend sa barkada IMO. Hindi mo naman kailangan iplease ang isang tao para maging friend mo eh. Tsaka how sure you are na napipilitan lang sila na kasama ka? Para sakin hindi ka nila aayin kung ayaw nila sayo.

Introvert ako so usually I prefer to be alone. Pero I have few friends who knows me very well. Kaya kahit hindi ko pa sila kausapin or tahimik lang ako nanjan parin sila para sakin. Tsaka ganyan din ako ayaw ko ng small talks tsaka hindi palakwento at kalog. Pero still nakahanap ako ng totoong friends.

Just be you and be confident. Hindi mo kailangan ibahin sarili para lang magkaron ng barkada.

[mikewazowski]

Yes I prefer few genuine companions. Hindi ako naghahanap ng friends hehe. Gusto ko magreach out, be good at conversations, hindi kasi ako makasimula ng topic or magcontinue nung usapan kasi wala ako masabi. Madalas pag di kakilala, nod with smile lang. Ewan, di ko alam.. Baka wala lang ako experience at wala lang maisip na interesting topics. Hays, pati ba naman pagsosocialize problema ko

[mikewazowski]

Hmm okay try ko  thanks

[tomatostellar]

Para sakin being quiet doesn't necessarily equate to being boring.
Pero kung ang gusto mo mangyari is mag improve when it comes to holding a conversation, you can start by asking questions ~ sabi nga ni soulsister be interested. A lot of people are conceited ~ all they want to talk about is tungkol sa sarili nila haha. Of course listen sa kausap mo from there you can find something na you can relate to.
But then kung di mo naman talaga trip yung mga topics that girls usually discuss then thats fine.

[Miss Taken]

Para saken may pagkakaiba ang boring sa pagiging tahimik eh. Ako kasi pag hindi ko kaclose yung mga kasama ko or hindi kami same ng mga gusto eh usually listener lang ako at hindi masyado nagsshare. Pero once na ang kasama ko same personality as me then nagiging makulet and open ako. I think depende rin yan talaga sa mga taong nasa paligid mo.

Ano bang hilig mo sis? Try to make friends with other people na same kayo ng interest para may maisshare ka pag nagusap kayo at syempre pag may common ground na kayo natural na lang magfflow yung paguusap niyo dba And I think you're just an introvert like me. I only like going out dun sa mga kaclose ko and most of the time nageenjoy din ako kahit solo mode hehe

[simang]

Find a hobby. Not necessarily one that's liked by many, basta kung anong trip mo gawin.

Baka wala lang ako experience at wala lang maisip na interesting topics.

Experience things, then You'll be fine.