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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #20 on: May 30, 2015, 09:24:46 pm »
If it was me - I could have let the incident pass, no biggie. i will just totally ignore manong guard, pag inulit, ignore ko nalang din until magsawa na sya kakasita sa akin.

Or

If I need to approach the guard or answer back, I would explain first my predicament, saying "pasensya na ha kasi (put explanation here). will try to come early pero baka hindi kasi kaya dahil sa trabaho ko.... or something to that effect, will joke around it a bit to make the situation light. I would treat manong guard with kindness.

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Honestly sis, based on your story, when you approach me, kahit na mahinahon pa pagkakasabi mo sa akin - with a question like that, my tendency is to be defensive.Again, if you probably started with a light explanation - baka things will things will out for the better pa. Tapos you let someone speak on your behalf pa, baka na caught off guard si manong guard kasi nagsama ka ng kakampi.

Ngayon, even if you are a good customer, you will never know, baka pinag uusapan ka na nila, and you become the butt of jokes because of your actions.

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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #21 on: May 31, 2015, 06:16:27 am »
You should have just let it slide. A lot of security guards either banter o kaya masungit. I learned from "Isumbong mo kay Tulfo" program that guards are outsourced from security companies and they are mostly overworked but underpaid.

He doesn't know why you're always a buzzer beater client and you don't know why he said those things.
Nakakainis, yes. But you were still able to go about your business naman.

Then comes the confrontation from your boyfriend.. It is as such kasi otherwise, try niyo din muna kunin yung kabilang side to understand better. You used the "customer ako" card insisting you can go in as long as it's before 5pm. Pano kung important pala talaga yung 2minutes na sinasabi ng guard?

Good intentions di ba win win situation? You'd like the guard to learn and improve his customer service skills so he won't do it again to you or to others. It's also part of his line of work so he might be promoted if he gets better. Mga ganun sana
And well, a POV does seem like nagsumbong ka tapos BF mo na yung sumugod sa guard.
I agree na instead of learning, the guard just had his defense mechanism up.

After that ruckus, yes, they may remember you and might talk or joke about you. Normal yun sa pinoy.
On the upside, the guard might treat you better. If he's sarcastic though, mainis ka pa din siguro. Also, padating ka pa lang pwede umayos na sila to give you good service out of fear (or joke) na iconfront ng BF mo.

Unless they removed the guard from his job.. Would that make you happy?

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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #22 on: May 31, 2015, 10:26:55 am »
^agree ako sis na underpaid ang mga guards, second handed kasi kami for security offfice outsources nga sila wala silang ot pay kadalasan straight pa palagi kasi wala ang kapalitan, delay ang sweldo as in inaabot ng two weeks or swelduhan na ulit bago makuha sweldo nila. SSS and pag ibig may kaltas sila pero pagnag loan sila wala makuha kasi walang hulog. Wala silang mga bonus or other incentives sila pa nagbabayad lisensyanila sa baril dapat sagot ng agency yun kasi yun baril naman hindi naka under name nila. Bakit sila pumapayag kasi walang choice kesa walang trabaho diba. Wala kami magawa kasi sa agency kami nagbabayad. Karamahin sa kanila maraming utang para ibuhay sa pamilya karamihan pa naman galing sa malayong probinsya. Nakakaawa sila kaya i always treat them nicely natutunan naming hindi sila mambabastos kung hindi sila mapro-provoke madalas lagi silang defensive kasi hindi naman sila ganun katulad ng iba na mataas ang pinagaralan ang malimit na treatment nila survival. OT na ba sorry.
Anyway sa situation kahit kinausap ng maayos ang dating kasi parang rumesbak ka( yan ang term ng mga guard kalimitan) or bumawi ka kasi nagdala ka ng kasama then inopen yun topic one time pa lang nangyari sana nagpasensya muna. Tama ka naman 5pm cut off time pero diba kung minsan nakakainis ang mga pahulihuli or kung kelan ka orasan na may pahabol pa. Buti sana kung one time mo lang ginawa kaso habit na yun tinggin nila sa ginagawa mo kasi hindi naman nila alam reason mo. Siguro kasi nabadtirp ka kasi nagmamadali ka tapos sinita ka pa.100% ako napagalitan si manong guard at oo nga pala madalas ha ginagawa lang nila kung ano inuutos sa kanila malay mo may advice sa kanya na sabihan o iremind ang mga almost late comers na customer. Kahit naman naiinis na mga teller sa customer no choice rin naman sila kung hindi pakisamahan ng maayos si customer diba?

