Re: Going out with Him

[snowhite_12]

Dating Stage pa kami. anyway, the guy wants to go out with me sa isang magandang resort, na mag overnight stay. we have the same taste. mahilig sa extreme adventure/travel solo. i agree na mag swimming kami but he suggested na mag overnight stay. Which hindi pa ako nag agree. kasi yung usapan lang namin mag swimming during day time lang.  I like him but do you guys think it's too early to go out an overnight stay sa resort with him? do u think he wants an intimate moments with me? he seems a nice guy naman. hindi bastos kausap at ma kasama. na confused lang ako.

[bagaholic_chewy]

^ i'd say, he's testing kung ready and willing ka na to be intimate with him.

[AVIDGOLFER]

Hmmmmmmmmm sounds familiar....LoL

As a guy I can say he's testing the water and if ever you agree to stay overnite meaning you're ready for everything and the consequences that entails to stay with him.

You can stay overnite provided you like the idea and the outcome, if not you can politely decline the offer. However, whether it is daytime/nite time or overnight stay if you're really wanted to give it a try and to give him a chance then so be it.

[Girltalker2]

Sis, sabi mo early stages palang kayo in dating. So if both of you are interested to go sa resort, you can still go naman but separate rooms. Tsaka you pay for your own, he pays in his own. No expectations.

I've dated this guy before na pareho kami avid fan to travel and see places. Nagyaya kami ng group pero wala naman magkasama kesyo budget issue, kesyo sched issue etc. since we wanted to go to the place as we haven't gone there, tinuloy na namin. We went to the same resort, but separate rooms as it was clear to him from the start na I'm not ready for a relationship but enjoys his company/friendship. After that trip, nagyaya ulit sya but he said he would just go to a backpacker's lodge kasi very expensive daw yung pili ko na hotel for solo. Lol! He was a nice guy and gentleman but I thought he wasn't the guy for me. Up until now, we remained friends. Syempre may BF nako and he is married now with a kid, so di na puede travel buddy. 

Impression ko kasi sa mga out of town trips na ganyan especially if the guy pays for both of you - is natural na may mangyayari. Regardless if mag BF na kayo o hindi pa. Ang tanong ok lang ba sayo yun, I hope not.

[Frozen Toes]

Pag sumama ka, green light na yun for him, kahit separate rooms pa kayo. If you really want to go to this resort and ayaw mo na may mangyari, bring other friends para may magbabantay sayo.

I can sort of relate dyan sa kwento mo. This guy is asking me naman to go on a trip to Boracay with him on his birthday. He said he'll take care of everything which is weird because I'm not even dating him. So I said No because 1.) hello, alam naman nyang may thing kami ng cousin nya and 2.) I can pay for my own.

There ain't no such thing as a free lunch.

[simang]

Dumadamoves naman si kuya. Lol. Kung hindi ka comfortable, say no. Yun lang

[momentum]

sooo...ano na ngyari dito TS? sumama ka ba? 
teka, ito ba ang guy na sinabi mo na "biglang naglaho na parang bula?"    nag-appear na ba uli? hehe

[Girltalker2]

^ if ever same guy, kapal naman ng mukha to offer sex samantalang nawawala wala sya from time to time.

Baka married si guy or sex lang habol.

[snowhite_12]

no,different guy. day time lang kami. Hindi ako comfortable sa overnight. he understand naman. Anyway, i enjoy swimming with him. Tinuruan nya pa ako mag swimming hehe