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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #23 on: June 01, 2015, 01:53:20 pm »
Talagang nadala lang ako ng emotions ko kasi kala ko walang issue na humabol sa oras nila tapos with a smile pa ko humarap sa kanila kaya di ko talaga inexpect na biglang may sisita ng ganun (^tama ka sis masakit pa paa ko kasi lakad takbo ginagawa ko para makahabol). At ang naisip ko kung may tinitingnan pala sa oras yung guard sana sinabi in a nice way. Magkaiba naman kasi sinabi nung mga staff sa loob sa sinabi ni manong guard, so ang pinanghawakan ko yung sinabi nung staff.

Thanks again mga sis sa mga inputs nyo. I get to understand more and picture out the scenario. Di ko naisip agad what would be the possible outcome of my actions.
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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #24 on: June 01, 2015, 02:19:41 pm »
the last thing you want is to argue with a guard armed with a 12gauge shotgun  ;D

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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #25 on: June 07, 2015, 10:58:54 am »
if you don't mind me asking, why not during lunch break ka pumunta since malapit lang naman a work and makakabalik agad to have your lunch. pag mga ganyan kase pinapalagpas nalang. I know mahirap kase nakaka-asar talaga (coming from a pikon like me). ikaw den kase talo, pag ikaw pinanigan ng managger and may sanction sa kanya, okay na ba sayo na nasuspend siya without pay for a number of days (thinking na baka may pamilya yun na kelangan ng sweldo nya). or hindi ikaw pinanigan, asar ka lang lalo (thinking na nainsulto ka ng guard and he got away with it).
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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #26 on: June 07, 2015, 12:53:15 pm »
kawawa naman si manong guard. ginagawa nya lang ng tama ang work nya.

sabi mo 5 pm ang closing nila at 5pm din out mo sa work. tapos 4:55 uma alis kana sa work at 5mins or less lang papunta sa bank. ibig sabihin may chance na sakto 5pm ka na nakaka punta sa bank nila at pinapasok ka pa din. or 4:58pm may 2mins ka pa. pero pinag bibigayan ka pa din ni manong guard at mga staff. kasi client ka nila. pero di mo ba naisip kung pagod ka eh pagod din sila. at mas pagod si manong guard. imagine whole hours of work nya nakatayo siya at mainit o malamig sa labas? tapos ilang beses ka na pala nag hahabol sa oras. buti sana kung once lang. to think na natatandaan na ni manong guard na lagi ganon ginagawa mo. kaya napag sabihan ka nya na. ginagawa lang nya work nya. buti nga ginagawa nya ng mabuti work nya. mahal nya work nya.

0T: mahirap ang work ng mga guards. field engineer ang work ng asawa ko. taga ayos sya ng mga atm sa mga bangko. at may isa guard sa isang bangko na client nila. kung ano ano ang binebenta sa asawa ko na mga frozen foods. binibili nalang ng asawa ko yun binebenta ng guard sakanya. kahit medyo mahal compared sa palengke. kasi alam nya hirap ng work ng mga guard at maliit lang ang sahod.

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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #27 on: June 14, 2015, 12:35:06 pm »
hi sis.... oo its your right naman na humabol last minute... mali naman si guard doon...
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dapat pinalagpas mo nalang...kung pwede iwasan., iwasan nalang.
yung kausap kausap na yan.. with good intentions,confrontational parin yan eh..  daragan parin yan in pinoys term... at first time palang naman din palang ginawa sayo.. sorry pero binig deal mo talaga  :(, big deal in a sense na pinost mo pa sa isang forum, na sa ibang tao.. deadma lang. life goes on.

i would agree with diann28... mahirap ang work ng mga guards. lagi nalang sila binabastarda ng mga tao... nakatayo 12 hours tapos minimum pay... dinadaan daanan lang ng mga tao pag nanita sila, sila pa masama... eh yun yung work nila eh,. pero oo, may mga ibang wala sa lugar

but anyways, going back to your situation... papano kung t******* yung guard na yun? sundan ka? baka mapahamak ka? regular client ka kasi sis, kaya ingat ka... maraming loko ngayon.

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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #28 on: June 14, 2015, 03:48:14 pm »
not a big deal sana to sis. Trabaho nila yun sis e. Just let it slide. Chill chill lang. Ako, personally, ayoko gumawa ng scene or makipag away sa guard kasi takot ako ma-viral, haha and worst mag mukhang easily angered or mapag-patol.
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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #29 on: June 14, 2015, 05:48:34 pm »
hmmm ang outlook ko kasi is not because i am a customer eh that means reyna na ako ng mundo nila. of course kelangan mo rin isipin yung iba tao (even if hanggang 5 talaga) kasi siyempre maagrabyado din sila.
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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #30 on: June 14, 2015, 07:44:08 pm »
tama rin pala isang sis dito, baka topic ka rin ng jokes nila, or tipong may bansag na sayo na last minute queen...

nagwork ako sa isang restaurant dati, 11pm ang close, may regulars kami ma dadating 1050pm na.. magmeemeeting pa magkukwentuhan pa ng matagal. syempre all smiles ka parin.  pero lahat kami gigil na gigil na...

nagcall center nako after... alam mo yung paout kana bigla ka pa nagkacall a minute before your log out.. kahit wala namang masamang ginagawa kausap ko.. napapamura parin ako..

binasa ko ulit post mo sis. close napala sila nung dumating ka, pero pinapasok ka na lang rin, sarcastic lang si guard pero may point naman siya na agahan mo nga naman kasi parang "one time courtesy" ang pagpasok sayo, kasi baka sa next na punta mo sarado na sila, magpumilit ka.. kaya agahan mo next time.
yung pag close nila ng door before 5pm as per manager yun, hindi guards nagdedecide na magclose na.. kaya hindi nagtugma na sabi ni teller ok pa..


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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #31 on: June 14, 2015, 08:18:03 pm »
^ baka din sis kaya sinabi ni teller na "pwede pa" was because of courtesy na lang.
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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #32 on: June 15, 2015, 12:53:12 am »
For me, you're in the wrong. The way I see business hours is this: If they are open from, say, 8-5pm, 5pm tapos na dapat lahat sila. Especially if this is also the same as their working hours. Hindi, 4:59:59 eh puwede pa silang mag-entertain ng customers. Imagine if all customers did that, eh di wala nang katapusan ang trabaho.

If you're late once or twice, it's fine. But since naging habitual na, eh nakakainis naman talaga. Nali-late sila umuwi eh who knows kung binabayaran sila for OT. And even if they get paid, is it worth it? No.

I don't see anything wrong with what the guard said either. From what you posted, he was still very polite towards you. Hindi ka naman niya minura or sinigawan. You made it worse by bringing your boyfriend. It's like you can't even fight your own battles and if I were the guard, I will see that as a threat din.

Last, hindi porket he's a guard, he needs to be quiet and servile towards anyone. He's also an employee and like everyone who works in that bank, he is just as inconvenienced by your being late all the time. He has a right to complain.

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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #33 on: June 15, 2015, 08:34:19 am »
Naging teller din ako sis, 5pm closing time ng branch pero kaming mga teller ay magbabalanse pa ng pera. Tapos kung disbalanse pa, irreview pa namin lahat ng transactions for that day para hanapin yung kulang. Kung malaki pa ang disbalanse, irreview pa namin ang cctv kung sinong client yung nabigyan ng sobrang pera. Kasi pag hindi na-trace, kami ang magbabayad the next day. So mga atleat 7pm labas, walang OT pay yan ha.

Si manong guard, he was just helping out the tellers and for security purposes na din yan. Mabait pa nga sila kasi they let you in pa, usually 445pm di na magpapasok yan. Kahit akong teller, sinasabihan ko din clients na next time agahan ng konti ang punta sa branch para di naghahabol. Kung ayaw mo masabihan, agahan mo ang punta.
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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #34 on: June 15, 2015, 09:27:54 am »
Oh! so this is on another level na kasi nagsama kana ng bf awts, so lumaki na nga ang situation why do you have to bring him pa, its dangerous kasi men easily get mad and they dont think pa galit na, buti hindi nagkasakitan, this is so wrong i just cant....

Like majority of suggestions here agahan mo nalang.

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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #35 on: June 15, 2015, 11:58:27 am »
^^e sis nagtanong naman ako bago ako nag open ng acct kung pwedeng humabol ng 5pm, nabanggit ko kasi dun sa staff na 5pm din out ko, sabi nya oo daw basta abot sa oras kaya sa buong pag aakala ko wala namang problema nung mga time na pumupunta ko.  At kung may instruction pala ang manager o ibang staff sa mga guard na may oras lang na pwedeng magpapasok, how come iba ang sinabi saken? Ang gulo lang.

^sis kasi naisip ni bf na baka may gawin si manong guard kaya sya sumama.
« Last Edit: June 15, 2015, 12:03:50 pm by heartfortress »

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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #36 on: June 15, 2015, 02:07:58 pm »
alam mo sa totoo lang ... feeling ko lang ha. yung para sakin lang ... mas tama si manong guard... ginagawa nya lang ng tama ang trabaho nya. ang manita. at mag paalala sa mga clients nila.. kaw na din nag sabi na last minute ka na nakaka punta. or exactly 5pm pero pinag bibigyan ka pa din nila. dapat maging thankful ka na dun. kasi pinapa pasok ka pa din nila. tapos all smile ka pumupunta dun at pag nakaka salubong mo si manong guard ... syempre kahit ako ganon gagawin ko. kasi last minute na ako pupunta. sisimangutan ko pa sila? mag all smile na din ako. tulad ng ginagawa mo ( pero ako kapag nag babayad ako ng cc sa bank kahit on time ako naka all smile pa din ako sa mga tellers at guards ) ...

yun sa pag dala mo sa bf mo at kausapin si manong guard dahil last minute ka pumupunta dun... sana di na humantong dun. malay mo may nag video pala sainyo at ipost pa yun sa fb at maging trending.na aalala ko tuloy yun napanood ko sa fb. isa guard sinita nya isa customer sa isang fast food chain. na ilabas ang alaga aso kasi no pet allowed inside. nagalit yun lalake at si guard relax lang din. ginawa lang ni guard yun work nya. na manita at mag remind sa client/customer. pero sya pa ang napahiya.
malay mo ganon din ang dating ng mga tao sa mga nakakita or nakarinig sa man to man talk ng bf mo at ng guard diba?

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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #37 on: June 15, 2015, 02:49:38 pm »
^ thanks sa advice sis pati sa opinion na din ng ibang sisses here. Di pa din ako bumalik ulit sa bank kasi di talaga kaya ng oras na magpunta ng mas maaga lalo na ngayon kelangan 5 talaga ko mag out.
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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #38 on: June 20, 2015, 12:09:28 pm »
sis, wala ka ba lunch break or afternoon break? hindi pwede that time ka sumaglit sa bank. ganyan kase ginagawa ko pag wala talaga ko time sa hapon. sumasaglit ako pag break or lunch break,
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Re: Pinagsabihan ng Security Guard
« Reply #39 on: June 20, 2015, 01:37:26 pm »
^nung kasagsagan ng summer sis di talaga ko lumalabas sa afternoon kasi sobrang init, sa part na yan ako guilty bakit di ako pumupuntang bank ng lunchbreak. Sa ngayon naman may nadagdag kasi sa workload ko kaya hindi rin ako makaalis ng lunchbreak. dto lang ako sa workplace kumakain.

 


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